Is it healthy to never argue?

Our father is having an affair

Break 1

My friend is dating a non-Catholic

Guilt after a divorce 

Break 2

The man I am with won't marry me

Share a joy from your childhood 

Is it healthy to never argue with your spouse? What should you do if you discover your father is having an affair? Doug answers these questions and more.

 

Listener questions and comments:
Samantha - My friend wants to get married but the guy is not Catholic or a US citizen. What's good advice for my friend without being a know-it-all? (18:14)
Stefano - How do you deal with lust in a dating relationship when your partner wants to take things too far. (29:30)
Phillip - Response to Stefano: Unless she wants to convert there are so many issues waiting to happen. It’s more than just a sexual problem. (42:36)

 

Resources:

 

Marriage Unhindered

https://www.marriageunhindered.com/

 

Happy Marriage for Life

https://www.happymarriageforlife.com/

Is it healthy to never argue with your spouse? What should you do if you discover your father is having an affair? Doug answers these questions and more.
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Listener questions and comments:
<ul>
<li>Samantha - My friend wants to get married but the guy is not Catholic or a US citizen. What's good advice for my friend without being a know-it-all? (18:14)</li>
<li>Stefano - How do you deal with lust in a dating relationship when your partner wants to take things too far. (29:30)</li>
<li>Phillip - Response to Stefano: Unless she wants to convert there are so many issues waiting to happen. It&rsquo;s more than just a sexual problem. (42:36)</li>
</ul>
&nbsp;
Resources:
&nbsp;
Marriage Unhindered
<a href="https://www.marriageunhindered.com/">https://www.marriageunhindered.com/</a>
&nbsp;
Happy Marriage for Life
<a href="https://www.happymarriageforlife.com/">https://www.happymarriageforlife.com/</a>

Marriage Unhindered is a sincere exploration of the joys and challenges within the realm of marriage. Hosted by the seasoned Doug Hinderer, this one-hour, caller-based show is scheduled to air every Saturday from 11am – 12pm CT, and will offer listeners an authentic journey into the complexities of marital relationships.

Marriage Unhindered is a sincere exploration of the joys and challenges within the realm of marriage. Hosted by the seasoned Doug Hinderer, this one-hour, caller-based show is scheduled to air every Saturday from 11am – 12pm CT, and will offer listeners an authentic journey into the complexities of marital relationships.

Marriage Unhindered

What happens if you never argue?

Growing through trauma

spiritual vs. physical suffering

Trauma defined

Overcoming childhood trauma

Joe Sikorra joins Doug to discuss his book Defying Gravity. They also discuss post traumatic growth, sharing how we can heal through finding purpose and meaning in suffering and trusting in God’s will for us.

 

Listener questions and comments:
Deedee - Is there such a thing as one type of suffering being more valuable than the other, such as spiritual over physical? (18:05)
Stephen - I have a broken relationship with my sisters because they want my Vietnam war pension and I want to know what to do to fix the relationship. (27:09)
Mercedes - Because of the trauma I had as a young girl I feel like something is lingering and I have a hard time trusting others. What do I do to move forward? (33:48)
Teresa - I was abused and that has caused fear and it seems to control my life. I want my life to be in God’s hands. (39:20)
Christine - My mother is 89, lives in another country and I feel like I am dealing with grief but she hasn't actually passed away. Is that even possible? (43:08)

 

Resources:

 

Joe Sikorra’s Books

https://joesikorra.com/books-2/

 

Catholic Therapists

https://catholictherapists.com/

 

Catholic Psychotherapy

https://catholicpsychotherapy.org/

Joe Sikorra joins Doug to discuss his book&nbsp;Defying Gravity.&nbsp;They also discuss post traumatic growth, sharing how we can heal through finding purpose and meaning in suffering and trusting in God&rsquo;s will for us.
&nbsp;
Listener questions and comments:
<ul>
<li>Deedee - Is there such a thing as one type of suffering being more valuable than the other, such as spiritual over physical? (18:05)</li>
<li>Stephen - I have a broken relationship with my sisters because they want my Vietnam war pension and I want to know what to do to fix the relationship. (27:09)</li>
<li>Mercedes - Because of the trauma I had as a young girl I feel like something is lingering and I have a hard time trusting others. What do I do to move forward? (33:48)</li>
<li>Teresa - I was abused and that has caused fear and it seems to control my life. I want my life to be in God&rsquo;s hands. (39:20)</li>
<li>Christine - My mother is 89, lives in another country and I feel like I am dealing with grief but she hasn't actually passed away. Is that even possible? (43:08)</li>
</ul>
&nbsp;
Resources:
&nbsp;
Joe Sikorra&rsquo;s Books
<a href="https://joesikorra.com/books-2/">https://joesikorra.com/books-2/</a>
&nbsp;
Catholic Therapists
<a href="https://catholictherapists.com/">https://catholictherapists.com/</a>
&nbsp;
Catholic Psychotherapy
<a href="https://catholicpsychotherapy.org/">https://catholicpsychotherapy.org/</a>

Growing Through Trauma

Raising grumpy teenagers

Practical tips

Getting children to help

Give a compliment

Monica Hinderer joins Doug to discuss tips for dealing with a grumpy teenager.

 

Listener questions and comments:
Clara - How do you handle balancing your emotions and venting while dealing with teens? (22:24)
Sarah - You both are super helpful. How do we speak to teens about helping around the house and being attentive to the needs of people and the household? (32:15)
Len - There is a great story. Teens are aware of the growth they have after the end of their teen years. (38:20)

Monica Hinderer joins Doug to discuss tips for dealing with a grumpy teenager.
&nbsp;
Listener questions and comments:
<ul>
<li>Clara - How do you handle balancing your emotions and venting while dealing with teens? (22:24)</li>
<li>Sarah - You both are super helpful. How do we speak to teens about helping around the house and being attentive to the needs of people and the household? (32:15)</li>
<li>Len - There is a great story. Teens are aware of the growth they have after the end of their teen years. (38:20)</li>
</ul>

Advice for dealing with grumpy teenagers

Having a large family

Raising Blue-Collar Kids

Children in public vs. at home

Teaching kids to suffer well

Conor Gallagher joins Doug to discuss his book: Raising Blue-Collar Kids in a White-Collar World.

 

Listener questions and comments:
Ilene - What do you have to say about kids who are great in public, getting tons of praise but at home are really bad. (18:14)
Paul - My mom always said 'offer it up' to any problem my kids have and we can link it to the Mass. (24:15)
Brother John - Do you have any sons going into the priesthood? (27:21)
Steven - Most kids who misbehave in public usually misbehave in the home too. (35:25)

 

Resources:

Tan Books

https://tanbooks.com/

 

Well Ordered Family

https://wellorderedfamily.com/

 

Raising Blue-Collar Kids in a White-Collar World: Toughening Up Your Kids with Grit and Grace

https://tanbooks.com/products/books/raising-blue-collar-kids-in-a-white-collar-world-toughening-up-your-kids-with-grit-and-grace/?srsltid=AfmBOorAsAGCX9TdlB2no4ihZvOkOCVVRlLWfbReCwv_cVWeGQqhV4RC

Conor Gallagher joins Doug to discuss his book:&nbsp;Raising Blue-Collar Kids in a White-Collar World.
&nbsp;
Listener questions and comments:
<ul>
<li>Ilene - What do you have to say about kids who are great in public, getting tons of praise but at home are really bad. (18:14)</li>
<li>Paul - My mom always said 'offer it up' to any problem my kids have and we can link it to the Mass. (24:15)</li>
<li>Brother John - Do you have any sons going into the priesthood? (27:21)</li>
<li>Steven - Most kids who misbehave in public usually misbehave in the home too. (35:25)</li>
</ul>
&nbsp;
Resources:
Tan Books
<a href="https://tanbooks.com/">https://tanbooks.com/</a>
&nbsp;
Well Ordered Family
<a href="https://wellorderedfamily.com/">https://wellorderedfamily.com/</a>
&nbsp;
Raising Blue-Collar Kids in a White-Collar World: Toughening Up Your Kids with Grit and Grace
<a href="https://tanbooks.com/products/books/raising-blue-collar-kids-in-a-white-collar-world-toughening-up-your-kids-with-grit-and-grace/?srsltid=AfmBOorAsAGCX9TdlB2no4ihZvOkOCVVRlLWfbReCwv_cVWeGQqhV4RC">https://tanbooks.com/products/books/raising-blue-collar-kids-in-a-white-collar-world-toughening-up-your-kids-with-grit-and-grace/?srsltid=AfmBOorAsAGCX9TdlB2no4ihZvOkOCVVRlLWfbReCwv_cVWeGQqhV4RC</a>

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