In this episode, Shan interviews comedian Ashley Hesseltine from the "Girls Gotta Eat" Podcast. You could argue that this episode is about women getting off with men partners without giving anything sexual in return, you could also argue it’s about the validity of blue balls, or that we’re here to discuss dating in a post me-too era. But what it really boils down to is rewriting sexual and romantic scripts, especially for singles. How do you end an intimate encounter where you want to end it...and have it be okay?

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In this episode, Shan interviews comedian Ashley Hesseltine from the "Girls Gotta Eat" Podcast. You could argue that this episode is about women getting off with men partners without giving anything sexual in return, you could also argue it’s about the validity of blue balls, or that we’re here to discuss dating in a post me-too era. But what it really boils down to is rewriting sexual and romantic scripts, especially for singles. How do you end an intimate encounter where you want to end it...and have it be okay?Follow Shan on Instagram: <a href="https://urldefense.com/v3/__http://www.instagram.com/shanboody__;!!NUnUjx3wvH5xgA!akF7IFJyLICMPrKr0ua_YQkrbPLYQU3uJN2g6joo-CLD5erH-KNYs00lGsfQqwdoqBbVYLuIgs_8LTF4_0rFFg%24">www.instagram.com/shanboody</a>Join Shan's Mailing List: <a href="https://urldefense.com/v3/__http://www.shanboodram.com/join__;!!NUnUjx3wvH5xgA!akF7IFJyLICMPrKr0ua_YQkrbPLYQU3uJN2g6joo-CLD5erH-KNYs00lGsfQqwdoqBbVYLuIgs_8LTGAd4HnBw%24">www.shanboodram.com/join</a>Follow Ashley Hesseltine: <a href="https://urldefense.com/v3/__http://www.instagram.com/ashhess__;!!NUnUjx3wvH5xgA!akF7IFJyLICMPrKr0ua_YQkrbPLYQU3uJN2g6joo-CLD5erH-KNYs00lGsfQqwdoqBbVYLuIgs_8LTEwp0_W2A%24">www.instagram.com/ashhess</a>Follow Los on Instagram: <a href="https://urldefense.com/v3/__http://www.instagram.com/blamelos__;!!NUnUjx3wvH5xgA!akF7IFJyLICMPrKr0ua_YQkrbPLYQU3uJN2g6joo-CLD5erH-KNYs00lGsfQqwdoqBbVYLuIgs_8LTHd_MLtqQ%24">www.instagram.com/blamelos</a>Listen to Enjoy the Podcast: <a href="https://urldefense.com/v3/__https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/enjoy-the-podcast/id1526698004__;!!NUnUjx3wvH5xgA!akF7IFJyLICMPrKr0ua_YQkrbPLYQU3uJN2g6joo-CLD5erH-KNYs00lGsfQqwdoqBbVYLuIgs_8LTGj-MJArA%24">https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/enjoy-the-podcast/id1526698004</a>Follow Lauren on Instagram: <a href="https://urldefense.com/v3/__http://www.instagram.com/thisislaurenelizabeth__;!!NUnUjx3wvH5xgA!akF7IFJyLICMPrKr0ua_YQkrbPLYQU3uJN2g6joo-CLD5erH-KNYs00lGsfQqwdoqBbVYLuIgs_8LTGREwafGg%24">www.instagram.com/thisislaurenelizabeth</a>

Lovers by Shan is an education-first space where listeners come to better understand their own intimate lives through the life lessons and expertise of others. Shan Boodram’s mission is to empower everyone to be their own intimacy expert in the bedroom and beyond by treating guests of the podcast as educators in their own right.

Past guest include Kelly Rowland who taught us about being a sensualist. Becky G who shared the importance of healthy love in an unhealthy body. Kerry Washington who warned about the dangers of keeping secrets. Kamie Crawford who taught us about the joys of breaking up. Jesse Reyez who reminded us that it's alright to admit you're the one who let a good one get away.

When we paused in 2023 we had 5.1 million listeners and 8 million YouTube views. Excited to see how many lives we can impact in 2025 with our fresh look and approach.

Sales and Distribution by Lemonada Media https://lemonadamedia.com/  

Lovers by Shan is an education-first space where listeners come to better understand their own intimate lives through the life lessons and expertise of others. Shan Boodram&rsquo;s mission is to empower everyone to be their own intimacy expert in the bedroom and beyond by treating guests of the podcast as educators in their own right. Past guest include Kelly Rowland who taught us about being a sensualist. Becky G who shared the importance of healthy love in an unhealthy body. Kerry Washington who warned about the dangers of keeping secrets. Kamie Crawford who taught us about the joys of breaking up. Jesse Reyez who reminded us that it's alright to admit you're the one who let a good one get away. When we paused in 2023 we had 5.1 million listeners and 8 million YouTube views. Excited to see how many lives we can impact in 2025 with our fresh look and approach.
Sales and Distribution by Lemonada Media <a href="https://lemonadamedia.com/" data-stringify-link="https://lemonadamedia.com/" data-sk="tooltip_parent">https://lemonadamedia.com/</a>&nbsp;&nbsp;