From Messy to Maintainable: How to Stay Communicative and Organized in Your Marriage

1 - Create Consistent Traditions that Serve Multiple Means - SaturdayCoffee, Walk, Connect & Discuss during a Family Review Time. 

2 - Leaning in honestly/openly on each others strengths.

3 - Create a Joint Family Calendar - via iCloud, Gmail, reduces errors and event overlaps while increasing accountability AND awareness for ALL members.

4 - Identify the Lead Social Coordinator - Who heads up which event. We BOTH get emailed but one person is the LEAD. I handle School and he handles sports. We still check in on STATUS of things.

5 - Hearing vs. Listening - Know best times of day AND best ways to communicate it. Do I have his 100% attention, (avoids repeating info) get confirmation, then start with what I need, then discuss. I repeat what was decided as FINAL CONFIRM. Saturday office time together.

 6 - Quiet Time Together - Front Porch Happy Hour, Poolside with Fancy Drinks. Kids have quiet time. 

7 - Rest as a Ritual - Nap taking, sleep mask, headphones, mediation app) lavendar spray, ozone machine & exhaust fan on. Kids can play outside so quiet house or games as treat. When younger graham crackers & milk inside Thomas the Train tent. Taught kids respect and self control. 

Guest: Danielle Wurth

From Messy to Maintainable: How to Stay Communicative and Organized in Your Marriage
1 - Create Consistent Traditions that Serve Multiple Means - Saturday Coffee, Walk, Connect &amp; Discuss during a Family Review Time.&nbsp;
2 - Leaning in honestly/openly on each others strengths.
3 - Create a Joint Family Calendar - via iCloud, Gmail, reduces errors and event overlaps while increasing accountability AND awareness for ALL members.
4 - Identify the Lead Social Coordinator - Who heads up which event. We BOTH get emailed but one person is the LEAD. I handle School and he handles sports. We still check in on STATUS of things.
5 - Hearing vs. Listening - Know best times of day AND best ways to communicate it. Do I have his 100% attention, (avoids repeating info) get confirmation, then start with what I need, then discuss. I repeat what was decided as FINAL CONFIRM. Saturday office time together.
&nbsp;6 - Quiet Time Together - Front Porch Happy Hour, Poolside with Fancy Drinks. Kids have quiet time.&nbsp;
7 - Rest as a Ritual - Nap taking, sleep mask, headphones, mediation app) lavendar spray, ozone machine &amp; exhaust fan on. Kids can play outside so quiet house or games as treat. When younger graham crackers &amp; milk inside Thomas the Train tent. Taught kids respect and self control.&nbsp;
Guest: <a href="https://wurthorganizing.com/">Danielle Wurth</a>

Welcome to Messy Marriages... Sharing stories of messy moments in marriages and how we make the most of our mistakes.  We will undress the truth about sex, intimacy and lifelong love.  What are the concerns and questions most couples have in marriage and often go unspoken, until now.  Host Marc Lucas brings wisdom, authenticity and practical advice to even the toughest marriage topics. 

The conversations around sex and intimacy in marriage might not be appropriate for all audiences. 

Marc Lucas Radio

Welcome to Messy Marriages... Sharing stories of messy moments in marriages and how we make the most of our mistakes.&nbsp; We will undress the truth about sex, intimacy and lifelong love.&nbsp; What are the concerns and questions most couples have in marriage and often go unspoken, until now.&nbsp; Host Marc Lucas brings wisdom, authenticity and practical advice to even the toughest marriage topics.&nbsp;
The conversations around sex and intimacy in marriage might not be appropriate for all audiences.&nbsp;
<a href="https://marclucasradio.com/">Marc Lucas Radio</a>

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