#4 No marriage can last or survive without for

Break 1

Heroic love of a wife

Caller - Mary Alice - I was married long ago a

Caller - Richard - Seeking help is so true. My

Break 2

Caller - Clare - When is it appropriate to cal

(8:28) #4 No marriage can last or survive without forgiveness

(16:47) Break 1

(22:31) Heroic love of a wife

(25:36) Caller - Mary Alice - I was married long ago and it ended in divorce and annulment. My biggest mistake was he was not Catholic.

(31:38) Caller - Richard - Seeking help is so true. My wife and I have been married 14 years and we went into Marriage therapy which helped out so much. Cross of infertility. Blessing of foster kids

(36:12) Break 2

(38:54) Clare - When is it appropriate to call it quits in a marriage and think of divorce. My husband separated 9 months ago and is having an affair. Emotionally abusive. What should I do?

(8:28) #4 No marriage can last or survive without forgiveness
(16:47) Break 1
(22:31) Heroic love of a wife
(25:36) Caller - Mary Alice - I was married long ago and it ended in divorce and annulment. My biggest mistake was he was not Catholic.
(31:38) Caller - Richard - Seeking help is so true. My wife and I have been married 14 years and we went into Marriage therapy which helped out so much. Cross of infertility. Blessing of foster kids
(36:12) Break 2
(38:54) Clare - When is it appropriate to call it quits in a marriage and think of divorce. My husband separated 9 months ago and is having an affair. Emotionally abusive. What should I do?

Marriage Unhindered is a sincere exploration of the joys and challenges within the realm of marriage. Hosted by the seasoned Doug Hinderer, this one-hour, caller-based show is scheduled to air every Saturday from 11am – 12pm CT, and will offer listeners an authentic journey into the complexities of marital relationships.

Marriage Unhindered is a sincere exploration of the joys and challenges within the realm of marriage. Hosted by the seasoned Doug Hinderer, this one-hour, caller-based show is scheduled to air every Saturday from 11am – 12pm CT, and will offer listeners an authentic journey into the complexities of marital relationships.

Marriage Unhindered

Marriage Unhindered - April 6, 2024 - 6 Lessons For Marriage

My girlfriend broke up with me

Living with a hoarder

Practical tips for living with a hoarder

Can AI help your marriage?

Was my marriage valid?

Light a candle at dinner 

Why do break ups happen? How do you live with a hoarder? Can AI improve your marriage? Doug goes to the mailbag answering these questions and more.

 

Listener questions and comments:
Christine - I want to give you a solution: A friend of mine said that they made a very small area and her husband could be messy there. (17:41)
Mike - I am a hoarder and I would like to tell you how it is good. (28:56)
Rita - I am a retired therapist and my suggestion is that for the things you feel you can’t throw away, taking pictures help. (30:51)
Ken - I have a first communion garment that I don’t want to give to my nephew. Am I a hoarder for this? (35:00)
Jason - I think AI is a good mediator. It’s like a father but doesn’t get mad. (37:00)
Mike - It depends how you use the AI. If you put in negative prompts it will skew towards what it thinks you want. (37:50)

 

Resources:

 

Marriage Unhindered

https://www.marriageunhindered.com/

 

International OCD Foundation

https://iocdf.org/

 

National Alliance on Mental Illness (NAMI)

https://www.nami.org/

Why do break ups happen? How do you live with a hoarder? Can AI improve your marriage? Doug goes to the mailbag answering these questions and more.
&nbsp;
Listener questions and comments:
<ul>
<li>Christine - I want to give you a solution: A friend of mine said that they made a very small area and her husband could be messy there. (17:41)</li>
<li>Mike - I am a hoarder and I would like to tell you how it is good. (28:56)</li>
<li>Rita - I am a retired therapist and my suggestion is that for the things you feel you can&rsquo;t throw away, taking pictures help. (30:51)</li>
<li>Ken - I have a first communion garment that I don&rsquo;t want to give to my nephew. Am I a hoarder for this? (35:00)</li>
<li>Jason - I think AI is a good mediator. It&rsquo;s like a father but doesn&rsquo;t get mad. (37:00)</li>
<li>Mike - It depends how you use the AI. If you put in negative prompts it will skew towards what it thinks you want. (37:50)</li>
</ul>
&nbsp;
Resources:
&nbsp;
Marriage Unhindered
<a href="https://www.marriageunhindered.com/">https://www.marriageunhindered.com/</a>
&nbsp;
International OCD Foundation
<a href="https://iocdf.org/">https://iocdf.org/</a>
&nbsp;
National Alliance on Mental Illness (NAMI)
<a href="https://www.nami.org/">https://www.nami.org/</a>

Living with a Hoarder

Wife saw that divorce was an option

Husband's turning point - leadership

Is there a chance we can reconcile?

Importance of physical touch

Doug shares a case study from Impossible Marriages Redeemed by Leila Miller. When getting married, the wife’s backup plan was divorce. After years of arguing and the husband’s alcohol abuse, hope seemed grim.

 

Listener questions and comments:
Ted - My wife filed for divorce about a month ago and I am wondering how to keep her here or if I need to let her go. (35:11)
Angel - I was a military wife and my husband had a cheating and drug problem. He kept it from my children until right before he died. They are angry and hurt even though he’s dead. I want them to love their father after his death. (43:23)

 

Resources:

Impossible Marriages Redeemed

https://www.leilamiller.net/impossiblemarriagesredeemedpdf

 

The Forgiveness Institute

https://internationalforgiveness.com/

Doug shares a case study from&nbsp;Impossible Marriages Redeemed&nbsp;by Leila Miller. When getting married, the wife&rsquo;s backup plan was divorce. After years of arguing and the husband&rsquo;s alcohol abuse, hope seemed grim.
&nbsp;
Listener questions and comments:
<ul>
<li>Ted - My wife filed for divorce about a month ago and I am wondering how to keep her here or if I need to let her go. (35:11)</li>
<li>Angel - I was a military wife and my husband had a cheating and drug problem. He kept it from my children until right before he died. They are angry and hurt even though he&rsquo;s dead. I want them to love their father after his death. (43:23)</li>
</ul>
&nbsp;
Resources:
Impossible Marriages Redeemed
<a href="https://www.leilamiller.net/impossiblemarriagesredeemedpdf">https://www.leilamiller.net/impossiblemarriagesredeemedpdf</a>
&nbsp;
The Forgiveness Institute
<a href="https://internationalforgiveness.com/">https://internationalforgiveness.com/</a>

With God All Things Are Possible

New Year's Resolutions

I want to help my granddaughter

Getting teens out of their rooms

Setting boundaries 

Rules for screens

Doug shares 6 New Year’s resolutions to help marriages thrive. He also gives rules for how to limit your teens social media use and screen time.

 

Listener questions and comments:
Tracey - My daughter took my granddaughter’s car. They think she was drunk driving but she was not and now my granddaughter is angry and wants to come live with me. What should I do? (21:59)

 

Resources:

The Anxious Generation

https://www.amazon.com/Anxious-Generation-Rewiring-Childhood-Epidemic/dp/0593655036

 

6 New Year’s resolutions for your marriage
I will use the daily pinpricks in married life to grow in virtue.
Every day I will pray for, and about my spouse.
I will give my spouse one compliment a day.
I will use 'the formula' to talk with my spouse to let them know when they hurt me.
I will use the words “I’m sorry” and “I forgive you” as many times as needed.
I will limit my use of screens, especially when my spouse and I are together.

Doug shares 6 New Year&rsquo;s resolutions to help marriages thrive. He also gives rules for how to limit your teens social media use and screen time.
&nbsp;
Listener questions and comments:
<ul>
<li>Tracey - My daughter took my granddaughter&rsquo;s car. They think she was drunk driving but she was not and now my granddaughter is angry and wants to come live with me. What should I do? (21:59)</li>
</ul>
&nbsp;
Resources:
The Anxious Generation
<a href="https://www.amazon.com/Anxious-Generation-Rewiring-Childhood-Epidemic/dp/0593655036">https://www.amazon.com/Anxious-Generation-Rewiring-Childhood-Epidemic/dp/0593655036</a>
&nbsp;
6 New Year&rsquo;s resolutions for your marriage
<ol>
<li>I will use the daily pinpricks in married life to grow in virtue.</li>
<li>Every day I will pray for, and about my spouse.</li>
<li>I will give my spouse one compliment a day.</li>
<li>I will use 'the formula' to talk with my spouse to let them know when they hurt me.</li>
<li>I will use the words &ldquo;I&rsquo;m sorry&rdquo; and &ldquo;I forgive you&rdquo; as many times as needed.</li>
<li>I will limit my use of screens, especially when my spouse and I are together.</li>
</ol>

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