THE LETTER

Dear Mapaseka

I have been married for 10 years. To the same woman. We have 2 children together and I have been asking her for all these years if we can have more children. She married me knowing I want more kids at least 6. She said we shall see in the marriage and how things go. Our daughters are in primary schools now, i love them very much but now i need to have boys that will bear my father’s name and carry on the legacy. I have decided that I need 2 new wives and I have informed my wife that 1 is already on standby. I am not dating this lady, she is simply someone i met at our family church and see her as someone that could fit into our family. My wife lost her mind in front of my sisters whom i had asked to come into our home as i informed her.  She said she will take my kids away and ask me to leave our home so i can go build this new kingdom of mine. I do not want to start afresh; I want to grow my family. I asked her what happened to our conversation of me wanting more kids she does not want to address that and instead says she is prioritising her
career. I want to go ahead with my plan and ask an ex of mine to be the 3rd wife. I want my children and to grow my family, i am asking advice on how i can convince my wife to agree with the plan. I love her i do not want to lose her, how can I convince her to help me build this home?

FROM MPILO

GUEST: MAKABELO MOTAUNG - Dating and Relationship Coach

THE LETTER
Dear Mapaseka 
I have been married for 10 years. To the same woman. We have 2 children together and I
have been asking her for all these years if we can have more children. She married me
knowing I want more kids at least 6. She said we shall see in the marriage and how things
go. Our daughters are in primary schools now, i love them very much but now i need to
have boys that will bear my father’s name and carry on the legacy. I have decided that I
need 2 new wives and I have informed my wife that 1 is already on standby. I am not
dating this lady, she is simply someone i met at our family church and see her as someone
that could fit into our family. My wife lost her mind in front of my sisters whom i had asked
to come into our home as i informed her.  She said she will take my kids away and ask me
to leave our home so i can go build this new kingdom of mine. I do not want to start afresh;
I want to grow my family. I asked her what happened to our conversation of me wanting
more kids she does not want to address that and instead says she is prioritising her
career. 
I want to go ahead with my plan and ask an ex of mine to be the 3rd wife. I want my
children and to grow my family, i am asking advice on how i can convince my wife to agree
with the plan. I love her i do not want to lose her, how can I convince her to help me build
this home?
FROM MPILO

GUEST: MAKABELO MOTAUNG - Dating and Relationship Coach

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