THE LETTER Guest BRIAN MHLANGA & REITUMETSI MTHEMBU 

Dear Mapaseka 
I need to make a decision; to discontinue or try fix my relationship with my younger
sister. I am a 34 year old woman who is married with 2 kids. My sister is 29 and I
have been living with her for 2 years and she is wreaking havoc in my life.

My previous challenges with her included always feeling as though she is competing
with me and wanting whatever I may have and each time I would share the concern
with my mother but would be dismissed. My sister takes and never returns my
clothes, she goes through my phone and says she is just checking pictures, she calls
my friends as if they are her own friends, I found her a part time job where I work and
she would gossip about me at work.

I later asked them to release her from the job. I asked her to come live with me in Jhb from North West because I wanted someone to look after the kids and she was unemployed. She is a nurse but got fired from her job and this is why I asked her to stay with me. The last straw for me came when I found out that she is now pregnant with an ex of mine before I met my husband. I don’t even know how she found him, she says she stayed in touch with him and would communicate via social media.
I am so disappointed and my husband does not understand why this is bothering me.
Can I stay with this sister in my home or how do I deal with her moving forward?

From Sizakele

GUEST: BRIAN MHLANGA – Life and Leadership Coach / 082 880 0007

GUEST: REITUMETSI MTHEMBU – Registered Counsellor

COUNSELLING WITH REITUMETSI: Whattsapp Call 064 388 7324 /
INFO@REITUMETSEWELLNESS.CO.ZA