Hey Lifers!

There's a lot going on today: ringworm, TV free lives, and pre peacocking.

Big question for ya, if you are in a long term relationship and you stop wanting to have sex (for any reasons), can you/should you 'allow' your partner to fulfil their sexual desires somewhere else?


There are so many factors that come into play with this question, and we unpack the grey areas.

Vibes for the week:
Laura:  Errr not having a TV
Britt: Cruel Summer on Prime video
Keeshia: Only murders in the building on Disney+

Then we jump into your questions:
Should I feel guilty about having a sex dream about one of my boyfriend’s single friends? This is maybe the second time I’ve ever had a sex dream and I woke up very horny. 
My partner and I have been together for 8 years. Within the next few months he is going to receive a portion of his inheritance from the sale of the family business. It is a huge amount (8 figures). He sat me down last night and explained to me that (his exact words) he did not trust me with his money and he wants me to sign a prenup/binding financial agreement before he receives it. I'm really hurt by the way he has raised this issue. Am I right to feel upset or am I overreacting?


I separated from my husband of 12 years about 2 years ago, it was a defence family so I spent a lot of my marriage alone looking after our 2 young kids whilst he was away and feeling very alone, unsupported and unimportant compared to his work. I became very depressed. I have recently started dating someone & he is a widow. His girlfriend passed away 3 years ago with cancer. He has had flings but nothing more since. Now after we spend time together he feels guilty and depressed because of his grief. I understand this is very normal. My question is… do I persist or will I be 2nd to something else again? This sounds wrong but I suffered years of never feeling like I was the priority. 

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Hey Lifers!
There's a lot going on today: ringworm, TV free lives, and pre peacocking.
Big question for ya, if you are in a long term relationship and you stop wanting to have sex (for any reasons), can you/should you 'allow' your partner to fulfil their sexual desires somewhere else?
 There are so many factors that come into play with this question, and we unpack the grey areas.
Vibes for the week: Laura:  Errr not having a TV Britt: Cruel Summer on Prime video Keeshia: Only murders in the building on Disney+
Then we jump into your questions:
<ul>
<li>Should I feel guilty about having a sex dream about one of my boyfriend’s single friends? This is maybe the second time I’ve ever had a sex dream and I woke up very horny. </li>
<li>My partner and I have been together for 8 years. Within the next few months he is going to receive a portion of his inheritance from the sale of the family business. It is a huge amount (8 figures). He sat me down last night and explained to me that (his exact words) he did not trust me with his money and he wants me to sign a prenup/binding financial agreement before he receives it. I'm really hurt by the way he has raised this issue. Am I right to feel upset or am I overreacting?</li>
<li>
I separated from my husband of 12 years about 2 years ago, it was a defence family so I spent a lot of my marriage alone looking after our 2 young kids whilst he was away and feeling very alone, unsupported and unimportant compared to his work. I became very depressed. I have recently started dating someone &amp; he is a widow. His girlfriend passed away 3 years ago with cancer. He has had flings but nothing more since. Now after we spend time together he feels guilty and depressed because of his grief. I understand this is very normal. My question is… do I persist or will I be 2nd to something else again? This sounds wrong but I suffered years of never feeling like I was the priority. 
</li>
</ul>
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Talking all things love, life, lust, and a bunch of other stuff. Nothing is off limits in this podcast that navigates relationships and dating in the modern day. Brought to you by two bachelor finalists Brittany Hockley and Laura Byrne.

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Ask Uncut - Can you expect monogamy if you no longer want sex with your partner?

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Today's episode is a special bonus episode with Britt's sister Sheri!
We put a call out a little while ago and Sheri was one of the most requested guests so we thought it was time to get a bit of a life update! Since we last had Sheri on the podcast, her and her husband have moved over to Scotland and had their first baby Maya. Maya was born 5-7 weeks premature.

We asked Sheri:


How are you going wearing hearing aids now? Do you feel stigma about being so young?
How does Sheri feel about Britt's long distance relationship and pending marriage?
What made you want to move overseas and did you feel guilty being so far away from family?
Their pregnancy journey
Maya's birth story
What was the best gift you were given after birth?
Have you lost much of your identity since becoming a mum?
How did you navigate getting 'back' nutrition and exercise? 


 

You can find Sheri's Instagram and Strive here.

You can listen to Sheri's previous episodes with us:
Talking Diet Culture and Nutrition with Sheri Hockley

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Today's episode is a special bonus episode with Britt's sister Sheri! We put a call out a little while ago and Sheri was one of the most requested guests so we thought it was time to get a bit of a life update! Since we last had Sheri on the podcast, her and her husband have moved over to Scotland and had their first baby Maya. Maya was born 5-7 weeks premature.
We asked Sheri:
<ul>
<li>
How are you going wearing hearing aids now? Do you feel stigma about being so young?
</li>
<li>How does Sheri feel about Britt's long distance relationship and pending marriage?</li>
<li>What made you want to move overseas and did you feel guilty being so far away from family?</li>
<li>Their pregnancy journey</li>
<li>Maya's birth story</li>
<li>What was the best gift you were given after birth?</li>
<li>Have you lost much of your identity since becoming a mum?</li>
<li>How did you navigate getting 'back' nutrition and exercise?&nbsp;
&nbsp;
</li>
</ul>
You can find Sheri's <a href="https://www.instagram.com/sherihealth/?hl=en">Instagram</a> and <a href="https://sherihealth.com/">Strive</a> here.
You can listen to Sheri's previous episodes with us: <a href="https://podcasts.apple.com/au/podcast/life-uncut/id1472126503?i=1000590088130">Talking Diet Culture and Nutrition with Sheri Hockley</a>
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A Premature Baby, Living Away From Family and 'Bouncing Back' Culture. Uncut with Sheri!

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Hey Lifers!

Today’s special ask uncut comes from our favourite fiances Britt and Ben!

First up, they answer a few questions about how it’s been seeing each other again, wedding plans, kids in the future etc! 

Then they jump into your questions!

MY HUSBAND DOESN’T APPRECIATE MY COOKING
My husband & I have a 6 month old baby. I’m a stay at home mum and he works full time. I make dinner every night which is always hard cooking with a baby as my husband doesn’t get home until 6.30 when we’re about to eat. Last night I made dinner like usual and in conversation I said do you like it? He responded ‘ahh it’s alright’ but said it in a way that he wasn’t impressed. This offended me as I put a lot of effort in, while juggling our baby. I would’ve been happy with just toast for dinner but I put in the effort just for him. He thinks it’s ok to be honest and that he thought the dinner was just ok. My question is.. if someone makes you something such as dinner.. is it ok to be honest and say you didn’t really like it? Or be appreciative that someone put in the effort and just say it was good! I asked him if he was at our friends house would he say something they made was just ok? He said no but because this is his home he thinks it’s ok to be honest


MY FRIEND HASN’T TOLD HER NEW BOYFRIEND THAT SHE CHEATED ON HER EX
Should my friend tell her new boyfriend the reason that her and her ex husband split was because she cheated? They’ve been together 6 months and she still hasn’t told him and is doubting she will but I think she’s crazy because he will eventually find out (shit gets around) and I think he will be pissed off that she wasn’t honest with him.

I’VE FALLEN FOR HIM BUT HE SAID HE SEES ME LIKE A SISTER
I have known this guy for 5 years + and he's been there through breakups, graduation, my mum’s cancer and as of recent my mum’s passing/ funeral! My mum loved him and he promised her he would protect me. He's always so active in my life and helping everywhere possible - since all this has happened I now think I'm falling for him but he says he sees me as nothing but a sister. He's 30, l'm 24. Am I just wasting my time or is there something I can do? Also Brit how do I get rid of the feeling as I feel the guy should always pursue you, not the other way around?

I KISSED ANOTHER GUY. DO I TELL MY LONG DISTANCE BOYFRIEND?
I’ve been with my partner for about 3 years, like Britt and Ben we are long distance with him living overseas. We have a great relationship but I haven't seen him for 3-4 months. I made a huge mistake and kissed someone recently on a night out. It meant nothing and I immediately regretted it and felt so guilty. I know it will never happen again. I worry if I tell him it will ruin everything and he may break up with me. Knowing I will never do it again and it was a mistake, do I tell him or can I just keep it to myself and pretend it didn't happen?

SHOULD I COMMIT TO HIM WHEN HE’S 8 YEARS YOUNGER?
So I have been seeing this guy off and on for a year and last night he asked me if I wanted to be his girlfriend. I’ve been searching for love for years now so this should have made me the happiest girl ever. He’s very into me and has told me and shown me as such. The thing is, he’s 8 years younger than me. I’ve reached an age where I hope my next partner is my last (I want to have kids and time is ticking). I like him and we get along great and have similar goals and values but I guess my question is, how do you know?

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Hey Lifers!
Today&rsquo;s special ask uncut comes from our favourite fiances Britt and Ben!
First up, they answer a few questions about how it&rsquo;s been seeing each other again, wedding plans, kids in the future etc!&nbsp;
Then they jump into your questions!
MY HUSBAND DOESN&rsquo;T APPRECIATE MY COOKING My husband &amp; I have a 6 month old baby. I&rsquo;m a stay at home mum and he works full time. I make dinner every night which is always hard cooking with a baby as my husband doesn&rsquo;t get home until 6.30 when we&rsquo;re about to eat. Last night I made dinner like usual and in conversation I said do you like it? He responded &lsquo;ahh it&rsquo;s alright&rsquo; but said it in a way that he wasn&rsquo;t impressed. This offended me as I put a lot of effort in, while juggling our baby. I would&rsquo;ve been happy with just toast for dinner but I put in the effort just for him. He thinks it&rsquo;s ok to be honest and that he thought the dinner was just ok. My question is.. if someone makes you something such as dinner.. is it ok to be honest and say you didn&rsquo;t really like it? Or be appreciative that someone put in the effort and just say it was good! I asked him if he was at our friends house would he say something they made was just ok? He said no but because this is his home he thinks it&rsquo;s ok to be honest
 MY FRIEND HASN&rsquo;T TOLD HER NEW BOYFRIEND THAT SHE CHEATED ON HER EX Should my friend tell her new boyfriend the reason that her and her ex husband split was because she cheated? They&rsquo;ve been together 6 months and she still hasn&rsquo;t told him and is doubting she will but I think she&rsquo;s crazy because he will eventually find out (shit gets around) and I think he will be pissed off that she wasn&rsquo;t honest with him.
I&rsquo;VE FALLEN FOR HIM BUT HE SAID HE SEES ME LIKE A SISTER I have known this guy for 5 years + and he's been there through breakups, graduation, my mum&rsquo;s cancer and as of recent my mum&rsquo;s passing/ funeral! My mum loved him and he promised her he would protect me. He's always so active in my life and helping everywhere possible - since all this has happened I now think I'm falling for him but he says he sees me as nothing but a sister. He's 30, l'm 24. Am I just wasting my time or is there something I can do? Also Brit how do I get rid of the feeling as I feel the guy should always pursue you, not the other way around?
I KISSED ANOTHER GUY. DO I TELL MY LONG DISTANCE BOYFRIEND? I&rsquo;ve been with my partner for about 3 years, like Britt and Ben we are long distance with him living overseas. We have a great relationship but I haven't seen him for 3-4 months. I made a huge mistake and kissed someone recently on a night out. It meant nothing and I immediately regretted it and felt so guilty. I know it will never happen again. I worry if I tell him it will ruin everything and he may break up with me. Knowing I will never do it again and it was a mistake, do I tell him or can I just keep it to myself and pretend it didn't happen?
SHOULD I COMMIT TO HIM WHEN HE&rsquo;S 8 YEARS YOUNGER? So I have been seeing this guy off and on for a year and last night he asked me if I wanted to be his girlfriend. I&rsquo;ve been searching for love for years now so this should have made me the happiest girl ever. He&rsquo;s very into me and has told me and shown me as such. The thing is, he&rsquo;s 8 years younger than me. I&rsquo;ve reached an age where I hope my next partner is my last (I want to have kids and time is ticking). I like him and we get along great and have similar goals and values but I guess my question is, how do you know?
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&nbsp;

Summer Ask Uncut with Britt and Ben!

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Hey Lifers!! Merry Christmas you wonderful things!

Can we start by saying that if you’re able to watch this on youtube instead, we highly recommend it because we have videos of the entire year and you’ll witness about 17 different hair styles from Britt in 2024 alone!

Laura really wanted us to sing some Christmas carols and she…kinda got her way. We might have discovered one of the weird audio duality sounds where ‘pumpkin pie’ can sound like something else!
Here are some of our favourite bits from the year, and you can listen to the whole episodes by clicking on the links!



Funny bits 


Britt eating someone else’s calamari 


Laura checking a nappy like a dipstick


Britt’s wedding dress code


Laura welfare check

Britt’s Engagement 

Surprise 
Britt and Ben share their engagement details 

Interviews
Elizabeth Gilbert
Tones and I
Angela White

Ask Uncut
Does your partner greet you at the end of the day?


Is it okay to wank at work?
She Cheated With Her Second Cousin

We hope you have the BEST Christmas imaginable. We love and appreciate you!

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Hey Lifers!! Merry Christmas you wonderful things!
Can we start by saying that if you&rsquo;re able to watch this on youtube instead, we highly recommend it because we have videos of the entire year and you&rsquo;ll witness about 17 different hair styles from Britt in 2024 alone!
Laura really wanted us to sing some Christmas carols and she&hellip;kinda got her way. We might have discovered one of the weird audio duality sounds where &lsquo;pumpkin pie&rsquo; can sound like something else! Here are some of our favourite bits from the year, and you can listen to the whole episodes by clicking on the links! 
Funny bits&nbsp;
<ul>
<li dir="ltr" aria-level="1">
<a href="https://podcasts.apple.com/au/podcast/life-uncut/id1472126503?i=1000656178544">Britt eating someone else&rsquo;s calamari&nbsp;</a>
</li>
<li dir="ltr" aria-level="1">
<a href="https://podcasts.apple.com/au/podcast/life-uncut/id1472126503?i=1000651109754">Laura checking a nappy like a dipstick</a> 
</li>
<li dir="ltr" aria-level="1">
<a href="https://podcasts.apple.com/au/podcast/life-uncut/id1472126503?i=1000672088252">Britt&rsquo;s wedding dress code</a>
</li>
<li dir="ltr" aria-level="1">
<a href="https://podcasts.apple.com/au/podcast/life-uncut/id1472126503?i=1000663014211">Laura welfare check</a>
</li>
</ul>
<a href="https://podcasts.apple.com/au/podcast/life-uncut/id1472126503?i=1000663014211"></a>Britt&rsquo;s Engagement&nbsp; 
<ul>
<li dir="ltr"><a href="https://podcasts.apple.com/au/podcast/life-uncut/id1472126503?i=1000658816500">Surprise&nbsp;</a></li>
<li dir="ltr"><a href="https://podcasts.apple.com/au/podcast/life-uncut/id1472126503?i=1000659309218">Britt and Ben share their engagement details&nbsp;</a></li>
</ul>
Interviews
<ul>
<li><a href="https://podcasts.apple.com/au/podcast/life-uncut/id1472126503?i=1000675781344">Elizabeth Gilbert</a></li>
<li><a href="https://podcasts.apple.com/au/podcast/life-uncut/id1472126503?i=1000650521247">Tones and I</a></li>
<li><a href="https://podcasts.apple.com/au/podcast/life-uncut/id1472126503?i=1000646025797">Angela White</a></li>
</ul>
Ask Uncut
<ul>
<li><a href="https://podcasts.apple.com/au/podcast/life-uncut/id1472126503?i=1000662556286">Does your partner greet you at the end of the day?</a></li>
<li>
<a href="https://podcasts.apple.com/au/podcast/life-uncut/id1472126503?i=1000653490986">Is it okay to wank at work?</a>
</li>
<li><a href="https://podcasts.apple.com/au/podcast/life-uncut/id1472126503?i=1000654205493">She Cheated With Her Second Cousin</a></li>
</ul>
We hope you have the BEST Christmas imaginable. We love and appreciate you!
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&nbsp;

Year in Review for 2024! The Funniest, Most Impactful and Most Controversial Moments!

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