Welcome back to ask uncut where we answer your deep and burning questions!

How long do you have to ‘hold on’ to something you’re given? We mean like cards or things your kids have made? Lola made a very nice and very heavy burger… and Laura needs to know how long she has to keep it for!

Vibes for the week: 
Laura - The Secret Cellular Repair Night Cream 
Britt - Dr Diamond 
Keeshia - Christian Petracca On Trac Cookbook and @on.trac5 

Then we jump into your questions!

CAN YOU LOOK THROUGH PARTNER’S PHONE?
I’ve got a bit of a moral dilemma I’d love your thoughts on. It’s about whether it’s ever okay to look through your partner’s phone — and more specifically, does it change things if what you find actually proves they’ve been unfaithful or untruthful? I’ve never been the kind of person to snoop, but recently I found myself in a situation where my gut was telling me something wasn’t right. I didn’t want to be that person, but the curiosity and the need for reassurance were eating away at me. When I finally looked, I found that my partner had been deceitful. So now I keep wondering — if your instincts turn out to be right, does that lessen the wrongdoing, or is it still completely unjustified to look in the first place? FYI my partner was extremely upset and believes the act of snooping outweighs any wrongdoing.

BEST FRIEND HAD A BABY AND EXPECTS ME TO OFFER TO TAKE THE BABY (I”M CHILDFREE)
My best friend had a baby this year, and suddenly I’m Public Enemy #1 because I haven’t “offered to take the baby for a few hours.” I told her multiple times I’m happy to help- just tell me when! But apparently, she “shouldn’t have to ask.” Look, I love her, but I work full-time, I don’t want kids, and I’m not exactly out here craving baby cuddles on my day off. Am I supposed to just show up like, “Surprise! Hand me your child”? Am I a bad friend, or just child-free and confused

HUSBAND SLEEP TALKED AND I THINK HE CHEATED
A few days ago I had a sore come up “down there” and I mentioned it to my husband who I’ve been with for 15 years. I just put it down to stress and didn’t think too much about it. That night he woke me up sleep talking and said “no protection! Big mistake! Big mistake!!” It’s worth noting he does sleeptalk about work a lot as he works in a high stress job. Am I absolutely nuts for worrying that this has something to do with me saying I had a sore down there and now he’s sleep talking about it because he’s done the wrong thing and cheated and now he’s worrying about it in his sleep? He has never cheated (that I know about) and we’ve never had issues in the past. But I just can’t shake this feeling. The term “no protection” in his sleep talking has really thrown me as it’s such a randomly specific thing to say after I’ve said I have a sore there… please help! Am I overthinking or is this weird? Also worth noting it’s not like a visible blister or sore lol just literally a sore spot on the labia

FRIEND SHARED PRIVATE DETAILS I ASKED HER NOT TO
My brother recently went to rehab and it was very much in secret - no one knows except for his very close friends who he chose to tell. I told my two best friends in complete confidence and one of them spilled the beans to some of my other friends, despite me making it incredibly clear to them not to tell anyone. This isn’t the first time it has happened, as my same friend also let slip that I had done IVF which my husband wanted kept a secret except for 2 friends so I could have my besties to vent to. I feel my trust has now been completely broken twice - where can I even go from here?

 

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Welcome back to ask uncut where we answer your deep and burning questions!
How long do you have to &lsquo;hold on&rsquo; to something you&rsquo;re given? We mean like cards or things your kids have made? Lola made a very nice and very heavy burger&hellip; and Laura needs to know how long she has to keep it for!
Vibes for the week: Laura - <a href="https://thesecretskincare.com/products/cellular-repair-night-cream-sensitive">The Secret Cellular Repair Night Cream&nbsp; </a>Britt - <a href="https://drdiamond.com.au/?gad_source=1&amp;gad_campaignid=22809743512&amp;gbraid=0AAAABAtdYLsOT5PKPtLWQOHleJJfEno1U&amp;gclid=CjwKCAiA2svIBhB-EiwARWDPjkgY0QnDSnKcuGm0c4is14vMd1gM-Jjv4Z6JJjdgQ5Ibm_5BPGTtVRoCKicQAvD_BwE">Dr Diamond </a> Keeshia - Christian Petracca <a href="https://www.bigw.com.au/product/christian-petracca-on-trac-simple-and-healthy-recipes-to-keep-you-on-track-by-christian-petracca/p/6035896?utm_source=google&amp;utm_medium=cpc&amp;utm_id=21753682927&amp;utm_campaign=BIG+W+%7C+Play+%7C+PMax+%7C+Books&amp;utm_term=&amp;gclsrc=aw.ds&amp;gad_source=1&amp;gad_campaignid=21753684868&amp;gbraid=0AAAAADkZkLhxJlYuyYVkNTQj_gVsTg6IO&amp;gclid=CjwKCAiAw9vIBhBBEiwAraSATgaq92rkZ29BzqiCNsmmJt-FMaD1Izjf4MoxNQ5upRDG5jbxfwwswxoCI7cQAvD_BwE">On Trac Cookbook</a> and <a href="https://www.instagram.com/on.trac5/?hl=en">@on.trac5&nbsp;</a>
Then we jump into your questions!
CAN YOU LOOK THROUGH PARTNER&rsquo;S PHONE? I&rsquo;ve got a bit of a moral dilemma I&rsquo;d love your thoughts on. It&rsquo;s about whether it&rsquo;s ever okay to look through your partner&rsquo;s phone &mdash; and more specifically, does it change things if what you find actually proves they&rsquo;ve been unfaithful or untruthful? I&rsquo;ve never been the kind of person to snoop, but recently I found myself in a situation where my gut was telling me something wasn&rsquo;t right. I didn&rsquo;t want to be that person, but the curiosity and the need for reassurance were eating away at me. When I finally looked, I found that my partner had been deceitful. So now I keep wondering &mdash; if your instincts turn out to be right, does that lessen the wrongdoing, or is it still completely unjustified to look in the first place? FYI my partner was extremely upset and believes the act of snooping outweighs any wrongdoing.
BEST FRIEND HAD A BABY AND EXPECTS ME TO OFFER TO TAKE THE BABY (I&rdquo;M CHILDFREE) My best friend had a baby this year, and suddenly I&rsquo;m Public Enemy<a href="https://www.instagram.com/explore/tags/1/"> #1</a> because I haven&rsquo;t &ldquo;offered to take the baby for a few hours.&rdquo; I told her multiple times I&rsquo;m happy to help- just tell me when! But apparently, she &ldquo;shouldn&rsquo;t have to ask.&rdquo; Look, I love her, but I work full-time, I don&rsquo;t want kids, and I&rsquo;m not exactly out here craving baby cuddles on my day off. Am I supposed to just show up like, &ldquo;Surprise! Hand me your child&rdquo;? Am I a bad friend, or just child-free and confused
HUSBAND SLEEP TALKED AND I THINK HE CHEATED A few days ago I had a sore come up &ldquo;down there&rdquo; and I mentioned it to my husband who I&rsquo;ve been with for 15 years. I just put it down to stress and didn&rsquo;t think too much about it. That night he woke me up sleep talking and said &ldquo;no protection! Big mistake! Big mistake!!&rdquo; It&rsquo;s worth noting he does sleeptalk about work a lot as he works in a high stress job. Am I absolutely nuts for worrying that this has something to do with me saying I had a sore down there and now he&rsquo;s sleep talking about it because he&rsquo;s done the wrong thing and cheated and now he&rsquo;s worrying about it in his sleep? He has never cheated (that I know about) and we&rsquo;ve never had issues in the past. But I just can&rsquo;t shake this feeling. The term &ldquo;no protection&rdquo; in his sleep talking has really thrown me as it&rsquo;s such a randomly specific thing to say after I&rsquo;ve said I have a sore there&hellip; please help! Am I overthinking or is this weird? Also worth noting it&rsquo;s not like a visible blister or sore lol just literally a sore spot on the labia
FRIEND SHARED PRIVATE DETAILS I ASKED HER NOT TO My brother recently went to rehab and it was very much in secret - no one knows except for his very close friends who he chose to tell. I told my two best friends in complete confidence and one of them spilled the beans to some of my other friends, despite me making it incredibly clear to them not to tell anyone. This isn&rsquo;t the first time it has happened, as my same friend also let slip that I had done IVF which my husband wanted kept a secret except for 2 friends so I could have my besties to vent to. I feel my trust has now been completely broken twice - where can I even go from here?
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