Themes: Self-Awareness, Trauma, Healing, Self-Love, Relationships
Today I'm joined by my dear friend and founder of Rising Woman, Sheleana Aiyana. In this episode we explore the importance of becoming aware of your patterns in relationship, where they came from and ultimately, how to transcend them to become “the one” you seek. Have you ever felt like people leave you for the exact same reason or that you date the same type of person… Every. Single. Time? These patterns are something that need to be acknowledged if we want to understand ourselves better and call in the healthy relationship we crave – both with ourselves and with another.
Sheleana Aiyana is the founder of Rising Woman, a growing community of more than 3 million readers. Her training and immersion in couples facilitation, inherited family trauma, family systems, conscious relationship, somatic healing, and plant medicines inform her holistic approach to seeing relationships as a spiritual path. More than 30,000 women in 146 countries have taken her flagship program Becoming the One.
01:26 Becoming the One
03:30 Media affecting our views on relationships
07:41 Ignoring old beliefs and working on your own patterns
12:52 Why we numb our pain
21:19 Trusting love again & healing
24:59 How your childhood experiences affects your behavior now
27:38 Awareness of old patterns
32:00 How being vulnerable can inspire others
34:28 How we actually block love from coming our way
37:01 Learning how to love healthily
41:16 Normalization of boredom in relationships