Recap

Forgiveness

Break 1

What Forgiveness is and isn’t

Break 2

How to go about forgiveness

How do you forgive? Doug reviews what forgiveness is and how to actually put it into practice. 

How do you forgive? Doug reviews what forgiveness is and how to actually put it into practice.

Marriage Unhindered is a sincere exploration of the joys and challenges within the realm of marriage. Hosted by the seasoned Doug Hinderer, this one-hour, caller-based show is scheduled to air Monday through Friday at 5PM CT, and will offer listeners an authentic journey into the complexities of marital relationships.

Marriage Unhindered is a sincere exploration of the joys and challenges within the realm of marriage. Hosted by the seasoned Doug Hinderer, this one-hour, caller-based show is scheduled to air Monday through Friday at 5PM CT, and will offer listeners an authentic journey into the complexities of marital relationships.

Marriage Unhindered

Married people living their best lives

Married women are increasingly happiest 

My boyfriend won't move forward 

Regrets about fostering and adoption

Doug discusses how married people are living their best lives and how married women are increasingly the happiest women.

 

Listener questions and comments:
Denise - My boyfriend has stopped talking to other women but he has a friend who is a woman. She is married but he doesn't want to hurt the friendship. It bothers me. (10:34)
Dana - It seems like Catholicism encourages marriage when Paul advises against it. Why? (21:00)
Rita - I am in a relationship with a man after being widowed. I want to get married but he won’t move forward with it. Should we go to therapy? (25:49)
Adela - I have seen two instances where the men have left their fiancés for their best friends. (30:24)
Ann - I know a man who adopted some children and now has a problem with them and doesn’t want to live with them. (35:35)
Regina - the context of Paul’s writing is that Paul believed that the second coming would be within the year or two so it wasn’t worth having kids because we have so little time. (42:27)
Danielle - I am married and we are both Catholic and I am still learning about the faith and he has abused me so I am asking about a divorce. He wants to go to therapy. What do I do? (44:17)

Doug discusses how married people are living their best lives and how married women are increasingly the happiest women.
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Listener questions and comments:
<ul>
<li>Denise - My boyfriend has stopped talking to other women but he has a friend who is a woman. She is married but he doesn't want to hurt the friendship. It bothers me. (10:34)</li>
<li>Dana - It seems like Catholicism encourages marriage when Paul advises against it. Why? (21:00)</li>
<li>Rita - I am in a relationship with a man after being widowed. I want to get married but he won&rsquo;t move forward with it. Should we go to therapy? (25:49)</li>
<li>Adela - I have seen two instances where the men have left their fianc&eacute;s for their best friends. (30:24)</li>
<li>Ann - I know a man who adopted some children and now has a problem with them and doesn&rsquo;t want to live with them. (35:35)</li>
<li>Regina - the context of Paul&rsquo;s writing is that Paul believed that the second coming would be within the year or two so it wasn&rsquo;t worth having kids because we have so little time. (42:27)</li>
<li>Danielle - I am married and we are both Catholic and I am still learning about the faith and he has abused me so I am asking about a divorce. He wants to go to therapy. What do I do? (44:17)</li>
</ul>

Marriage Unhindered Lightning Round

5 attachment needs in marriage

To be seen, known, heard and understood

To feel safe and secure

To be comforted, soothed and reassured

To be cherished, rejoiced and delighted

To believe that my spouse wills my good

What if you get it wrong?

The pattern: pursue/withdraw

The Rant! Waiting for engagement

Doug unpacks the 5 attachment needs every married person has. PLUS: The Friday rant!

 

Listener questions and comments:
Liza - My daughter is 28, lives at home and will never help me with any chores. Her father won’t make her help and she ignores me. (37:36)

 

Resources:

 

5 attachment needs in marriage
To be seen, known, heard and understood
To feel safe and secure
To be comforted, soothed and reassured
To be cherished, rejoiced and delighted
To believe that my spouse wills my good

Doug unpacks the 5 attachment needs every married person has. PLUS: The Friday rant!
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Listener questions and comments:
<ul>
<li>Liza - My daughter is 28, lives at home and will never help me with any chores. Her father won&rsquo;t make her help and she ignores me. (37:36)</li>
</ul>
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Resources:
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5 attachment needs in marriage
<ol>
<li>To be seen, known, heard and understood</li>
<li>To feel safe and secure</li>
<li>To be comforted, soothed and reassured</li>
<li>To be cherished, rejoiced and delighted</li>
<li>To believe that my spouse wills my good</li>
</ol>

Attachment Needs That Strengthen Marriage

Guilting your kids into staying close

Too much criticizing 

Adult child rejects rules

Monica Hinderer joins Doug to discuss ways parents lose their children without realizing it.

 

Listener questions and comments:
Lucy - I have an 18-year-old and 20-year-old and I caught them drinking. What do I do? (8:44)
Monica - My children have cut me off because of a divorce. They are influenced by their father on this. (19:42)
Shirley - Comment about drinking: you can't forget that the parents are responsible as the parents and could get sued or get in trouble. (25:32)
Akilah - I have a 19-year-old and when she turned 18 she decided that she would leave the house whenever, and she would ignore curfews. But she still lives at home when she is back from college. What should I do? (36:11)
Sherry - I have two sons who are 33 and 36 and we are in the process of trying to sell the farm to one of them and the other isn’t happy. What should we do? (43:50)

 

Resources:

Prayer to the Sacred Heart of Jesus

https://relevantradio.com/2026/06/prayer-to-the-sacred-heart-of-jesus/

 

Ways parents lose their children without realizing it.
They guilt their kids into staying close
They turn every conversation into a criticism

Monica Hinderer joins Doug to discuss ways parents lose their children without realizing it.
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Listener questions and comments:
<ul>
<li>Lucy - I have an 18-year-old and 20-year-old and I caught them drinking. What do I do? (8:44)</li>
<li>Monica - My children have cut me off because of a divorce. They are influenced by their father on this. (19:42)</li>
<li>Shirley - Comment about drinking: you can't forget that the parents are responsible as the parents and could get sued or get in trouble. (25:32)</li>
<li>Akilah - I have a 19-year-old and when she turned 18 she decided that she would leave the house whenever, and she would ignore curfews. But she still lives at home when she is back from college. What should I do? (36:11)</li>
<li>Sherry - I have two sons who are 33 and 36 and we are in the process of trying to sell the farm to one of them and the other isn&rsquo;t happy. What should we do? (43:50)</li>
</ul>
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Resources:
Prayer to the Sacred Heart of Jesus
<a href="https://relevantradio.com/2026/06/prayer-to-the-sacred-heart-of-jesus/">https://relevantradio.com/2026/06/prayer-to-the-sacred-heart-of-jesus/</a>
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Ways parents lose their children without realizing it.
<ol>
<li>They guilt their kids into staying close</li>
<li>They turn every conversation into a criticism</li>
</ol>

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