5 attachment needs in marriage

To be seen, known, heard and understood

To feel safe and secure

To be comforted, soothed and reassured

Break 1

To be cherished, rejoiced and delighted

To believe that my spouse wills my good

What if you get it wrong?

Break 2

The pattern: pursue/withdraw

The Rant! Waiting for engagement

Doug unpacks the 5 attachment needs every married person has. PLUS: The Friday rant!

 

Listener questions and comments:
Liza - My daughter is 28, lives at home and will never help me with any chores. Her father won’t make her help and she ignores me. (37:36)

 

Resources:

 

5 attachment needs in marriage
To be seen, known, heard and understood
To feel safe and secure
To be comforted, soothed and reassured
To be cherished, rejoiced and delighted
To believe that my spouse wills my good

Doug unpacks the 5 attachment needs every married person has. PLUS: The Friday rant!
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Listener questions and comments:
<ul>
<li>Liza - My daughter is 28, lives at home and will never help me with any chores. Her father won&rsquo;t make her help and she ignores me. (37:36)</li>
</ul>
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Resources:
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5 attachment needs in marriage
<ol>
<li>To be seen, known, heard and understood</li>
<li>To feel safe and secure</li>
<li>To be comforted, soothed and reassured</li>
<li>To be cherished, rejoiced and delighted</li>
<li>To believe that my spouse wills my good</li>
</ol>

Marriage Unhindered is a sincere exploration of the joys and challenges within the realm of marriage. Hosted by the seasoned Doug Hinderer, this one-hour, caller-based show is scheduled to air Monday through Friday at 5PM CT, and will offer listeners an authentic journey into the complexities of marital relationships.

Marriage Unhindered is a sincere exploration of the joys and challenges within the realm of marriage. Hosted by the seasoned Doug Hinderer, this one-hour, caller-based show is scheduled to air Monday through Friday at 5PM CT, and will offer listeners an authentic journey into the complexities of marital relationships.