THE LETTER Guest REITUMETSE MTHEMBU & BRIAN MHLANGA

Dear Mapaseka


I am writing to ask about the concept of forgiveness in a relationship; how
many times am I expected to forgive and can 100% trust truly be rebuilt
again? I am a 34 year old married man with two kids, I am a known member of
society as a counsellor and community member who is in the forefront on
solving community challenges.


My wife of 7 years is currently known as a woman who slept with the mayor’s
security team member. The security’s wife found them in bed in their home
and now the entire town talks about this and I am not able to avoid it in any
way.

The reason I stayed is because I myself had cheated once with a woman I
work with in the council offices. When my wife found out 4 years ago; I stopped the relationship and have never engaged in any activity with the lady. My wife also suffers from heavy mood swings and I often need to seek help at our local clinic for any medication that can help.


I changed my ways and she says she has stopped seeing the security but now
she is pregnant and we do not know who the child’s father will be. How do I remain a counsellor of this community and still manage my household and raise my children in a loving home; is there hope for us; can we forgive and have a happy marriage in this town?



GUEST: BRIAN MHLANGA – Life and Leadership Coach 
GUEST: REITUMETSE MTHEMBU : REITUMETSI MTHEMBU – Registered Counselor COUNSELLING WITH REITUMETSI: Whattsapp Call 064 388
7324 / INFO@REITUMETSEWELLNESS.CO.ZA

THE LETTER Guest REITUMETSE MTHEMBU &amp; BRIAN MHLANGA
Dear Mapaseka
 I am writing to ask about the concept of forgiveness in a relationship; how many times am I expected to forgive and can 100% trust truly be rebuilt again? I am a 34 year old married man with two kids, I am a known member of society as a counsellor and community member who is in the forefront on solving community challenges.
 My wife of 7 years is currently known as a woman who slept with the mayor’s security team member. The security’s wife found them in bed in their home and now the entire town talks about this and I am not able to avoid it in any way.
The reason I stayed is because I myself had cheated once with a woman I work with in the council offices. When my wife found out 4 years ago; I stopped the relationship and have never engaged in any activity with the lady. My wife also suffers from heavy mood swings and I often need to seek help at our local clinic for any medication that can help.
 I changed my ways and she says she has stopped seeing the security but now she is pregnant and we do not know who the child’s father will be. How do I remain a counsellor of this community and still manage my household and raise my children in a loving home; is there hope for us; can we forgive and have a happy marriage in this town? 
GUEST: BRIAN MHLANGA – Life and Leadership Coach  GUEST: REITUMETSE MTHEMBU : REITUMETSI MTHEMBU – Registered Counselor COUNSELLING WITH REITUMETSI: Whattsapp Call 064 388 7324 / INFO@REITUMETSEWELLNESS.CO.ZA

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The show, &lsquo;Life, Love and All&rsquo;&nbsp;will cover different daily themes such as leadership, family relationships, spirituality, navigating the generational gap, new age parenting, consumer rights, sexual education and many more. &nbsp;Who are you? What makes you tick? What are your struggles? What&rsquo;s important to you? Family? Love? Money? Your health?&nbsp;Mapaseka Mokwele explores the intricate aspects of Life Love and All.
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