THE LETTER

Dear Mapaseka ...I am a 32 year old woman who works as an administrator, I have a daughter who is 5 years old. I have been dating 2 men who are very different. After breaking up with the father of my daughter I felt I needed to be in control of my dating
life and be the one who chooses the best possible person for me. The first guy is a 50 year old who is highly successful and has asked if he can send a delegation to my family and we get married. He has an ex-wife and 3 children. He is always busy and permanently travelling with work. He says I would need to take my daughter back to my parents and she can visit our home. The second one is a 33 year old who is still finding his way and hustling. He lives with his parents and has no car but very kind
and reliable. He is great with my daughter. I am so torn as I feel I need to make a decision. Who should I go for, the young guy who is hustling and will eventually make
something of his career or the well established 50 year old who will also fund my small business idea and I will be financially stable. But he wants my daughter to live with my parents.

GUEST: MAKABELO MOTAUNG - Dating and Social Coach

GUEST: LINDA YENDE - Author of “Wake Up Woman” and Dear
Uncle L