In this special episode of Living Strong, brought to you by Sun City West Christian Church, we explore the origin, importance, and true meaning of fatherhood. Moving beyond the typical ties, tools, and grilling gadgets, we dive into what fathers and families actually need to thrive.

Drawing insights from historical marriage guides, Dr. Laura Schlessinger’s bestseller The Proper Care and Feeding of Husbands, and timeless biblical wisdom, this message breaks down four essential, non-material gifts every family should cultivate: Contentment, Time, Encouragement, and Affection.

Key Takeaways


The True Value of a Father: God evaluates men by their hearts and faithfulness, not by their bank accounts or titles.


The Gift of Contentment: Men often attach their identity to a paycheck, but true peace comes from prioritizing faith and family over worldly wealth.


The Gift of Time: Children spell love T-I-M-E. Don't climb the ladder of success only to discover it’s leaning against the wrong wall.


The Power of Encouragement: Kind words give us strength to endure life's hardships—words of support can double a person's capacity to withstand stress.


The Importance of Affection: Active affection, gentle touch, and clear reassurances keep a marriage strong across a lifetime.


Core Priorities for Life:God $\rightarrow$ Marriage $\rightarrow$ Family $\rightarrow$ Church.

Scripture & Passages Referenced


Ephesians 6:1–4 — Honoring parents and raising children in the Lord.


Proverbs 23:24 — The father of a righteous child has great joy.


3 John 1:4 — No greater joy than to hear that my children walk in truth.


1 Timothy 6:6–8 — Godliness with contentment is great gain.


Hebrews 13:5 — Keep your lives free from the love of money and be content.


Proverbs 15:16 — Better a little with the fear of the Lord than great wealth with turmoil.


Ecclesiastes 4:4, 7–8 — The vanity of chasing wealth at the expense of family.


Luke 10:38–42 — Mary and Martha: Prioritizing what truly matters.


Proverbs 16:24 — Gracious words are a honeycomb, sweet to the soul.


1 Thessalonians 5:11 — Encourage one another and build each other up.


1 Corinthians 7:3 — Fulfilling marital duties and affection.

Connect & Worship with Us

Join us every Sunday morning at Sun City West Christian Church (20803 N 151st Ave, Sun City West, AZ):


8:00 AM: Classic & New Worship Blend


9:30 AM: Traditional Hymns


11:00 AM: Contemporary Live Worship & Kids Programs

In this special episode of Living Strong, brought to you by <a href="https://scwcc.org/" data-hveid="0" data-ved="0CAAQ_4QMahgKEwij-9ifnf2VAxUAAAAAHQAAAAAQhwE">Sun City West Christian Church</a>, we explore the origin, importance, and true meaning of fatherhood. Moving beyond the typical ties, tools, and grilling gadgets, we dive into what fathers and families actually need to thrive.
Drawing insights from historical marriage guides, Dr. Laura Schlessinger&rsquo;s bestseller The Proper Care and Feeding of Husbands, and timeless biblical wisdom, this message breaks down four essential, non-material gifts every family should cultivate: Contentment, Time, Encouragement, and Affection.
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Key Takeaways
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The True Value of a Father: God evaluates men by their hearts and faithfulness, not by their bank accounts or titles.
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The Gift of Contentment: Men often attach their identity to a paycheck, but true peace comes from prioritizing faith and family over worldly wealth.
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The Gift of Time: Children spell love T-I-M-E. Don't climb the ladder of success only to discover it&rsquo;s leaning against the wrong wall.
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The Power of Encouragement: Kind words give us strength to endure life's hardships&mdash;words of support can double a person's capacity to withstand stress.
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The Importance of Affection: Active affection, gentle touch, and clear reassurances keep a marriage strong across a lifetime.
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Core Priorities for Life: God $\rightarrow$ Marriage $\rightarrow$ Family $\rightarrow$ Church.
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Scripture &amp; Passages Referenced
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<a href="https://www.biblegateway.com/passage/?search=Ephesians+6%3A1-4&amp;version=NIV" data-hveid="0" data-ved="0CAAQ_4QMahgKEwij-9ifnf2VAxUAAAAAHQAAAAAQiAE">Ephesians 6:1&ndash;4</a> &mdash; Honoring parents and raising children in the Lord.
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<a href="https://www.google.com/search?q=https://www.biblegateway.com/passage/%3Fsearch%3DProverbs%2B23%253A24%26version%3DNIV" data-hveid="0" data-ved="0CAAQ_4QMahgKEwij-9ifnf2VAxUAAAAAHQAAAAAQiQE">Proverbs 23:24</a> &mdash; The father of a righteous child has great joy.
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<a href="https://www.biblegateway.com/passage/?search=3+John+1%3A4&amp;version=NIV" data-hveid="0" data-ved="0CAAQ_4QMahgKEwij-9ifnf2VAxUAAAAAHQAAAAAQigE">3 John 1:4</a> &mdash; No greater joy than to hear that my children walk in truth.
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<a href="https://www.google.com/search?q=https://www.biblegateway.com/passage/%3Fsearch%3D1%2BTimothy%2B6%253A6-8%26version%3DNIV" data-hveid="0" data-ved="0CAAQ_4QMahgKEwij-9ifnf2VAxUAAAAAHQAAAAAQiwE">1 Timothy 6:6&ndash;8</a> &mdash; Godliness with contentment is great gain.
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<a href="https://www.biblegateway.com/passage/?search=Hebrews+13%3A5&amp;version=NIV" data-hveid="0" data-ved="0CAAQ_4QMahgKEwij-9ifnf2VAxUAAAAAHQAAAAAQjAE">Hebrews 13:5</a> &mdash; Keep your lives free from the love of money and be content.
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<a href="https://www.google.com/search?q=https://www.biblegateway.com/passage/%3Fsearch%3DProverbs%2B15%253A16%26version%3DNIV" data-hveid="0" data-ved="0CAAQ_4QMahgKEwij-9ifnf2VAxUAAAAAHQAAAAAQjQE">Proverbs 15:16</a> &mdash; Better a little with the fear of the Lord than great wealth with turmoil.
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<a href="https://www.google.com/search?q=https://www.biblegateway.com/passage/%3Fsearch%3DEcclesiastes%2B4%253A4%252C%2B7-8%26version%3DNIV" data-hveid="0" data-ved="0CAAQ_4QMahgKEwij-9ifnf2VAxUAAAAAHQAAAAAQjgE">Ecclesiastes 4:4, 7&ndash;8</a> &mdash; The vanity of chasing wealth at the expense of family.
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<a href="https://www.biblegateway.com/passage/?search=Luke+10%3A38-42&amp;version=NIV" data-hveid="0" data-ved="0CAAQ_4QMahgKEwij-9ifnf2VAxUAAAAAHQAAAAAQjwE">Luke 10:38&ndash;42</a> &mdash; Mary and Martha: Prioritizing what truly matters.
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<a href="https://www.biblegateway.com/passage/?search=Proverbs+16%3A24&amp;version=NIV" data-hveid="0" data-ved="0CAAQ_4QMahgKEwij-9ifnf2VAxUAAAAAHQAAAAAQkAE">Proverbs 16:24</a> &mdash; Gracious words are a honeycomb, sweet to the soul.
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<a href="https://www.biblegateway.com/passage/?search=1+Thessalonians+5%3A11&amp;version=NIV" data-hveid="0" data-ved="0CAAQ_4QMahgKEwij-9ifnf2VAxUAAAAAHQAAAAAQkQE">1 Thessalonians 5:11</a> &mdash; Encourage one another and build each other up.
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<a href="https://www.biblegateway.com/passage/?search=1+Corinthians+7%3A3&amp;version=NIV" data-hveid="0" data-ved="0CAAQ_4QMahgKEwij-9ifnf2VAxUAAAAAHQAAAAAQkgE">1 Corinthians 7:3</a> &mdash; Fulfilling marital duties and affection.
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Connect &amp; Worship with Us
Join us every Sunday morning at Sun City West Christian Church (20803 N 151st Ave, Sun City West, AZ):
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8:00 AM: Classic &amp; New Worship Blend
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9:30 AM: Traditional Hymns
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11:00 AM: Contemporary Live Worship &amp; Kids Programs
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SCW CHRISTIAN CHURCH (SCWCC) was established December 12, 1991, under the leadership of First Christian Church of Sun City. The present church sanctuary was built in February 1997, and underwent an expansion in 2011. 
SCWCC has always been a spiritual storehouse in the West Valley of the Phoenix area, where the Bible is taught as God’s inspired and ever-relevant Word to man. It is a non-denominational fellowship of Christians from different religious backgrounds who have found a common acceptance of Jesus Christ as Lord.