Dear Mapaseka
I need to make a decision between two women; for the life of me i am struggling
to choose. I have been dating my girlfriend for 4 years and she has 2 kids from a
previous relationship. She is very supportive, loving and always available for my
Needs. I am attracted to her, our sex life is great, i get along with her young kids
But the dad of the kids is too involved for my liking; as in he wants to be around her
house too often. And her family over burdens her for financial support.
I have saved up for lobola, proposed and have an upcoming meeting with her family;
I met someone new. As in 6 months ago and she has completely blown my mind.
She is in her mid 20’s with no kids. Im 36; she is ambitious, a successful
entrepreneur, and i can see a great financial future with her. I met her through my
work and we have a lot in common but she does not look after me as my fiance.
She is very independent and doesn't even cook.
I am attracted to both of these women and love them for different reasons.
I would like to have children with someone who also has no children like me.
I am simply confused and would like to ask you...what makes wife material?
Especially in the times we live in?