Kubenekushayisana ngemibono etinkhundleni tekuchumana mayelana nalokufanele kwentiwe ngumfati loshonelwe ngumyeni wakhe nangabe kunenkonzo yemngcwabo kumbe kunenkonzo yesikhumbuto salongasekho. Loku kuta ngemuva kwekutsi labanye batsi akufanele eme phambi kwebantfu akhulume kepha labanye batsi kuya ngaye umnfelokati nangabe afuna kutikhulumela ngemyeni wakhe.  Kwenaba ngalengcoco simeme losati ngetindzaba tebafelokati, Dr Sizakele Matlape.  nesati ngetemasiko Sense Tsabatse.