What therapists wish you knew

Break 1

My work as a paramedic 

Baggage does not unpack itself

Break 2

Change is inevitable 

Establish a weekly check-in

Doug continues to unpack 13 things marriage therapists wish couples knew before they got married.

 

Listener questions and comments:
Don - My wife has told me that I've become jaded because of the gross work I do as a paramedic. I feel like I can't share that stuff with my wife because she shouldn’t be subject to it. She feels alienated. (18:04)
Richard - My wife left me for our marriage therapist. How do I find a good therapist in the future? (45:44)

 

Resources:

 

Catholic Therapists

https://catholictherapists.com/

 

Catholic Psychotherapy

https://catholicpsychotherapy.org/

 

Hold Me Tight

https://www.amazon.com/Hold-Me-Tight-Conversations-Lifetime/dp/031611300X

 

Rebuilding Trust

https://relevantradio.com/2026/01/rebuilding-trust/

 

 

Things therapists wish you knew
Marriage isn’t a fix for a broken relationship
Love isn’t all you need
You’re marrying their family too
Conflict is inevitable in every relationship
Financial compatibility is critical
Intimacy fades over time
Your partner can’t fulfill all your needs
Baggage doesn’t unpack itself
You’re going to change and so will your partner
Shared goals are essential
Communication styles matter
Routine can be a double-edged sword
Marriage is not always 50/50

Doug continues to unpack 13 things marriage therapists wish couples knew before they got married.
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Listener questions and comments:
<ul>
<li>Don - My wife has told me that I've become jaded because of the gross work I do as a paramedic. I feel like I can't share that stuff with my wife because she shouldn&rsquo;t be subject to it. She feels alienated. (18:04)</li>
<li>Richard - My wife left me for our marriage therapist. How do I find a good therapist in the future? (45:44)</li>
</ul>
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Resources:
&nbsp;
Catholic Therapists
<a href="https://catholictherapists.com/">https://catholictherapists.com/</a>
&nbsp;
Catholic Psychotherapy
<a href="https://catholicpsychotherapy.org/">https://catholicpsychotherapy.org/</a>
&nbsp;
Hold Me Tight
<a href="https://www.amazon.com/Hold-Me-Tight-Conversations-Lifetime/dp/031611300X">https://www.amazon.com/Hold-Me-Tight-Conversations-Lifetime/dp/031611300X</a>
&nbsp;
Rebuilding Trust
<a href="https://relevantradio.com/2026/01/rebuilding-trust/">https://relevantradio.com/2026/01/rebuilding-trust/</a>
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Things therapists wish you knew
<ol>
<li>Marriage isn&rsquo;t a fix for a broken relationship</li>
<li>Love isn&rsquo;t all you need</li>
<li>You&rsquo;re marrying their family too</li>
<li>Conflict is inevitable in every relationship</li>
<li>Financial compatibility is critical</li>
<li>Intimacy fades over time</li>
<li>Your partner can&rsquo;t fulfill all your needs</li>
<li>Baggage doesn&rsquo;t unpack itself</li>
<li>You&rsquo;re going to change and so will your partner</li>
<li>Shared goals are essential</li>
<li>Communication styles matter</li>
<li>Routine can be a double-edged sword</li>
<li>Marriage is not always 50/50</li>
</ol>

Marriage Unhindered is a sincere exploration of the joys and challenges within the realm of marriage. Hosted by the seasoned Doug Hinderer, this one-hour, caller-based show is scheduled to air every Saturday from 11am – 12pm CT, and will offer listeners an authentic journey into the complexities of marital relationships.

Marriage Unhindered is a sincere exploration of the joys and challenges within the realm of marriage. Hosted by the seasoned Doug Hinderer, this one-hour, caller-based show is scheduled to air every Saturday from 11am – 12pm CT, and will offer listeners an authentic journey into the complexities of marital relationships.