Dear Life, Love and All
I have been married for 7 years; my wife and I struggled to have children until recently.
We have a 6 months only baby boy and he has brought us so much joy. The biggest challenge
for me is that from the time we got married intimacy has been about conceiving and during our
struggle the sex was timed around her ovulation; there was no joy and fun in it. When she was
pregnant she refused to be intimate the entire time, worried that something may go wrong.
I made a decision to focus on work and prepare for the baby. Now the baby is here and she
is still not ready for sex and it been 7 years of bad sex and over a year of zero intimacy.
I can't do this anymore. I sat down with her but I am told I'm the insensitive one and she
has now been diagnosed with postpartum. Is it reasonable for me to get a sex partner
until we resolve this issue; I don't want to divorce her, I want to raise my child in the same house.
I’m just not sure if i should get regular partner or be with different people.
How do i resolve this and is lack of sex reason enough to reconsider a marriage?
LWANDO