Love is not self-seeking

Break 1

My wife is having an affair

Break 2

Anger and scorekeeping   

Doug continues his discussion of St. Paul’s letter to the Corinthians on the meaning of love [Encore]

 

Listener questions and comments:
Andrea - My parents have marital problems and I feel like I am getting sucked in. I want to balance helping them without crossing the line into their relationship. (11:12)
Jamie - I am a practicing Catholic and my wife is having an affair. She will not go to the priest or counseling. She has used my daughter’s passing against me. (20:37)
Marie - My husband and I are having a hard time staying on the same page for buying a house. (34:28)
Patsy - Comment for Jamie: We are all praying for him. (40:29)
Liz – My husband cheated on me and I had to protect myself financially. (42:20)

Doug continues his discussion of St. Paul&rsquo;s letter to the Corinthians on the meaning of love&nbsp;[Encore]
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Listener questions and comments:
<ul>
<li>Andrea - My parents have marital problems and I feel like I am getting sucked in. I want to balance helping them without crossing the line into their relationship. (11:12)</li>
<li>Jamie - I am a practicing Catholic and my wife is having an affair. She will not go to the priest or counseling. She has used my daughter&rsquo;s passing against me. (20:37)</li>
<li>Marie - My husband and I are having a hard time staying on the same page for buying a house. (34:28)</li>
<li>Patsy - Comment for Jamie: We are all praying for him. (40:29)</li>
<li>Liz &ndash; My husband cheated on me and I had to protect myself financially. (42:20)</li>
</ul>

Marriage Unhindered is a sincere exploration of the joys and challenges within the realm of marriage. Hosted by the seasoned Doug Hinderer, this one-hour, caller-based show is scheduled to air every Saturday from 11am – 12pm CT, and will offer listeners an authentic journey into the complexities of marital relationships.

Marriage Unhindered is a sincere exploration of the joys and challenges within the realm of marriage. Hosted by the seasoned Doug Hinderer, this one-hour, caller-based show is scheduled to air every Saturday from 11am – 12pm CT, and will offer listeners an authentic journey into the complexities of marital relationships.

Marriage Unhindered

Love is not Self-seeking 

Greg Schutte

Eucharistic Marriage

Why people resist change

Confession and forgiveness

Break 2 

Why people are not committed to their vows

 

 

Doug explores how couples can face change, rebuild trust, and recommit to their marriage when relationships feel broken. With guest Greg Schutte, the conversation also looks at forgiveness, the Eucharist, and why some spouses resist change or struggle to remain faithful to their vows.

 

Listener questions and comments:

 

Michelle – My husband believes I am the problem in our marriage, and I worry that I may be enabling unhealthy behavior because of his illness. What should I do? (19:49)

 

Rob – My wife asked for a three-month separation and now wants a divorce. I am trying to encourage her to speak with the Church, but she seems determined to end the marriage. (28:54)

 

 

Resources:

Greg Schutte Music: Romans

https://youtu.be/vauNei2c3IA?si=Qsl96gjSfryADued

 

Eucharistic Marriage - Greg Schutte

https://www.eucharisticmarriage.org/

 

Marriage Unhindered

https://www.marriageunhindered.com/

 

Rekindled Hearts Marriage Bundle

https://relevantradio.store/collections/books/products/marriage-bundle

 

Happy Marriage for Life

https://www.happymarriageforlife.com/

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Doug explores how couples can face change, rebuild trust, and recommit to their marriage when relationships feel broken. With guest Greg Schutte, the conversation also looks at forgiveness, the Eucharist, and why some spouses resist change or struggle to remain faithful to their vows.
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Listener questions and comments:
&nbsp;
Michelle &ndash; My husband believes I am the problem in our marriage, and I worry that I may be enabling unhealthy behavior because of his illness. What should I do? (19:49)
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Rob &ndash; My wife asked for a three-month separation and now wants a divorce. I am trying to encourage her to speak with the Church, but she seems determined to end the marriage. (28:54)
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Resources:
Greg Schutte Music: Romans
<a href="https://youtu.be/vauNei2c3IA?si=Qsl96gjSfryADued">https://youtu.be/vauNei2c3IA?si=Qsl96gjSfryADued</a>
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Eucharistic Marriage - Greg Schutte
<a href="https://www.eucharisticmarriage.org/">https://www.eucharisticmarriage.org/</a>
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Marriage Unhindered
<a href="https://www.marriageunhindered.com/">https://www.marriageunhindered.com/</a>
&nbsp;
Rekindled Hearts Marriage Bundle
<a href="https://relevantradio.store/collections/books/products/marriage-bundle">https://relevantradio.store/collections/books/products/marriage-bundle</a>
&nbsp;
Happy Marriage for Life
<a href="https://www.happymarriageforlife.com/">https://www.happymarriageforlife.com/</a>

Rebuilding Trust and Recommitting to Your Marriage

Caller: Dating After Marriage 

Conspiracy theories

How conspiracy theories hurt marriage

The Catholic lens & what to do

Doug explores how conspiracy theories can create division and distrust in marriage and how couples can stay grounded in truth. He also answers a question about dating again after the loss of a spouse.

Listener questions and comments:
Jo – I am a widow who began dating again, but the relationship ended when he began discerning whether to remain single. Why would someone pull away after things were going well?

 

Resources:

 

Marriage Unhindered

https://www.marriageunhindered.com/

 

Rekindled Hearts Marriage Bundle

https://relevantradio.store/collections/books/products/marriage-bundle

 

Happy Marriage for Life

https://www.happymarriageforlife.com/

Doug explores how conspiracy theories can create division and distrust in marriage and how couples can stay grounded in truth. He also answers a question about dating again after the loss of a spouse.
Listener questions and comments:
<ul>
<li>Jo &ndash; I am a widow who began dating again, but the relationship ended when he began discerning whether to remain single. Why would someone pull away after things were going well?</li>
</ul>
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Resources:
&nbsp;
Marriage Unhindered
<a href="https://www.marriageunhindered.com/">https://www.marriageunhindered.com/</a>
&nbsp;
Rekindled Hearts Marriage Bundle
<a href="https://relevantradio.store/collections/books/products/marriage-bundle">https://relevantradio.store/collections/books/products/marriage-bundle</a>
&nbsp;
Happy Marriage for Life
<a href="https://www.happymarriageforlife.com/">https://www.happymarriageforlife.com/</a>

Will Conspiracy Theory's Ruin a Marriage? 

Setting boundaries with grandparents

Resolving childhood trauma

Improving your marriage

What if the one who harmed you is dead?

How do you deal with unresolved childhood trauma?  How do you set boundaries with the grandparents? Doug answers these questions and more.

 

Listener questions and comments:
Kyle - My parents are on the verge of divorce. How much should I stay out of it when they try to involve me? (24:56)
Deedee - What if the people who harmed you are dead? Are these people aware that they have been forgiven? (35:07)
Tiffany - Is there an option outside of our faith to help with these traumas? It’s a bit of a new age practice that I am looking into. (37:05)
Richard - My wife and I are in our early 40's. We are trying to honor our parents when they step in to help raise the children. What do we do? (42:21)

 

Resources:

Catholic Therapists

https://catholictherapists.com/

 

Catholic Psychotherapy

https://catholicpsychotherapy.org/

How do you deal with unresolved childhood trauma? &nbsp;How do you set boundaries with the grandparents? Doug answers these questions and more.
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Listener questions and comments:
<ul>
<li>Kyle - My parents are on the verge of divorce. How much should I stay out of it when they try to involve me? (24:56)</li>
<li>Deedee - What if the people who harmed you are dead? Are these people aware that they have been forgiven? (35:07)</li>
<li>Tiffany - Is there an option outside of our faith to help with these traumas? It&rsquo;s a bit of a new age practice that I am looking into. (37:05)</li>
<li>Richard - My wife and I are in our early 40's. We are trying to honor our parents when they step in to help raise the children. What do we do? (42:21)</li>
</ul>
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Resources:
Catholic Therapists
<a href="https://catholictherapists.com/">https://catholictherapists.com/</a>
&nbsp;
Catholic Psychotherapy
<a href="https://catholicpsychotherapy.org/">https://catholicpsychotherapy.org/</a>

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