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How incredibly awkward can facebook marketplace be? Laura's had the person who is way too keen for a chat and Britt has ended up... not paying for some boogie boards!
If you received a message saying "Available when? I work m-f and get home around 9ish" what would you think it meant? There's a man in Florida who, ahhhh misunderstood those of us working weekdays...

Vibes for the week:
Britt Podcast Trump Trials
Keeshia "Dancing for the Devil The 7M TikTok Cult " on Netflix
Laura Hippo Closet Dehumidifier

Then we jump into your questions:
I'VE BEEN SLEEPING WITH MY BEST FRIEND'S BROTHER
I have been friends with my bestie since primary school. We are in our early 20’s now. About 6 months ago I was staying at her house and I slept with her older brother. We had had a few drinks and it honestly just happened. I didn't say anything because I felt bad and thought it would never happen again. But, we have started sort of sleeping together… and now I have feelings! AHHHHH I am in so deep. What should I do? How do I know if it is worth seeing him seriously and risking the awkwardness with the whole family, and do I tell my friend regardless? I know she is going to be upset.


IS IT OK TO GHOST FRIENDS YOU'VE OUTGROWN?

 I am in a group chat with a few girls I went to high school with 10 years ago. I am close-ish with one, used to be close with two, then the other I never connect with. Every now and again the chat pops up about making plans and I never am really interested in being involved. I feel like I have to respond and make up a reason for not joining. I am asking, is it ok to ghost the chat? It feels harsh, but I can’t say “sorry guys I’ve outgrown the group”. The hard bit is that one of the girls I want to preserve my friendship with, and of course don’t want to seem ‘mean’ to the others. How do I approach this?




MY EX NAMED HIS DAUGHTER AFTER ME
My ex-fiance and I were together for a few years in our early twenties. After a few years of no contact we have since remained friendly and kept in touch with family updates, happy birthday etc. A couple of years ago he messaged me out of the blue after a few years and shared that he had a daughter. His message was friendly but he didn't share the daughter’s name which seemed like an odd omission at the time. We had planned a family and named our future kids so I did wonder if he had used *our* name. He popped up again today and curiosity got the better of me so I did a Facebook deepdive and within 10 minutes found his daughter's name. He hadn't borrowed *our* name but to my shock his daughter shared my name. I don't know what to think. I did some more research and it seems I am not the first person to ask this question. Many girls seem to be named after their fathers' ex-girlfriends, crushes, and mistresses. Is this a whole thing?

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Hey Lifers and welcome back to Ask Uncut where we answer all of your deep and dark questions and weigh in on all of the dilemmas!
How incredibly awkward can facebook marketplace be? Laura's had the person who is way too keen for a chat and Britt has ended up... not paying for some boogie boards! If you received a message saying "Available when? I work m-f and get home around 9ish" what would you think it meant? There's a man in Florida who, ahhhh misunderstood those of us working weekdays...
Vibes for the week: Britt <a href="https://podcasts.apple.com/au/podcast/trumps-trials/id1715894000">Podcast Trump Trials</a> Keeshia "Dancing for the Devil The 7M TikTok Cult " on Netflix Laura <a href="https://www.woolworths.com.au/shop/productdetails/178888?googleshop=true&amp;store_code=woolworths_supermarkets_1318&amp;utm_source=google&amp;utm_medium=cpc&amp;utm_campaign=WW-0001&amp;cq_net=g&amp;cq_src=GOOGLE&amp;cq_cmp=Woolies_8458_BAU_ShopExp_Top_WW-0001&amp;cq_med=71700000114609767&amp;cq_plac=&amp;cq_term=PRODUCT_GROUP&amp;ds_adt=pla&amp;cq_plt=gp&amp;cq_gclid=Cj0KCQjw0_WyBhDMARIsAL1Vz8scDXV6lyg50wLNvhW9cVq_YeFc1S6vIeEiKyXJ8TWzcjHWwGYOhLgaAlpdEALw_wcB&amp;ds_de=c&amp;ds_pc=local&amp;ds_cr=673891769478&amp;ds_tid=pla-2142167401150&amp;ds_locphys=9112615&amp;ds_pid=178888&amp;cmpid=smsm:ds:GOOGLE:Woolies_8458_BAU_ShopExp_Top_WW-0001:PRODUCT_GROUP&amp;gad_source=1&amp;gclid=Cj0KCQjw0_WyBhDMARIsAL1Vz8scDXV6lyg50wLNvhW9cVq_YeFc1S6vIeEiKyXJ8TWzcjHWwGYOhLgaAlpdEALw_wcB&amp;gclsrc=aw.ds">Hippo Closet Dehumidifier</a>
Then we jump into your questions:
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<li aria-level="1">I'VE BEEN SLEEPING WITH MY BEST FRIEND'S BROTHER I have been friends with my bestie since primary school. We are in our early 20’s now. About 6 months ago I was staying at her house and I slept with her older brother. We had had a few drinks and it honestly just happened. I didn't say anything because I felt bad and thought it would never happen again. But, we have started sort of sleeping together… and now I have feelings! AHHHHH I am in so deep. What should I do? How do I know if it is worth seeing him seriously and risking the awkwardness with the whole family, and do I tell my friend regardless? I know she is going to be upset. </li>
<li aria-level="1">IS IT OK TO GHOST FRIENDS YOU'VE OUTGROWN? I am in a group chat with a few girls I went to high school with 10 years ago. I am close-ish with one, used to be close with two, then the other I never connect with. Every now and again the chat pops up about making plans and I never am really interested in being involved. I feel like I have to respond and make up a reason for not joining. I am asking, is it ok to ghost the chat? It feels harsh, but I can’t say “sorry guys I’ve outgrown the group”. The hard bit is that one of the girls I want to preserve my friendship with, and of course don’t want to seem ‘mean’ to the others. How do I approach this? </li>
<li aria-level="1">MY EX NAMED HIS DAUGHTER AFTER ME My ex-fiance and I were together for a few years in our early twenties. After a few years of no contact we have since remained friendly and kept in touch with family updates, happy birthday etc. A couple of years ago he messaged me out of the blue after a few years and shared that he had a daughter. His message was friendly but he didn't share the daughter’s name which seemed like an odd omission at the time. We had planned a family and named our future kids so I did wonder if he had used *our* name. He popped up again today and curiosity got the better of me so I did a Facebook deepdive and within 10 minutes found his daughter's name. He hadn't borrowed *our* name but to my shock his daughter shared my name. I don't know what to think. I did some more research and it seems I am not the first person to ask this question. Many girls seem to be named after their fathers' ex-girlfriends, crushes, and mistresses. Is this a whole thing?</li>
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