It took the deliciously unhinged creative genius of Miranda July to invent a dating questionnaire that asks the questions no one else is brave enough to ask. Forget your height or if you like 'long walks on the beach'; Em is looking at the prompts that actually reveal your soul, like a photo of your bookshelves, your messy bed, or a screenshot of your ex describing you via text. So, what would you ask, to really get to know someone? And is the secret to finding love just showing someone the inside of your fridge?

There’s a name for that 'meh' feeling you have after a day at work: Office air. Thanks to a smart TikTok creator, Clare has finally figured out why we all look like 'sick Victorian children' by the time the clock strikes five. 

Meanwhile, Nicole Kidman is currently on a promo circuit, but she isn't talking about her latest film. Instead, she’s opening up about her desire to become a death doula after the devastating loss of her mother. So Holly’s asking: What is a death doula? Why don’t work and caring and basically, life, stop for you to deal with losing a loved one? And how do we get better at understanding that the loss of a parent - even at an age deemed ‘appropriate’ - is often completely unmooring. 

And finally, according to Vogue, nobody’s getting their nails done any more.

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BOOK: Heir Apparent by Rebecca Armitage. An "unputtdownable" and engaging novel from an Aussie journalist who knows the royals inside out.
TV SHOW: From on Stan. A nightmarish mystery series about a town in the US that traps anyone who enters
BOOK: Broken Countryby Clare Leslie Hall. A love story that feels like a thriller, set in a 1950s farming village. Warning: you will cry.

What To Listen To Next: 
Listen to Dr Jackie Bailey on MID: Grief Has No Time For Your Bullshit 
Listen to our latest episode: Is WFH Bad For Women?
Listen: When A Crappy Husband Makes A Great TV Show
Listen: Harry & Meghan Just Blew Up The Sandringham Summit
Listen: Your Boss's Unpopular Opinion & It's Taurus Season
Listen: A Fight About Who’s Allowed To Have A Crush
Listen: Mia's Uncomfortable Aha Moment About Friendship
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What to read: 
Nicole Kidman was about to step on stage when she got the news that broke her heart.
Nicole Kidman has just spoken about her divorce from Keith Urban. One detail stood out.
'I stood in my kitchen waiting for my phone to buzz. That's when the grief finally hit me.'
Clare Stephens gives great book recommendations.

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Executive Producer: Sasha Tannock

Video Producer: Josh Green

Junior Content Producer: Tessa Kotowicz

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It took the deliciously unhinged creative genius of Miranda July to invent a dating questionnaire that asks the questions no one else is brave enough to ask. Forget your height or if you like 'long walks on the beach'; Em is looking at the prompts that actually reveal your soul, like a photo of your bookshelves, your messy bed, or a screenshot of your ex describing you via text. So, what would you ask, to really get to know someone? And is the secret to finding love just showing someone the inside of your fridge?
There&rsquo;s a name for that 'meh' feeling you have after a day at work: Office air. Thanks to a smart TikTok creator, Clare has finally figured out why we all look like 'sick Victorian children' by the time the clock strikes five.&nbsp;
Meanwhile, Nicole Kidman is currently on a promo circuit, but she isn't talking about her latest film. Instead, she&rsquo;s opening up about her desire to become a death doula after the devastating loss of her mother. So Holly&rsquo;s asking: What is a death doula? Why don&rsquo;t work and caring and basically, life, stop for you to deal with losing a loved one? And how do we get better at understanding that the loss of a parent - even at an age deemed &lsquo;appropriate&rsquo; - is often completely unmooring.&nbsp;
And finally, according to Vogue, nobody&rsquo;s getting their nails done any more.
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SUBSCRIBE here: <a href="https://www.mamamia.com.au/subscribe/?utm_source=shownotes&amp;utm_medium=podcast&amp;utm_campaign=mmol">Support independent women's media</a>&nbsp;
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This week&rsquo;s recommendations:
<ul>
<li aria-level="1">BOOK: <a href="https://fave.co/3OBo66G">Heir Apparent</a> by Rebecca Armitage. An "unputtdownable" and engaging novel from an Aussie journalist who knows the royals inside out.</li>
<li aria-level="1">TV SHOW: <a href="https://fave.co/4tXTPxG">From</a> on Stan. A nightmarish mystery series about a town in the US that traps anyone who enters</li>
<li aria-level="1">BOOK: <a href="https://fave.co/48idqjX">Broken Country </a>by Clare Leslie Hall. A love story that feels like a thriller, set in a 1950s farming village. Warning: you will cry.</li>
</ul>
What To Listen To Next:&nbsp;
<ul>
<li aria-level="1">Listen to Dr Jackie Bailey on MID: <a href="https://www.mamamia.com.au/podcasts/mid/jackie-bailey/">Grief Has No Time For Your Bullshit</a>&nbsp;</li>
<li aria-level="1">Listen to our latest episode: <a href="https://www.mamamia.com.au/podcasts/mamamia-out-loud/wfh-emma-grede/?utm_source=shownotes&amp;utm_medium=podcast&amp;utm_campaign=mmol">Is WFH Bad For Women?</a></li>
<li aria-level="1">Listen:&nbsp;<a href="https://www.mamamia.com.au/podcasts/mamamia-out-loud/david-harbour-reese-witherspoon-ai/">When A Crappy Husband Makes A Great TV Show</a></li>
<li aria-level="1">Listen: <a href="https://www.mamamia.com.au/podcasts/mamamia-out-loud/harry-meghan-sandringham-summit/?utm_source=shownotes&amp;utm_medium=podcast&amp;utm_campaign=mmol">Harry &amp; Meghan Just Blew Up The Sandringham Summit</a></li>
<li aria-level="1">Listen:&nbsp;<a href="https://www.mamamia.com.au/podcasts/mamamia-out-loud/emma-grede-work-from-home/">Your Boss's Unpopular Opinion &amp; It's Taurus Season</a></li>
<li aria-level="1">Listen:&nbsp;<a href="https://www.mamamia.com.au/podcasts/mamamia-out-loud/what-is-cheating-nikki-glaser/">A Fight About Who&rsquo;s Allowed To Have A Crush</a></li>
<li aria-level="1">Listen:<a href="https://www.mamamia.com.au/podcasts/mamamia-out-loud/subs-mia-four-burners-theory/?utm_source=shownotes&amp;utm_medium=podcast&amp;utm_campaign=mmol"> Mia's Uncomfortable Aha Moment About Friendship</a></li>
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</ul>
Discover more <a href="https://www.mamamia.com.au/podcasts/">Mamamia Podcasts here </a>including the very latest episode of <a href="https://www.mamamia.com.au/podcasts/parenting-out-loud/">Parenting Out Loud</a>, the parenting podcast for people who don't listen to... parenting podcasts.
SUBSCRIBE here:&nbsp;<a href="https://www.mamamia.com.au/subscribe/?utm_source=shownotes&amp;utm_medium=podcast&amp;utm_campaign=mmol">Support independent women's media</a>&nbsp;
Our show is now in full length video on the Apple Podcast app - make sure your phone is up to date and we can't wait for you to watch.
<a href="https://podcasts.apple.com/au/podcast/mamamia-out-loud/id928350893">Mamamia Out Loud on Apple</a>
What to read:&nbsp;
<ul>
<li aria-level="1"><a href="https://www.mamamia.com.au/nicole-kidman-mother-died/">Nicole Kidman was about to step on stage when she got the news that broke her heart.</a></li>
<li aria-level="1"><a href="https://www.mamamia.com.au/nicole-kidman-keith-urban-split/">Nicole Kidman has just spoken about her divorce from Keith Urban. One detail stood out.</a></li>
<li aria-level="1"><a href="https://www.mamamia.com.au/grief-with-life-transitions/">'I stood in my kitchen waiting for my phone to buzz. That's when the grief finally hit me.'</a><a href="https://www.mamamia.com.au/nicole-kidman-mother-died/"></a></li>
<li aria-level="1"><a href="https://mamamiaoutloud.substack.com/p/clare-stephens-gives-great-book-recommendations">Clare Stephens gives great book recommendations.</a></li>
</ul>
THE END BITS:&nbsp;
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CREDITS:
Hosts: Holly Wainwright, Clare Stephens &amp; Emily Vernem
Group Executive Producer: Ruth Devine
Executive Producer: Sasha Tannock
Video Producer: Josh Green
Junior Content Producer: Tessa Kotowicz
Mamamia acknowledges the Traditional Owners of the Land on which we have recorded this podcast.

Australia's #1 podcast for women is where inquisitive minds come for great conversation — with an occasional side serve of chaos. Covering news, pop culture, and big ideas, plus the small stuff that matters, Mamamia Out Loud features a rotating panel of hosts, including Mia Freedman, Jessie Stephens, Holly Wainwright, Clare Stephens, Amelia Lester, and Em Vernem. It's your daily dose of conversation that feels like catching up with your funniest and sharpest friends in the group chat. It’s conversation at its most addictive.

Australia's #1 podcast for women is where inquisitive minds come for great conversation &mdash; with an occasional side serve of chaos. Covering news, pop culture, and big ideas, plus the small stuff that matters, Mamamia Out Loud features a rotating panel of hosts, including Mia Freedman, Jessie Stephens, Holly Wainwright, Clare Stephens, Amelia Lester, and Em Vernem. It's your daily dose of conversation that feels like catching up with your funniest and sharpest friends in the group chat. It&rsquo;s conversation at its most addictive.

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The Most Brutally Honest Questionnaire We've Ever Seen

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