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Dear Mapaseka


I am a 33 year old man with no kids, i am dating a lady with 2 children. She is not working and i am renting a place for her and the children. We've been dating for a year now, we have never had sex and every-time I ask her to come over to my place she brings the kids along with her but when she wants to go out (Clubbing) with her cousin she takes the kids to her mom’s place.

Some time ago i decided to text her and tell her that i want to be intimate with her and it was for the first time I sent such a message. To my suprise her response was; all you can think of is sex and that i look like a sex addict. So she is not ready to get intimate with me and says she doesn't like sex. I must first prove myself and that i love her; (yet i pay rent buy food when the kids need anything i provide for them). I am seeking for advice; am i wasting my time or i should hang in there?

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THE LETTER Guest&nbsp;
 Dear Mapaseka
 I am a 33 year old man with no kids, i am dating a lady with 2 children.&nbsp;She is not working and i am renting a place for her and the children.&nbsp;We've been dating for a year now, we have never had sex and every-time I&nbsp;ask her to come over to my place she brings the kids along with her but&nbsp;when she wants to go out (Clubbing) with her cousin she takes the kids to&nbsp;her mom&rsquo;s place.
Some time ago i decided to text her and tell her that i want to be intimate&nbsp;with her and it was for the first time I sent such a message. To my suprise&nbsp;her response was; all you can think of is sex and that i look like a sex&nbsp;addict. So she is not ready to get intimate with me and says she doesn't&nbsp;like sex. I must first prove myself and that i love her; (yet i pay rent buy&nbsp;food when the kids need anything i provide for them).&nbsp;I am seeking for advice; am i wasting my time or i should hang in there?
TEBOGO
GUEST: BRIAN MHLANGA &ndash; Life and Leadership Coach / 082 880&nbsp;0007 GUEST: REITUMETSE MTHEMBU : REITUMETSI MTHEMBU &ndash; Registered&nbsp;Counselor COUNSELLING WITH REITUMETSI: Whattsapp Call 064 388&nbsp;7324 / INFO@REITUMETSEWELLNESS.CO.ZA

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Dear Mapaseka
I met my boyfriend 11 months ago; we both come from divorce with children. I have
completely detached from my ex-husband and only communicate on matters involving
My son’s school and health. My boyfriend on the other hand is still very much attached to
His ex-wife and 2 kids do all kinds of household activities together.
They meet up to buy groceries together; he makes sure her car is serviced and even takes
it for car wash and fills it with petrol.
They have family meetings every 2nd month and he still meets up with his brother
In-laws for soccer on some weekends. At this point he spends the same amount of time
with them as he does with me. I love his kids and truly don’t mind the time he spends with
them, but I am concerned about the time spent with the ex-wife. I asked him why he
bothered to divorce and he says she cheated and he can never look at her the same.
He lives 2 kilometres away from them and he says it's for his kids. Sometimes i find her at
his place picking up the kids' laundry. I can no longer accept things as they are;
But I love this man very much. He treats me well in all aspects; he is great with my son.
I allowed this as our relationship was new but I can't take it anymore.
I have asked him to move to a different area and to no longer shop with them
I also asked him to stop the regular family meetings. He feels as though I'm being
unreasonable; and he still wants to think about what he is willing to let go of. Am I being
unreasonable?

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Dear Mapaseka I met my boyfriend 11 months ago; we both come from divorce with children. I have completely detached from my ex-husband and only communicate on matters involving My son&rsquo;s school and health. My boyfriend on the other hand is still very much attached to His ex-wife and 2 kids do all kinds of household activities together. They meet up to buy groceries together; he makes sure her car is serviced and even takes it for car wash and fills it with petrol. They have family meetings every 2nd month and he still meets up with his brother In-laws for soccer on some weekends. At this point he spends the same amount of time with them as he does with me. I love his kids and truly don&rsquo;t mind the time he spends with them, but I am concerned about the time spent with the ex-wife. I asked him why he bothered to divorce and he says she cheated and he can never look at her the same. He lives 2 kilometres away from them and he says it's for his kids. Sometimes i find her at his place picking up the kids' laundry. I can no longer accept things as they are; But I love this man very much. He treats me well in all aspects; he is great with my son. I allowed this as our relationship was new but I can't take it anymore. I have asked him to move to a different area and to no longer shop with them I also asked him to stop the regular family meetings. He feels as though I'm being unreasonable; and he still wants to think about what he is willing to let go of. Am I being unreasonable?
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