THE LETTER Guest REITUMETSE MTHEMBU & BONGANI LUVALO

Dear Mapaseka
I have been married since 2018 , we've been together since 2008. I have
cheated on my wife many times, for so long. And she's aware of all my scandals, in-fact she would swear at all the ladies I was with. In 2022 I started dating , this lady and I asked her to have a child. Mind you all along I thought I can't have children. My wife has 3 kids from her previous relationship.

Eventually the lady fell pregnant, my wife was angry and told me I can't have kids, so i agreed with her that the baby could not be mine. She insists its me who is infertile and we have never gone for testing.

When it was time to do paternity testing, I never showed up because i don't have the money, but I believe the child is mine. I have been unhappy in my marriage since 2019, my wife takes me for granted, she doesn’t treat me like a man and her children are grown and still live with us. They side with her on each argument. But I can't divorce because we live in my parents home, so I can't lose the house as I fear it might get to that.
Please help, I denied my own child. And I am not even paying support for the child.

VUSI

GUEST: BONGANI LUVALO - Author of A Father A Stranger and MD of the
Cool Dads Foundation 0007

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