THE LETTER Guest REITUMETSE MTHEMBU & BONGANI LUVALO

Dear Mapaseka

I have been with a married man since 2013 (11 years) he was married when I
meant him, 2 years into our relationship I met someone and decided to get
married. Married guy would still send me messages on special days like
birthdays, Christmas and mothers day. My husband was emotionally abusive and
our relationship was toxic. In 2020 we separated and we are now divorce. I had
2 kids going into the marriage he also had his kids.

Now I am back with the married guy because he treated me well. Even when my
ex husband would stalk me at my workplace the married guy said I must leave
my job and he paid for my expenses. I am so confused as I love this married
man but I also want to be in a committed relationship. Im scared that I might be
hurt in love again if I try. Is it better to remain with the married man? I now also
have a friend with benefits in the meantime.

KEFILOE

GUEST: BONGANI LUVALO - Author and Founder of the Cool Dad’s
Foundation 072 087 5798

GUEST: REITUMETSE MTHEMBU : REITUMETSI MTHEMBU – Registered
Counselor
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