THE LETTER Guest REITUMETSE MTHEMBU & BONGANI LUVALO


Dear Mapaseka

I have been dating married women for over 7 years and i have been enjoying it, i have never dated single ladies ever since. The problem started when the current married lady
got pregnant, we thought it was not my child it was her husbands, but i had a feeling it might be mine, so we did a DNA last year and i found out i am the father of the child. The lady told me not to be part of the childs life and to never tell anyone about this, i kept this secret till now, I am finding it difficult and i really want to raise my child. The problem is that i am scared of the husband’s reaction if he finds out or to lose the lady as she is taking care of me financially. She bought me a car to keep the secret and I find myself not knowing what to do. I am scared the man might harm me since he is part of a gang. 

TEBOGO


GUEST: REITUMETSE MTHEMBU : Registered Counsellor COUNSELLING WITH REITUMETSI: Whattsapp Call 064 388 7324 / INFO@REITUMETSEWELLNESS.COM

GUEST: BONGANI LUVALO - Author “A Father, A Stranger: Mzantsi’s Memoirs of Fatherhood” and Founder of the Cool Dad’s Foundation
WWW.COOLDADSFOUNDATION.CO.ZA
@Bongani_Luvalo on Instagram

THE LETTER Guest REITUMETSE MTHEMBU &amp; BONGANI LUVALO
 Dear Mapaseka
I have been dating married women for over 7 years&nbsp;and i have been enjoying it, i have never dated single&nbsp;ladies ever since.&nbsp;The problem started when the current married lady got pregnant, we thought it was not my child it was her husbands, but i had a feeling it might be mine, so we did a DNA last year and i found out i am the father of the child.&nbsp;The lady told me not to be part of the childs life and&nbsp;to never tell anyone about this, i kept this secret till&nbsp;now, I am finding it difficult and i really want to raise&nbsp;my child. The problem is that i am scared of the&nbsp;husband&rsquo;s reaction if he finds out or to lose the&nbsp;lady as she is taking care of me financially.&nbsp;She bought me a car to keep the secret and I find&nbsp;myself not knowing what to do. I am scared the man&nbsp;might harm me since he is part of a gang.&nbsp;
TEBOGO
 GUEST: REITUMETSE MTHEMBU : Registered&nbsp;Counsellor&nbsp;COUNSELLING WITH REITUMETSI: Whattsapp Call 064&nbsp;388 7324 / <a href="mailto:INFO@REITUMETSEWELLNESS.COM">INFO@REITUMETSEWELLNESS.COM</a>
GUEST: BONGANI LUVALO - Author &ldquo;A Father, A Stranger:&nbsp;Mzantsi&rsquo;s Memoirs of Fatherhood&rdquo; and Founder of the Cool&nbsp;Dad&rsquo;s Foundation WWW.COOLDADSFOUNDATION.CO.ZA @Bongani_Luvalo on Instagram

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The show, ‘Life, Love and All’ will cover different daily themes such as leadership, family relationships, spirituality, navigating the generational gap, new age parenting, consumer rights, sexual education and many more.  Who are you? What makes you tick? What are your struggles? What’s important to you? Family? Love? Money? Your health? Mapaseka Mokwele explores the intricate aspects of Life Love and All.

Every Monday to Thursday, from 7 to 9pm, on Radio 2000

The show, &lsquo;Life, Love and All&rsquo;&nbsp;will cover different daily themes such as leadership, family relationships, spirituality, navigating the generational gap, new age parenting, consumer rights, sexual education and many more. &nbsp;Who are you? What makes you tick? What are your struggles? What&rsquo;s important to you? Family? Love? Money? Your health?&nbsp;Mapaseka Mokwele explores the intricate aspects of Life Love and All.
Every Monday to Thursday, from 7 to 9pm, on Radio 2000

#Life, Love And All

#TheLetter Dear Mapaseka, I Have Been Dating Married Women For Over 7 Years

THE HOTSEAT Guest ZONKE DIKANA

 

(born 11 October 1979), knownsimply as Zonke, is a South African singer-
songwriter and record producer.[1] Her rise to stardom came in 2011 following the release of her third album, Ina Ethe, which was certified double platinum and was nominated at the 18th South African Music Awards.[2][3] In 2013, she recorded
and released Give and Take Live, which was certified gold just two months after its release[3] and earned her a place in the Channel O list of & Africas Top 10 Female Singing Sensations In

September 2015, Zonke released Work of Heart, her fifth album, to critical acclaim with nominations in several categories at the 15th Metro FM Music Awards and 22nd South African Music Awards.[5] She signed a record deal to Sony Music Entertainment in 2013.[6] On 15 June 2018, she released L.O.V.E, her fifth studio album, with Sony
Zonke was born in KwaZakhele, Eastern Cape, South Africa. Her father, Vuyisile Dikana, was a drummer for a group called Black Slave and the Flamingo while her late stepmother Anneline Malebo was a singer for a musical band known as Joy.[8] She is a young sister to Lulu Dikana who is also a music artist. She is an alumna of the
University of the Free State, from where she graduated with a degree in human resource
management in 1997

THE HOTSEAT Guest ZONKE DIKANA
&nbsp;
(born 11 October 1979), knownsimply as Zonke, is a South African singer- songwriter and record producer.[1] Her rise to&nbsp;stardom came in 2011 following the release of her&nbsp;third album, Ina Ethe, which was certified double&nbsp;platinum and was nominated at the 18th South&nbsp;African Music Awards.[2][3] In 2013, she recorded and released Give and Take Live, which was&nbsp;certified gold just two months after its release[3]&nbsp;and earned her a place in the Channel O list of&nbsp;&amp; Africas Top 10 Female Singing Sensations In
September 2015, Zonke released Work of Heart,&nbsp;her fifth album, to critical acclaim with nominations&nbsp;in several categories at the 15th Metro FM Music&nbsp;Awards and 22nd South African Music Awards.[5]&nbsp;She signed a record deal to Sony Music&nbsp;Entertainment in 2013.[6] On 15 June 2018, she&nbsp;released L.O.V.E, her fifth studio album, with Sony Zonke was born in KwaZakhele, Eastern Cape,&nbsp;South Africa. Her father, Vuyisile Dikana, was a&nbsp;drummer for a group called Black Slave and the&nbsp;Flamingo while her late stepmother Anneline&nbsp;Malebo was a singer for a musical band known as&nbsp;Joy.[8] She is a young sister to Lulu Dikana who is&nbsp;also a music artist. She is an alumna of the University of the Free State, from where she&nbsp;graduated with a degree in human resource management in 1997

#TheHotSeat with Zonke Dikana (singer-songwriter and record producer)

THE LETTER Guest MBULELO MAYIKANA & REITUMETSE MTHEMBU


Dear Mapaseka


I'm typing this with tears rolling down my cheeks. I met my now husband after almost 2 years of being widowed and all was well as he understood me and my struggles at the time. While dating he was kicked out by his stepfather and I took him in and we lived together at my family home for years and my family loved him especially my mom.

The year 2020 happened and I lost my job at this point i had bought a house, became really depressed and he was there for me. I eventually found another job but not as good as the previous one since I can't even pay my bond with that salary but he helped out.
He pushed that we get married. I was skeptical but we did get married in 2022. He then started dating other women immediately after getting married and I found out sometime in 2023. During this time my mother was in and out of hospital until she passed on in 2023 September.

The day after I buried my mother his mistress called me to ask how did the funeral go. This man fought with me on the day telling me how unfair I was yet it&#39;s the girl that
called. He has been in and out going on dates with the lady and has never took me on one or even asked how do I feel after my mother's death. He eventually told me that
he wants the lady as a second wife that time we have no food in the house and 2months in arrears on the bond. 

The other day my kids told me they have found pics of him and this lady as well as the ladies kid...all playing happy family yet I don't even know when last did he take
a picture with his own child. I have asked for a divorce and he is refusing; that time the other lady is getting everything including his attention. This is just half of it
and…I am so tired.
TUMELO

GUEST: MBULELO MAYIKANA - Author of “Choices and Decision Making”; Founder of Contemporary Conversations / 076 468 2443
WWW.MBULELO.CO.ZA


GUEST: REITUMETSE MTHEMBU : Registered Counsellor . COUNSELLING WITH REITUMETSI: Whattsapp Call 064 388 7324 /
INFO@REITUMETSEWELLNESS.COM

THE LETTER Guest MBULELO MAYIKANA &amp; REITUMETSE MTHEMBU
 Dear Mapaseka
 I'm typing this with tears rolling down my cheeks.&nbsp;I met my now husband after almost 2 years of being&nbsp;widowed and all was well as he understood me and my&nbsp;struggles at the time. While dating he was kicked out by&nbsp;his stepfather and I took him in and we lived together at&nbsp;my family home for years and my family loved him&nbsp;especially my mom.
The year 2020 happened and I lost my job at this point i&nbsp;had bought a house, became really depressed and he&nbsp;was there for me. I eventually found another job but not&nbsp;as good as the previous one since I can't even pay my&nbsp;bond with that salary but he helped out. He pushed that we get married. I was skeptical but we did&nbsp;get married in 2022. He then started dating other women&nbsp;immediately after getting married and I found out&nbsp;sometime in 2023. During this time my mother was in and&nbsp;out of hospital until she passed on in 2023 September.
The day after I buried my mother his mistress called me&nbsp;to ask how did the funeral go. This man fought with me on&nbsp;the day telling me how unfair I was yet it&amp;#39;s the girl that called. He has been in and out going on dates with the&nbsp;lady and has never took me on one or even asked how do&nbsp;I feel after my mother's death. He eventually told me that he wants the lady as a second wife that time we have no&nbsp;food in the house and 2months in arrears on the bond.&nbsp;
The other day my kids told me they have found pics of&nbsp;him and this lady as well as the ladies kid...all playing&nbsp;happy family yet I don't even know when last did he take a picture with his own child. I have asked for a divorce&nbsp;and he is refusing; that time the other lady is getting&nbsp;everything including his attention. This is just half of it and&hellip;I am so tired. TUMELO
GUEST: MBULELO MAYIKANA - Author of &ldquo;Choices and&nbsp;Decision Making&rdquo;; Founder of Contemporary&nbsp;Conversations / 076 468 2443 <a href="WWW.MBULELO.CO.ZA">WWW.MBULELO.CO.ZA</a>
 GUEST: REITUMETSE MTHEMBU : Registered&nbsp;Counsellor . COUNSELLING WITH REITUMETSI:&nbsp;Whattsapp Call 064 388 7324 / INFO@REITUMETSEWELLNESS.COM

#TheLetter Dear Mapaseka, I'm typing this with tears rolling down my cheeks.

LIFE IN SOUTH AFRICA Guest 


30 years into Democracy; 2024 was an eventful year for us as South Africans, We now have a GNU, Spaza Shops making headlines, Zama Zama’s, Teenage Pregnancies,
Violent Crime and much more. Share the big story for 2024 for you.

Tonight we look into the Role of Traditional Leadership in South Africa: A Vision for 2025 and Beyond. Kgosi Nyalala Pilane, Chief of the Bakgatla Tribe in Northwest has some suggestions for us.

GUEST: KGOSI NYALALA PILANE - Chief of the Bakgatla Tribe in Northwest

LIFE IN SOUTH AFRICA Guest&nbsp;
 30 years into Democracy; 2024 was an eventful year for&nbsp;us as South Africans, We now have a GNU, Spaza Shops&nbsp;making headlines, Zama Zama&rsquo;s, Teenage Pregnancies, Violent Crime and much more. Share the big story for&nbsp;2024 for you.
Tonight we look into the Role of Traditional Leadership in&nbsp;South Africa: A Vision for 2025 and Beyond. Kgosi&nbsp;Nyalala Pilane, Chief of the Bakgatla Tribe in Northwest&nbsp;has some suggestions for us.
GUEST: KGOSI NYALALA PILANE - Chief of the&nbsp;Bakgatla Tribe in Northwest

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