Fr. Carter Griffin

Forming Families - Forming Saints

Break 1

Human formation 

Break 2

Spiritual formation

Formed to be apostles

Fr. Carter Griffin joins Doug to discuss his book Forming Families, Forming Saints. Together, they explore how human and spiritual formation help cultivate virtue and shape families into communities of faith, fostering the growth of future saints.

 

Listener questions and comments:
Len - I just bought the book! Lots of wisdom. I will order 8 more! (37:39)

 

Resources:

Forming Families, Forming Saints

https://stpaulcenter.com/store/forming-families-forming-saints

Fr. Carter Griffin joins Doug to discuss his book Forming Families, Forming Saints. Together, they explore how human and spiritual formation help cultivate virtue and shape families into communities of faith, fostering the growth of future saints.
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Listener questions and comments:
<ul>
<li>Len - I just bought the book! Lots of wisdom. I will order 8 more! (37:39)</li>
</ul>
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Resources:
Forming Families, Forming Saints
<a href="https://stpaulcenter.com/store/forming-families-forming-saints">https://stpaulcenter.com/store/forming-families-forming-saints</a>

Marriage Unhindered is a sincere exploration of the joys and challenges within the realm of marriage. Hosted by the seasoned Doug Hinderer, this one-hour, caller-based show is scheduled to air Monday through Friday at 5PM CT, and will offer listeners an authentic journey into the complexities of marital relationships.

Marriage Unhindered is a sincere exploration of the joys and challenges within the realm of marriage. Hosted by the seasoned Doug Hinderer, this one-hour, caller-based show is scheduled to air Monday through Friday at 5PM CT, and will offer listeners an authentic journey into the complexities of marital relationships.

Marriage Unhindered

Faith Begins at Home

Should I change name after divorce?

The burden of a chronic illness

Pornography & free consent in marriage 

Should you change your name after a divorce? What do you do when your wife has a chronic, incurable illness, and most of the responsibilities at home fall on you and your children? How do you cope when your wife feels guilty and worries about the burden placed on you? Do struggles with pornography make it difficult to give full consent to marriage? Doug goes to the mailbag, answering these questions and more.

 

Listener questions and comments: 
Pete - My friend is so hurt from the separation that he is withdrawing from everything in his life. What do we do? (9:34)
Ronda - Regarding a name change after a divorce, you should do what makes you feel more comfortable. (13:44)
Rose - I kept my name after the divorce because I wanted to have the same name as my kids. (17:02)
Jeff - My wife had an ex-husband and had kids with me, and now they have the old husband’s name. It’s a mess. (20:58)
Mary - I kept mine because I am a stander and we are still married in the eyes of God. (23:36)
Sarina - My mom changed her name, and that’s how I met my husband. (36:19)
Mary - It’s important to realize that marriage is sacrificial and it doesn’t always lead to happiness (38:03)
Angelica - I was married for 16 years, and I took my name back because my in-laws didn’t like me. I didn’t think it was fair, and I explained it to my son. (40:02)

 

Resources:

 

https://www.federalregister.gov/documents/2026/05/13/2026-09479/excepted-fertility-benefits?mc_cid=583286c936#open-comment

 

It’s Your Turn Now

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=urgp4IiOXDk

 

Reclaimed: Win the War of Freedom, Self-Mastery, and Holy Purity

https://scepterpublishers.org/products/reclaimed-win-the-war-of-freedom-self-mastery-and-holy-purity?srsltid=AfmBOorMA4RbYh_WzayDVdBX3vpx7hGA7-OpnEEYKLuUlxpeZ4EPp1lp&variant=46653355524273

 

Should you change your name after a divorce? What do you do when your wife has a chronic, incurable illness, and most of the responsibilities at home fall on you and your children? How do you cope when your wife feels guilty and worries about the burden placed on you? Do struggles with pornography make it difficult to give full consent to marriage? Doug goes to the mailbag, answering these questions and more.
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Listener questions and comments:&nbsp;
<ul>
<li>Pete - My friend is so hurt from the separation that he is withdrawing from everything in his life. What do we do? (9:34)</li>
<li>Ronda - Regarding a name change after a divorce, you should do what makes you feel more comfortable. (13:44)</li>
<li>Rose - I kept my name after the divorce because I wanted to have the same name as my kids. (17:02)</li>
<li>Jeff - My wife had an ex-husband and had kids with me, and now they have the old husband&rsquo;s name. It&rsquo;s a mess. (20:58)</li>
<li>Mary - I kept mine because I am a stander and we are still married in the eyes of God. (23:36)</li>
<li>Sarina - My mom changed her name, and that&rsquo;s how I met my husband. (36:19)</li>
<li>Mary - It&rsquo;s important to realize that marriage is sacrificial and it doesn&rsquo;t always lead to happiness (38:03)</li>
<li>Angelica - I was married for 16 years, and I took my name back because my in-laws didn&rsquo;t like me. I didn&rsquo;t think it was fair, and I explained it to my son. (40:02)</li>
</ul>
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Resources:
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<a href="https://www.federalregister.gov/documents/2026/05/13/2026-09479/excepted-fertility-benefits?mc_cid=583286c936#open-comment">https://www.federalregister.gov/documents/2026/05/13/2026-09479/excepted-fertility-benefits?mc_cid=583286c936#open-comment</a>
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It&rsquo;s Your Turn Now
<a href="https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=urgp4IiOXDk">https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=urgp4IiOXDk</a>
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Reclaimed: Win the War of Freedom, Self-Mastery, and Holy Purity
<a href="https://scepterpublishers.org/products/reclaimed-win-the-war-of-freedom-self-mastery-and-holy-purity?srsltid=AfmBOorMA4RbYh_WzayDVdBX3vpx7hGA7-OpnEEYKLuUlxpeZ4EPp1lp&amp;variant=46653355524273">https://scepterpublishers.org/products/reclaimed-win-the-war-of-freedom-self-mastery-and-holy-purity?srsltid=AfmBOorMA4RbYh_WzayDVdBX3vpx7hGA7-OpnEEYKLuUlxpeZ4EPp1lp&amp;variant=46653355524273</a>
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Should you change your name after getting a divorce?

Need for young adult ministries

Desire to be married but fearful of sex

Modesty and bikinis 

Taking time to work on your marriage

St. Charbel 

Should your daughter be allowed to wear a bikini? Is it possible to be too busy to work on your marriage? Doug answers these questions and more.

 

Listener questions and comments:
Renee - I grew up in a strict dressing household, especially swimwear. It's a parent's responsibility to teach modesty in girls. (14:30)

 

Resources:

Men, Women and the Mystery of Love: Practical Insights from John Paul II's Love and Responsibility

https://www.amazon.com/Men-Women-Mystery-Love-Responsibility/dp/0867168404

 

Dressing with Dignity

https://tanbooks.com/products/books/dressing-with-dignity/?srsltid=AfmBOoocXLgN919qBGeP-WJ3T95Zc36pwitsKTWiVOuJ_tMFFfvRwPuI

 

Love is a Radiant Light: The Life & Words of Saint Charbel

https://www.amazon.com/Love-Radiant-Light-Words-Charbel/dp/1621384322

Should your daughter be allowed to wear a bikini? Is it possible to be too busy to work on your marriage? Doug answers these questions and more.
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Listener questions and comments:
<ul>
<li>Renee - I grew up in a strict dressing household, especially swimwear. It's a parent's responsibility to teach modesty in girls. (14:30)</li>
</ul>
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Resources:
Men, Women and the Mystery of Love: Practical Insights from John Paul II's Love and Responsibility
<a href="https://www.amazon.com/Men-Women-Mystery-Love-Responsibility/dp/0867168404">https://www.amazon.com/Men-Women-Mystery-Love-Responsibility/dp/0867168404</a>
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Dressing with Dignity
<a href="https://tanbooks.com/products/books/dressing-with-dignity/?srsltid=AfmBOoocXLgN919qBGeP-WJ3T95Zc36pwitsKTWiVOuJ_tMFFfvRwPuI">https://tanbooks.com/products/books/dressing-with-dignity/?srsltid=AfmBOoocXLgN919qBGeP-WJ3T95Zc36pwitsKTWiVOuJ_tMFFfvRwPuI</a>
&nbsp;
Love is a Radiant Light: The Life &amp; Words of Saint Charbel
<a href="https://www.amazon.com/Love-Radiant-Light-Words-Charbel/dp/1621384322">https://www.amazon.com/Love-Radiant-Light-Words-Charbel/dp/1621384322</a>

Teaching Modesty with Wisdom

Fear of consummating marriage

Son is experiencing anxiety

Cohabitation and fear of divorce

Doug explores two very different perspectives on marital intimacy. On one side is a young woman who is terrified of consummating her marriage. On the other is a couple who is cohabitating because they fear divorce.

 

Listener questions and comments:
Connie - I have been married for 30 years and debate whether divorce is an option. We have three adult kids and my husband is an alcoholic. (10:09)
Anne - Commenting on the 30-year marriage. My marriage is similar because my husband was an alcoholic. It's been prayer and trusting God that has helped. I prayed for many years. (23:13)
Marina - My 24-year-old son is experiencing anxiety. He's very fragile right now. How can I help him? (26:49)
Jessica - Does the Church intend to marry people who want a Josephite marriage? (38:24)

 

Resources:

Happy Marriage for Life

https://www.happymarriageforlife.com/

Doug explores two very different perspectives on marital intimacy. On one side is a young woman who is terrified of consummating her marriage. On the other is a couple who is cohabitating because they fear divorce.
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Listener questions and comments:
<ul>
<li>Connie - I have been married for 30 years and debate whether divorce is an option. We have three adult kids and my husband is an alcoholic. (10:09)</li>
<li>Anne - Commenting on the 30-year marriage. My marriage is similar because my husband was an alcoholic. It's been prayer and trusting God that has helped. I prayed for many years. (23:13)</li>
<li>Marina - My 24-year-old son is experiencing anxiety. He's very fragile right now. How can I help him? (26:49)</li>
<li>Jessica - Does the Church intend to marry people who want a Josephite marriage? (38:24)</li>
</ul>
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Resources:
Happy Marriage for Life
<a href="https://www.happymarriageforlife.com/">https://www.happymarriageforlife.com/</a>

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