THE LETTER Guest BRIAN MHLANGA & REITUMETSI MTHEMBU

Dear Mapaseka 
I am a 36 year old man who is married with 2 children.  I love my wife dearly and she is an amazing woman and mother, very supportive.  I lost my job 3 years ago and i have been struggling to replace it ever since, i started off doing part time jobs but they were temporary. I then decided to focus on raising our children and being a stay at home dad for our 5 and 7 year old. 


At some point i realised my wife was losing patience with me and her being
the sole financial provider. She was always tired and stressed. I could see she
would be embarrassed in family gatherings when she had to explain that i am
looking after the kids. 


A friend of mine suggested an opportunity of having sex with women who were lonely and willing to pay for the services, he got me into his group and I have been making such good money and told my wife it&#39;s an opportunity from one of my previous part- time jobs.  I got so far deep into it now I am sleeping with men as well and they pay more. 


My biggest dilemma is that during one of the group sex sessions I came across a colleague of hers she does not get along with. She saw me engaging in these acts.  I begged the colleague to not say a word and i gave her some money. I can't sleep at night, i still need this money but i want to  raise my children and have
a happy marriage. My wife has been so happy since i started working. What do i do?

FROM TSHEPO 

GUEST: BRIAN MHLANGA – Life and Leadership Coach
GUEST: REITUMETSI MTHEMBU – Registered Counsellor
COUNSELLING WITH REITUMETSI: INFO@REITUMETSEWELLNESS.CO.ZA

THE LETTER Guest BRIAN MHLANGA &amp; REITUMETSI MTHEMBU
Dear Mapaseka  I am a 36 year old man who is married with 2 children.  I love my wife dearly and she is an amazing woman and mother, very supportive.  I lost my job 3 years ago and i have been struggling to replace it ever since, i started off doing part time jobs but they were temporary. I then decided to focus on raising our children and being a stay at home dad for our 5 and 7 year old. 
 At some point i realised my wife was losing patience with me and her being the sole financial provider. She was always tired and stressed. I could see she would be embarrassed in family gatherings when she had to explain that i am looking after the kids. 
 A friend of mine suggested an opportunity of having sex with women who were lonely and willing to pay for the services, he got me into his group and I have been making such good money and told my wife it&amp;#39;s an opportunity from one of my previous part- time jobs.  I got so far deep into it now I am sleeping with men as well and they pay more. 
 My biggest dilemma is that during one of the group sex sessions I came across a colleague of hers she does not get along with. She saw me engaging in these acts.  I begged the colleague to not say a word and i gave her some money. I can't sleep at night, i still need this money but i want to  raise my children and have a happy marriage. My wife has been so happy since i started working. What do i do?
FROM TSHEPO  GUEST: BRIAN MHLANGA – Life and Leadership Coach GUEST: REITUMETSI MTHEMBU – Registered Counsellor COUNSELLING WITH REITUMETSI: INFO@REITUMETSEWELLNESS.CO.ZA

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The show, &lsquo;Life, Love and All&rsquo;&nbsp;will cover different daily themes such as leadership, family relationships, spirituality, navigating the generational gap, new age parenting, consumer rights, sexual education and many more. &nbsp;Who are you? What makes you tick? What are your struggles? What&rsquo;s important to you? Family? Love? Money? Your health?&nbsp;Mapaseka Mokwele explores the intricate aspects of Life Love and All.
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