Interview with the Family Institute

Acchi Family Life ke liye

Not a cakewalk, these expectations

Modern day problems

How can it be your life?

Old wine in new bottles

The stakes are high as traditional ways of thinking about gender roles, relationships, marriage, clash with modern values. What is the identity of a person outside of these social roles, relations and obligations they have? 

In this episode, the host Kavitha Devadas talks to Mohd. Ilyaz Shamshi from the Family Institute, Pria Warrick, and Neha Gupta to understand what kind of a home and a society are brides and grooms being trained for in finishing schools. 

Shownotes:

Pria Warrick Finishing School
Neha Gupta - Image Coach and Stylist
The Finishing School

The stakes are high as traditional ways of thinking about gender roles, relationships, marriage, clash with modern values. What is the identity of a person outside of these social roles, relations and obligations they have? 
In this episode, the host Kavitha Devadas talks to Mohd. Ilyaz Shamshi from the Family Institute, Pria Warrick, and Neha Gupta to understand what kind of a home and a society are brides and grooms being trained for in finishing schools. 
Shownotes:
<a href="https://www.priyawarrickfinishingschool.com/">Pria Warrick Finishing School</a> <a href="https://www.instagram.com/imagecoachneha/">Neha Gupta - Image Coach and Stylist</a> <a href="https://thefinishingschool.co.in/">The Finishing School</a>

From Suno India productions, Made to Order is a new podcast that explores finishing schools, personality development courses and makeovers classes in India. Antiquated ideas about women being taught etiquette and social graces have been reinvented for the modern times. How have things changed? Have they really changed? Where does the personal desire to better yourself begin, and the social pressure to fit in end? As we shine a light on finishing schools, they too hold a mirror back to the society we live in.

Join host Kavitha Devadas in this limited series to listen to the stories of the people who know this world the best.

From Suno India productions, Made to Order is a new podcast that explores finishing schools, personality development courses and makeovers classes in India. Antiquated ideas about women being taught etiquette and social graces have been reinvented for the modern times. How have things changed? Have they really changed? Where does the personal desire to better yourself begin, and the social pressure to fit in end? As we shine a light on finishing schools, they too hold a mirror back to the society we live in. Join host Kavitha Devadas in this limited series to listen to the stories of the people who know this world the best.

Made to Order

From Suno India productions, Made to Order is a new podcast that explores finishing schools, personality development courses and makeovers classes in India. Antiquated ideas about women being taught etiquette and social graces have been reinvented for modern times. How have things changed? Have they really changed? Where does the personal desire to better yourself begin, and the social pressure to fit in end? As we shine a light on finishing schools, they too hold a mirror back to the society we live in.

Join host Kavitha Devadas in this limited series to listen to the stories of the people who know this world the best.

From Suno India productions, Made to Order is a new podcast that explores finishing schools, personality development courses and makeovers classes in India. Antiquated ideas about women being taught etiquette and social graces have been reinvented for modern times. How have things changed? Have they really changed? Where does the personal desire to better yourself begin, and the social pressure to fit in end? As we shine a light on finishing schools, they too hold a mirror back to the society we live in. Join host Kavitha Devadas in this limited series to listen to the stories of the people who know this world the best.

Modern Values

No longer in the oblivion

Researching Grooming schools in Delhi

What do people do to fit in?

The times, they are changin’

Global aspirations

Accessing the fortress of West Delhi

Surprises along the way

Disruptions

Take that space

Suchismita Chattopadhyay has been researching grooming institutions in Delhi for the last 5 years. In an industry that seems to be widespread and competitive but not much has been written about, it wasn’t easy to gain access to those spaces. She discusses the process and some of her key findings with host Kavitha Devadas, who looks at the ways how these schools serve a purpose to bring together people as an unexplored space for community and camaraderie.



Mind Your Manners Official Trailer https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=EY2ggzY6lyo

Extraordinary Communication Skills by Sandeep Maheshwari https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=VczVqHJW0gg

Suchismita Chattopadhyay has been researching grooming institutions in Delhi for the last 5 years. In an industry that seems to be widespread and competitive but not much has been written about, it wasn’t easy to gain access to those spaces. She discusses the process and some of her key findings with host Kavitha Devadas, who looks at the ways how these schools serve a purpose to bring together people as an unexplored space for community and camaraderie.
 
Mind Your Manners Official Trailer <a href="https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=EY2ggzY6lyo">https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=EY2ggzY6lyo</a>
Extraordinary Communication Skills by Sandeep Maheshwari <a href="https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=VczVqHJW0gg">https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=VczVqHJW0gg</a>

Through The Eyes Of Another

Why are men attending finishing schools today?

Same, same but different

Akshay: Polishing what’s already there

Dhruv: Effort and practise

Have we not judged a book by its cover?

Our status quo

Episode 3 of Made to Order looks at some of the changes finishing schools have undergone, particularly with how they now have male clients and students. While the reasons for women attending or being sent to finishing schools seems more obvious, why are men attending these schools? What is their experience and how does that align with societal expectations? Host Kavitha Devadas finds out by speaking to Sugandha Mittal of Confianza school, as well Dhruv Sharma and Akshay Mashenka, two male students who have completed these courses but for different reasons.

Times of India: Finishing schools in Chennai evolve to enrol young men
A Finishing School for Men
British Butler Institute: Finishing school for men
GroomX: Bangalore’s first finishing school for men
Confianza finishing school

Episode 3 of Made to Order looks at some of the changes finishing schools have undergone, particularly with how they now have male clients and students. While the reasons for women attending or being sent to finishing schools seems more obvious, why are men attending these schools? What is their experience and how does that align with societal expectations? Host Kavitha Devadas finds out by speaking to Sugandha Mittal of Confianza school, as well Dhruv Sharma and Akshay Mashenka, two male students who have completed these courses but for different reasons.
<a href="https://timesofindia.indiatimes.com/city/chennai/city-finishing-schools-evolve-to-enroll-young-men/articleshow/80518686.cms">Times of India: Finishing schools in Chennai evolve to enrol young men</a> <a href="https://bobsbanter.com/a-finishing-school-for-men/">A Finishing School for Men</a> <a href="https://www.britishbutlerinstitute.com/finishing-school-home/finishing-school-programmes/finishing-school-for-men/">British Butler Institute</a>: Finishing school for men <a href="https://groomxfa.com/male-finishing-school-in-bangalore/">GroomX: Bangalore’s first finishing school for men</a> <a href="https://www.confianzaschool.com/">Confianza finishing school</a>

What about men?

Women in training all their lives

The Good Shepherd Finishing School

Real people: Jyotsna Kanted

A small price to pay

Unpresentable women

That one thing about finishing schools

The rebrand of finishing schools for today's context has meant they now appeal to everyone who has the means and resources to access them. But they are emblematic of ways in which society perceives the role of women. Even before finishing schools, women begin to train themselves for these roles. 

In episode 2, host Kavitha Devadas speaks to finishing school alums - Jyostna Kanted and Pooja Nagesh about their experience undertaking courses at finishing schools and the impact on their lives. Kauser Khan, one of the people running these schools, helps us understand why change is hard and slow to come. 

Home Science Courses in India
Good Shepherd Finishing School
Good Shepherd Finishing School  - Youtube promo video
Protocol Finishing School

The rebrand of finishing schools for today's context has meant they now appeal to everyone who has the means and resources to access them. But they are emblematic of ways in which society perceives the role of women. Even before finishing schools, women begin to train themselves for these roles. 
In episode 2, host Kavitha Devadas speaks to finishing school alums - Jyostna Kanted and Pooja Nagesh about their experience undertaking courses at finishing schools and the impact on their lives. Kauser Khan, one of the people running these schools, helps us understand why change is hard and slow to come. 
<a href="https://ezinearticles.com/?Home-Science-Courses-in-India&amp;id=4086744">Home Science Courses in India</a> <a href="https://www.facebook.com/GSFSEdu/">Good Shepherd Finishing School</a> <a href="https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=mGSIf1IfHuk">Good Shepherd Finishing School</a>  - Youtube promo video <a href="https://protocol.org.in/about-us/">Protocol Finishing School</a>

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