#TheLetter Dear Mapaseka, My Boyfriend And I Are Both Married And Have A Child Each

Published Aug 14, 2024, 7:58 PM

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Dear Mapaseka


I am a 30 year old woman engaged to be married to my 35 year old fiancé. We
both are bringing children into the marriage I have a daughter and he has a boy and a girl. We have been together for 2 years and our kids recently met and we are blending well. My partner respects me and treats me like a queen. The challenge is that when it comes to his mother I become the princess and she takes over as the
queen in our relationship and home we have just moved into. Mapaseka, I have never hated a person like I hate this woman; she gets into my fiancé’s head and changes his mind after we have made a decision, she makes him withdraw money from our savings as we prepare for marriage and the wedding, she wanted a new car and felt it was urgent and yet we are still planning to find a new school for the children and need to prioritise this.


She came to my house with the mother of my fiancés children without notice saying she must come see where the children will live and have dinner with us. She brings this lady whenever she feels like it because they shop together and have started a small boutique business together. Meaning I must accept her as a regular in my space. I don’t mind coparenting but I don’t need both these women in my space and making decisions in my household. My fiancé is so weak when it comes to his mother and lets her getaway with everything. His sister is exactly the same and they use him for money and remind me that this is his house and I’m just a fiancé and future wife who could be a divorcee. They have ruined

my relationship; I love this man so much, he treats me so well but I don’t think I will survive this; should I marry him?


THABISA


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