Is my dick too small? Do they notice my man boobs? Does she think I just want sex? Are my legs too skinny? Am I strong enough to do any position she desires? Is this a safe space for my trauma?

These are things that the men in this episode have said and I really hope you take the time to listen. Mike Johnson, an Air Force Vet and certified sex coach,  best known for being on ABC's The Bachelorette and Bachelor in Paradise, opens up about his struggle with performance anxiety. Performance anxiety happens when you feel stress about your body image or your ability to please your partner. And sex coach Alex Grendi talks about what men really need to get and stay hard PLUS the importance of men being vulnerable.  


What should someone say when their partner can’t get hard? What are men most insecure about? Let’s discuss

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<div>Is my dick too small? Do they notice my man boobs? Does she think I just want sex? Are my legs too skinny? Am I strong enough to do any position she desires? Is this a safe space for my trauma?<br><br>These are things that the men in this episode have said and I really hope you take the time to listen. Mike Johnson, an Air Force Vet and certified sex coach,  best known for being on ABC's The Bachelorette and Bachelor in Paradise, opens up about his struggle with performance anxiety. Performance anxiety happens when you feel stress about your body image or your ability to please your partner. And sex coach Alex Grendi talks about what men really need to get and stay hard PLUS the importance of men being vulnerable.  <br><br><br>What should someone say when their partner can’t get hard? What are men most insecure about? Let’s discuss<br><br>Thank you Better Help for sponsoring this episode. <br> <br>Promo Code: <br><br>Better Help: Visit <a href="http://www.betterhelp.com/Lovers">www.betterhelp.com/Lovers</a> today to get 10% off your first month.<br><br></div><br><div>Follow Shan:<br><a href="http://instagram.com/shanboody">http://instagram.com/shanboody</a>
</div><br><div>Call in to the show to leave a voice note<br>‪(323) 375-4797<br>loversfriendspodcast@gmail.com</div><br><div>Follow the guests on this episode: </div><br><div>Mike Johnson<br><a href="https://www.instagram.com/hiabbydelarosa">https://www.instagram.com/</a>Mike_Johnson<br><a href="http://onlyfans.com/hiabbydelarosa">http://</a><a href="http://www.feelingseen.com">www.feelingseen.com</a>
</div><br><div>Alex Grendi<br><a href="https://www.instagram.com/mayanageathers/">https://www.instagram.com/</a>Alex.grendi<br><a href="https://www.mayanageathers.com/">https://www.</a><a href="http://superiorlovers.com">superiorlovers.com</a><br><a href="https://www.youtube.com/c/AlexGrendiSL">https://www.youtube.com/c/AlexGrendiSL</a><br><br></div>

Lovers by Shan is an education-first space where listeners come to better understand their own intimate lives through the life lessons and expertise of others. Shan Boodram’s mission is to empower everyone to be their own intimacy expert in the bedroom and beyond by treating guests of the podcast as educators in their own right.

Past guest include Kelly Rowland who taught us about being a sensualist. Becky G who shared the importance of healthy love in an unhealthy body. Kerry Washington who warned about the dangers of keeping secrets. Kamie Crawford who taught us about the joys of breaking up. Jesse Reyez who reminded us that it's alright to admit you're the one who let a good one get away.

When we paused in 2023 we had 5.1 million listeners and 8 million YouTube views. Excited to see how many lives we can impact in 2025 with our fresh look and approach.

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<p>Lovers by Shan is an education-first space where listeners come to better understand their own intimate lives through the life lessons and expertise of others. Shan Boodram&rsquo;s mission is to empower everyone to be their own intimacy expert in the bedroom and beyond by treating guests of the podcast as educators in their own right.<br><br>Past guest include <strong>Kelly Rowland </strong>who taught us about being a sensualist<strong>. Becky G </strong>who shared the importance of healthy love in an unhealthy body.<strong> Kerry Washington </strong>who warned about the dangers of keeping secrets. <strong>Kamie Crawford </strong>who taught us about the joys of breaking up.<strong> Jesse Reyez</strong> who reminded us that it's alright to admit you're the one who let a good one get away.<br><br>When we paused in 2023 we had <strong>5.1 million listeners</strong> and <strong>8 million</strong> YouTube views. Excited to see how many lives we can impact in 2025 with our fresh look and approach.</p>
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