In this week’s episode, I sit down with the legendary Cree Summer to talk about her journey through love, loss, and rediscovery in her 50s. Cree opens up about losing her sex drive during her marriage due to a lack of emotional shelter and the importance of finding a partner who provides safety and calm during life’s storms. We also dive into how her sex drive has improved post-menopause and what she’s looking forward to as she explores love again in her senior years. Whether you’re navigating relationships, rethinking intimacy, or seeking inspiration for your own journey, this conversation is a must-listen.


Episode Highlights:
Cree’s reflections on her marriage and why emotional shelter is non-negotiable in a relationship
How menopause transformed her sex drive and perspective on intimacy
The importance of finding a partner who provides safety and positivity
Cree’s hopes and expectations for love in her golden years
Lessons on emotional security, provision, and rediscovering self-worth
The importance of women making the first move and asking men out


Thank You Cree Summer
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<div>In this week’s episode, I sit down with the legendary Cree Summer to talk about her journey through love, loss, and rediscovery in her 50s. Cree opens up about losing her sex drive during her marriage due to a lack of emotional shelter and the importance of finding a partner who provides safety and calm during life’s storms. We also dive into how her sex drive has improved post-menopause and what she’s looking forward to as she explores love again in her senior years. Whether you’re navigating relationships, rethinking intimacy, or seeking inspiration for your own journey, this conversation is a must-listen. Episode Highlights:</div><ul>
<li>Cree’s reflections on her marriage and why emotional shelter is non-negotiable in a relationship</li>
<li>How menopause transformed her sex drive and perspective on intimacy</li>
<li>The importance of finding a partner who provides safety and positivity</li>
<li>Cree’s hopes and expectations for love in her golden years</li>
<li>Lessons on emotional security, provision, and rediscovering self-worth</li>
<li>The importance of women making the first move and asking men out </li>
</ul><div>
 Thank You Cree Summer <a href="http://instagram.com/iamcreesummer">instagram.com/iamcreesummer </a><a href="http://x.com/iamcreesummer">x.com/iamcreesummer </a><a href="https://www.adultswim.com/videos/oh-my-god-yes-a-series-of-extremely-relatable-circumstances">https://www.adultswim.com/videos/oh-my-god-yes-a-series-of-extremely-relatable-circumstances</a> Join My Mailing List <a href="https://www.loversbyshan.com/newsletter">https://www.loversbyshan.com/newsletter</a> Lovers Community If you’re interested in joining the Lovers community, click here to join the waitlist: <a href="https://www.loversbyshan.com/community">https://www.loversbyshan.com/community </a> If you enjoyed this episode, don’t forget to subscribe, leave a review, and share it with someone who might need to hear Cree’s powerful story. For more conversations like this, visit<a href="https://loversbyshan.com/"> LoversByShan.com</a> and join our community for exclusive content, workshops, and more!</div>

Lovers by Shan is an education-first space where listeners come to better understand their own intimate lives through the life lessons and expertise of others. Shan Boodram’s mission is to empower everyone to be their own intimacy expert in the bedroom and beyond by treating guests of the podcast as educators in their own right.

Past guest include Kelly Rowland who taught us about being a sensualist. Becky G who shared the importance of healthy love in an unhealthy body. Kerry Washington who warned about the dangers of keeping secrets. Kamie Crawford who taught us about the joys of breaking up. Jesse Reyez who reminded us that it's alright to admit you're the one who let a good one get away.

When we paused in 2023 we had 5.1 million listeners and 8 million YouTube views. Excited to see how many lives we can impact in 2025 with our fresh look and approach.

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Lovers by Shan is an education-first space where listeners come to better understand their own intimate lives through the life lessons and expertise of others. Shan Boodram&rsquo;s mission is to empower everyone to be their own intimacy expert in the bedroom and beyond by treating guests of the podcast as educators in their own right. Past guest include Kelly Rowland who taught us about being a sensualist. Becky G who shared the importance of healthy love in an unhealthy body. Kerry Washington who warned about the dangers of keeping secrets. Kamie Crawford who taught us about the joys of breaking up. Jesse Reyez who reminded us that it's alright to admit you're the one who let a good one get away. When we paused in 2023 we had 5.1 million listeners and 8 million YouTube views. Excited to see how many lives we can impact in 2025 with our fresh look and approach.
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