Marnie and CampoSome friends of mine split up on the links, a very sad situation.
Many because I'm great mates with I won't.
Name it, don't.
And my wife's great mates with her. But look, I just said my mate on Saturday night, I said, listen.
Listen, here we go.
Were you around your bar that's usually where the best advice is given.
Yes, I thought I can picture it now.
Yeah, I said, look, let's just have a few beers, ye, talk about it, play some pool, some darts, you know my setup.
Seeing it. Yeah, I've got top shelf scotch here for such occasions.
We were going to two in the morning for celebrations or tales of woe.
Yeah.
Well, my wife came over the next day and I said, did it all go? It was just tears And I said, oh, there were tears here too.
When the top top shelf scotch ran out.
It's caused riffed, right, you know, because then she starts bagging my mate.
Oh of course.
Yeah, Well she would have got well her friend's side, and then you've got your friend's side, and she would have come home and said, oh, well, you know such and such told me, and.
I'm having to defend my mate.
And then you, and then I'm the worst in the world, you know, And I've been told you better watch yourself. Oh no, or I'll be going to move in with her.
Wow that escalated quickly.
Yes, so my mate might be moving in with me.
Fantastic, it'd be bachelor pad at your place. Well, no, it's not very nice.
It's tough.
Yeah, it's horrible.
It's a horrible situation.
Let me.
Break ups aren't very nice. But I don't Here's my thing. I don't think people should get involved. But usually one person will go and talk to their friends way too much and say things, and then their friends wage in and of course they're going to support their friend, like you're supporting your friend. Sure, Like they're not going to turn around and go, oh, well, you know you stuffed up, didn't are? No, they don't. They support the friend. And then if the couple actually get back together. This is where I always say, don't say anything, because in five minutes they might be back together. And you've sat there and told you, mate, well, I never liked her anywhere. I didn't like this, and you're better off without it. Blah blah blah.
Oh crap.
Here she comes to the barbecue, It always ruins friendships too, because the lady was my friend first. Okay, more complicated. You're in that situation. Your ex husband Rod was best friends with your friend. Yeah, and now your best friends. But this is your ruined his life.
No where godparents for her son, so her mum and his mum, which is my son's grandmother, our best friend becomes complix and we all still get on. There's no problem. They've inherited both of us by default.
Tracy's on a third marriage. She split up a few times. Every time we talked to you, Tracy's got to use it as a point of her who was on your side?
She bought it back to three?
What was it six last week?
Well, yeah, did you go through this sort of situation where you had, you know, you split up? You went, you went off to your best friend's place, dragged out the wine bottles. Who was on your partner's side? Was that was her husband?
No?
No, he was. He was on my side as well.
So you had you had the double double support.
Yeah, I did. I did with the with the second one.
Yeah, well I think, Hey, it depends on the situation. I was just saying that to Camp.
It depends on what the circumstances that you broke up. And I mean even if if it's not your fault, the friends husbands shouldn't take my husband's side if it's.
Not reconcilable differences.
But that's it.
It depends on what circumstance there is and sometimes there is no side.
Well whose side are you on? Man? I'll be on your side to have mel We have been there, done that, but right like, you don't even know what the side is, but you just want to side
