Marriage advocate Dr. Bob Paul says he really doesn't like it when couples blow out individual candles at weddings and leave only one burning. Why, you may ask? Well, he says it's because oneness doesn't mean the loss of each person's identity. In fact, the healthier each person is in the marriage, the healthier that marriage will be. 

Bob Paul is coauthor of the book, 9 Lies That Will Destroy Your Marriage: And the Truths That Will Save it and Set it Free.