Living with a narcissist?

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Caller Questions

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How to live with a narcissist

What is a Narcissist? How do you love a narcissist? Doug unpacks 6 ways you can survive being married to a narcissist.
Do not take it personally. Narcissists do not live in reality.
Don’t argue with a narcissist.
Know yourself. Your best defense is a strong sense of self confidence.
Let go from your need for approval.
Look for support elsewhere. Look for encouragement from friends and at church
Focus on the good you can find in the narcissist.

What is a Narcissist? How do you love a narcissist? Doug unpacks 6 ways you can survive being married to a narcissist.
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<li>Do not take it personally. Narcissists do not live in reality.</li>
<li>Don’t argue with a narcissist.</li>
<li>Know yourself. Your best defense is a strong sense of self confidence.</li>
<li>Let go from your need for approval.</li>
<li>Look for support elsewhere. Look for encouragement from friends and at church</li>
<li>Focus on the good you can find in the narcissist.</li>
</ol>

Marriage Unhindered is a sincere exploration of the joys and challenges within the realm of marriage. Hosted by the seasoned Doug Hinderer, this one-hour, caller-based show is scheduled to air every Saturday from 11am – 12pm CT, and will offer listeners an authentic journey into the complexities of marital relationships.

Marriage Unhindered is a sincere exploration of the joys and challenges within the realm of marriage. Hosted by the seasoned Doug Hinderer, this one-hour, caller-based show is scheduled to air every Saturday from 11am – 12pm CT, and will offer listeners an authentic journey into the complexities of marital relationships.

Marriage Unhindered

Living with a Narcissist

Sexuality is a source of joy and pleasure

Nathan Bartel - Cana Feast

Differences between men and women

Curiosity and frequency of intimacy

Nathan Bartel, founder of Cana Feast joins Doug to discuss things men need to know about their wives and the marital embrace.

 

Listener questions and comments:
Mary - What should a wife do if the wife is not wanting or willing to have sex so she is in the other bed room for days and days. (33:47)

 

Resources:

Cana Feast

https://canafeast.com/

https://canafeast.com/holydesires

Nathan Bartel, founder of Cana Feast joins Doug to discuss things men need to know about their wives and the marital embrace.
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Listener questions and comments:
<ul>
<li>Mary - What should a wife do if the wife is not wanting or willing to have sex so she is in the other bed room for days and days. (33:47)</li>
</ul>
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Resources:
Cana Feast
<a href="https://canafeast.com/">https://canafeast.com/</a>
<a href="https://canafeast.com/holydesires">https://canafeast.com/holydesires</a>

Growing Together in Marital love

Project Rachel - Post abortion healing

I am so grateful I kept my baby

Encouragement from a spiritual director

Women who have abortions are still mothers 

How to forgive yourself

Kathy Burkes and Fr. John McNamara join Doug to discuss Project Rachel and post abortion healing.

 
Julia - So many people pushed me to get an abortion when I was 22 and I didn’t go through with it. I’m so glad I didn’t. (18:12)
Walt - When we separate the word ‘mother’ from the term 'woman who had an abortion' we go nowhere. People who have abortions are still mothers. (33:26)
Deedee - I had an abortion and was absolved. Is there anything else I need to do? (36:32)
Teri - We need to do penance for the reparation of the severity of the sin. Can you talk about that? (43:16)

 

Resources:

Project Rachel Help Line

815-387-3379 

Email

LiFE@RockfordDiocese.org

Kathy Burkes and Fr. John McNamara join Doug to discuss Project Rachel and post abortion healing.
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<ul>
<li>Julia - So many people pushed me to get an abortion when I was 22 and I didn&rsquo;t go through with it. I&rsquo;m so glad I didn&rsquo;t. (18:12)</li>
<li>Walt - When we separate the word &lsquo;mother&rsquo; from the term 'woman who had an abortion' we go nowhere. People who have abortions are still mothers. (33:26)</li>
<li>Deedee - I had an abortion and was absolved. Is there anything else I need to do? (36:32)</li>
<li>Teri - We need to do penance for the reparation of the severity of the sin. Can you talk about that? (43:16)</li>
</ul>
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Resources:
Project Rachel Help Line
815-387-3379&nbsp;
Email
LiFE@RockfordDiocese.org

Healing the Wound of Abortion

Staying faithful to your marriage vows

Married to a high-functioning alcoholic 

Divorced but your marriage is valid

Doug unpacks a case study about a “stander” from Impossible Marriages Redeemed. A “stander” is a victim of divorce who chooses to continue to live a life faithful to their wedding vows.

 

Listener questions and comments:
Jeannie - We are called to faithfulness, not happiness. (20:40)
Jennifer - Thank you for the 'standers' and for what you promote. We can always offer Masses. (21:42)
Mary - What is the Church's view on people who leave marriage from abuse? I told my mom to leave her marriage when I was 16. (23:17)
Frank - I am now 72 but I was married when I was 23. We split up when my wife had an abortion. We got an annulment. (39:53)

 

Resources:

 

Impossible Marriages Redeemed

https://www.leilamiller.net/impossiblemarriagesredeemedpdf

 

The Forgiveness Institute

https://internationalforgiveness.com/

Doug unpacks a case study about a &ldquo;stander&rdquo; from Impossible Marriages Redeemed. A &ldquo;stander&rdquo; is a victim of divorce who chooses to continue to live a life faithful to their wedding vows.
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Listener questions and comments:
<ul>
<li>Jeannie - We are called to faithfulness, not happiness. (20:40)</li>
<li>Jennifer - Thank you for the 'standers' and for what you promote. We can always offer Masses. (21:42)</li>
<li>Mary - What is the Church's view on people who leave marriage from abuse? I told my mom to leave her marriage when I was 16. (23:17)</li>
<li>Frank - I am now 72 but I was married when I was 23. We split up when my wife had an abortion. We got an annulment. (39:53)</li>
</ul>
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Resources:
&nbsp;
Impossible Marriages Redeemed
<a href="https://www.leilamiller.net/impossiblemarriagesredeemedpdf">https://www.leilamiller.net/impossiblemarriagesredeemedpdf</a>
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The Forgiveness Institute
<a href="https://internationalforgiveness.com/">https://internationalforgiveness.com/</a>

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