THE LETTER Guest BRIAN MHLANGA & REITUMETSI MTHEMBU

Dear Mapaseka 

I would like to remain anonymous. I meet my partner in 2020 during covid, we were both home not working and I returned to work before the end of 2020. We moved in together where I rented I became pregnant along the way and I gave birth in 2021, he would get peace jobs there and there.

Early 2022 I asked a friend of mine to help him with cv revamp and applying for a job.
He then got a 6 months contract, he decided to move and go pay rent somewhere else coz he said where we stay its far from town. Then he cheated while he was there and I forgave him, when the contract ended he came back. Everything was on me financially, then we started a side business that he was running while I was at work. But I never saw where the rest of the money was going because he would come back to ask for money to stock from me. Before end of 2022 I feel pregnant again and I found out that he is cheating on me again.

I tried breaking up with him but he begged me not too, my problem is that he is not supportive in any way. Financially, emotionally, mentally and physically I'm all alone. I asked him to take the child to the clinic since I just came back to work and I can't be absent, and he refused then we argued and he packed his bags and went home. So I told him if he walks out of the door he must not come back coz I also had to find someone to look after the baby while I go to work because he was the one looking after the baby since he is not working.

Was I wrong for chasing him away? Because I could see that I'm going to go
crazy cause he is not helping me in anyway.

FROM KHETHIWE

GUEST: BRIAN MHLANGA – Life and Leadership Coach / 082 880 0007
GUEST: REITUMETSI MTHEMBU – Registered Counsellor
COUNSELLING WITH REITUMETSI: Whattsapp Call 064 388 7324 / INFO@REITUMETSEWELLNESS.CO.ZA