THE LETTER Guest BRIAN MHLANGA & REITUMETSI MTHEMBU

Dear Mapaseka 
I am a 36 year old man who is married with 2 children.  I love my wife dearly and she is an amazing woman and mother, very supportive.  I lost my job 3 years ago and i have been struggling to replace it ever since, i started off doing part time jobs but they were temporary. I then decided to focus on raising our children and being a stay at home dad for our 5 and 7 year old. 

At some point i realised my wife was losing patience with me and her being
the sole financial provider. She was always tired and stressed. I could see she
would be embarrassed in family gatherings when she had to explain that i am
looking after the kids. 

A friend of mine suggested an opportunity of having sex with women who were lonely and willing to pay for the services, he got me into his group and I have been making such good money and told my wife it's an opportunity from one of my previous part- time jobs.  I got so far deep into it now I am sleeping with men as well and they pay more. 

My biggest dilemma is that during one of the group sex sessions I came across a colleague of hers she does not get along with. She saw me engaging in these acts.  I begged the colleague to not say a word and i gave her some money. I can't sleep at night, i still need this money but i want to  raise my children and have
a happy marriage. My wife has been so happy since i started working. What do i do?

FROM TSHEPO 

GUEST: BRIAN MHLANGA – Life and Leadership Coach
GUEST: REITUMETSI MTHEMBU – Registered Counsellor
COUNSELLING WITH REITUMETSI: INFO@REITUMETSEWELLNESS.CO.ZA