When it comes to ministering we often think of big acts of service, like showing up on a friend’s porch with a treat and a handwritten note, because at the very least, ministering requires food, right? This kind of service can be wonderful—we all love a thoughtful gift—but are we missing out on opportunities to serve because we feel overwhelmed when our own plates are full? Sometimes, though, one of the simplest ways we can minister is by offering them our undivided attention—the gift of listening. So in today’s episode, we explore how our capacity to love grows both when we take the time to listen and when we are heard in return.

“Our capacity to love is so much greater than we realize when we begin to listen.”

Mauli Bonner works as a vocal director, writer, producer, and author. He wrote and directed the award-winning film His Name is Green Flake and has worked with many music and film artists throughout his career. He and his wife Chantel live in Los Angeles with their two children, and he translates his listening skills in the music industry to his everyday life as a father, husband, and a disciple of Jesus Christ.

Top takeaways from this episode!

• When we listen to others and do our best to really feel what they are telling us, we are listening as the Savior does.

• Listening is a service that anyone can give, and we can all do it today!

• As we better understand what others are trying to tell us, both the speaker and the listener can increase their love and appreciation for one another.

• Listening can bring healing—even when we might disagree or feel resentment about what the other person is saying.

• Listening to others gives us a greater capacity to love.

Something to think about: You may have had interactions where you didn’t fully understand someone because neither of you felt listened to. How can you love others more by giving them a listening ear?

Small and simple challenge: This week’s challenge is simple but significant! Think about a friend or family member whose relationship has been strained in the last little bit. Take the time to reach out to them and ask how you could have listened better to the words they were saying and allow them to share without reservation.