On your journey to find and keep love (if this is your wish) have you ever felt like maybe you are meant to stay single forever?

That is how this week’s guest, Glo Atanmo aka Glo Graphics on IG felt throughout most of her life. She was used to not being any man's first choice only to later date 12 quality men at once. Then in 2022, she embarked on her pursuit of finding her forever love.  She is now openly sharing her love story with her millions of followers online. 

In this episode, she breaks down what the journey looked like and how she pursued an intentional dating season that led her to her lover.

Research article by Lachlan Brown for HackSpirit called “I can’t find love”. - 20 things to remember if you feel this is you”. 

You’re not really looking
You’re list of wants in a partner is too long
You’re in the wrong place
You believe too much in soul mates and destiny
You’re still not over your ex (intimate idealization)
You don’t know what people want from you/ you don’t want to give it
You have unresolved childhood issues
You feel like you unconditionally deserve love
You try way too hard
You’re not being your true self
You don’t know how to play the game
You take dating for granted (entitlement issues)
You sabotage relationshipsThanks to the sponsors of this episode. 

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<div>On your journey to find and keep love (if this is your wish) have you ever felt like maybe you are meant to stay single forever? That is how this week’s guest, Glo Atanmo aka Glo Graphics on IG felt throughout most of her life. She was used to not being any man's first choice only to later date 12 quality men at once. Then in 2022, she embarked on her pursuit of finding her forever love.  She is now openly sharing her love story with her millions of followers online.  In this episode, she breaks down what the journey looked like and how she pursued an intentional dating season that led her to her lover. Research article by Lachlan Brown for HackSpirit called “I can’t find love”. - 20 things to remember if you feel this is you”. </div> <ol>
<li>You’re not really looking</li>
<li>You’re list of wants in a partner is too long</li>
<li>You’re in the wrong place</li>
<li>You believe too much in soul mates and destiny</li>
<li>You’re still not over your ex (intimate idealization)</li>
<li>You don’t know what people want from you/ you don’t want to give it</li>
<li>You have unresolved childhood issues</li>
<li>You feel like you unconditionally deserve love</li>
<li>You try way too hard</li>
<li>You’re not being your true self</li>
<li>You don’t know how to play the game</li>
<li>You take dating for granted (entitlement issues)</li>
<li>You sabotage relationships</li>
</ol><div>Thanks to the sponsors of this episode.  ZocDOC:  Go to <a href="https://zocdoc.com/lovers">https://zocdoc.com/lovers</a> and download the  Zocdoc app for FREE.  Babbel:  Get up to 55% off your subscription by going to <a href="https://babbel.com/LOVERS">https://babbel.com/LOVERS</a> Magic Spoon:  Get 5$ off your order by going to <a href="https://magicspoon.com/LOVERS">https://magicspoon.com/LOVERS</a> Follow Shan:  <a href="http://instagram.com/shanboody">http://instagram.com/shanboody</a> <a href="http://tiktok.com/shanboody">http://tiktok.com/shanboody</a> <a href="http://shanboodram.com/">https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCSE2Lr9RfYXiFtiX1jk5qng</a> loversfriendspodcast@gmail.com Follow Glo:  <a href="http://instagram.com/glographics">http://instagram.com/glographics</a> </div>

Lovers by Shan is an education-first space where listeners come to better understand their own intimate lives through the life lessons and expertise of others. Shan Boodram’s mission is to empower everyone to be their own intimacy expert in the bedroom and beyond by treating guests of the podcast as educators in their own right.

Past guest include Kelly Rowland who taught us about being a sensualist. Becky G who shared the importance of healthy love in an unhealthy body. Kerry Washington who warned about the dangers of keeping secrets. Kamie Crawford who taught us about the joys of breaking up. Jesse Reyez who reminded us that it's alright to admit you're the one who let a good one get away.

When we paused in 2023 we had 5.1 million listeners and 8 million YouTube views. Excited to see how many lives we can impact in 2025 with our fresh look and approach.

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Lovers by Shan is an education-first space where listeners come to better understand their own intimate lives through the life lessons and expertise of others. Shan Boodram&rsquo;s mission is to empower everyone to be their own intimacy expert in the bedroom and beyond by treating guests of the podcast as educators in their own right. Past guest include Kelly Rowland who taught us about being a sensualist. Becky G who shared the importance of healthy love in an unhealthy body. Kerry Washington who warned about the dangers of keeping secrets. Kamie Crawford who taught us about the joys of breaking up. Jesse Reyez who reminded us that it's alright to admit you're the one who let a good one get away. When we paused in 2023 we had 5.1 million listeners and 8 million YouTube views. Excited to see how many lives we can impact in 2025 with our fresh look and approach.
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