Have you reached the point where you know you’ve had enough, but you have absolutely no idea what you want instead?

I seem to be having this conversation with women everywhere.

They’re less tolerant of things they once accepted, more protective of their time, more willing to speak up and less prepared to carry everybody else’s problems or keep doing things simply because they’ve always done them.

And underneath it all is a feeling: something needs to change.

In this episode of Leading You, I explore what happens when you begin to outgrow a life, identity, relationship or expectation that once suited you.

It doesn’t necessarily mean you’re having a midlife crisis or need to dramatically reinvent your life. Sometimes, you’ve simply changed.

We explore:
Why becoming less tolerant can actually be useful information
How we outgrow identities, relationships and definitions of success
Why something can have been right for one chapter and wrong for the next
How our relationship with time changes the choices we make
Why knowing what you’re sick of is only the beginning
Why “I don’t know yet” can be an honest and useful answer
The questions that can help you work out what you want next

 

Self-leadership eventually asks us to move beyond “What have I had enough of?” and towards a harder question:

“What am I ready to choose?”

Your next chapter doesn’t need to arrive as one enormous moment of clarity. Sometimes it begins with a boundary, a conversation, something you stop tolerating or one choice you start making differently.

Timestamps

00:00 Welcome to Leading You
00:31 Sick of the Bullshit
03:02 Outgrowing Your Old Life
06:37 Time Changes Everything
07:40 Small Shifts Not Blowups
08:41 Sponsor Clarity Compass
09:34 From Complaints to Choices
11:04 Space Before Clarity
12:37 Questions to Ask Yourself
14:11 Pay Attention to Your Voice
16:35 Closing and Reviews

 

Links:
Learn more about my group coaching program here
Get the Clarity Compass here

 

Connect with Julie:
LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/julie-hyde/
Instagram: @juliehydeleads
Website: https://juliehyde.com.au

Have you reached the point where you know you&rsquo;ve had enough, but you have absolutely no idea what you want instead?
I seem to be having this conversation with women everywhere.
They&rsquo;re less tolerant of things they once accepted, more protective of their time, more willing to speak up and less prepared to carry everybody else&rsquo;s problems or keep doing things simply because they&rsquo;ve always done them.
And underneath it all is a feeling:&nbsp;something needs to change.
In this episode of&nbsp;Leading You, I explore what happens when you begin to outgrow a life, identity, relationship or expectation that once suited you.
It doesn&rsquo;t necessarily mean you&rsquo;re having a midlife crisis or need to dramatically reinvent your life. Sometimes, you&rsquo;ve simply changed.
We explore:
<ul>
<li>Why becoming less tolerant can actually be useful information</li>
<li>How we outgrow identities, relationships and definitions of success</li>
<li>Why something can have been right for one chapter and wrong for the next</li>
<li>How our relationship with time changes the choices we make</li>
<li>Why knowing what you&rsquo;re sick of is only the beginning</li>
<li>Why &ldquo;I don&rsquo;t know yet&rdquo; can be an honest and useful answer</li>
<li>The questions that can help you work out what you want next</li>
</ul>
&nbsp;
Self-leadership eventually asks us to move beyond&nbsp;&ldquo;What have I had enough of?&rdquo;&nbsp;and towards a harder question:
&ldquo;What am I ready to choose?&rdquo;
Your next chapter doesn&rsquo;t need to arrive as one enormous moment of clarity. Sometimes it begins with a boundary, a conversation, something you stop tolerating or one choice you start making differently.
Timestamps
00:00 Welcome to Leading You 00:31 Sick of the Bullshit 03:02 Outgrowing Your Old Life 06:37 Time Changes Everything 07:40 Small Shifts Not Blowups 08:41 Sponsor Clarity Compass 09:34 From Complaints to Choices 11:04 Space Before Clarity 12:37 Questions to Ask Yourself 14:11 Pay Attention to Your Voice 16:35 Closing and Reviews
&nbsp;
Links: Learn more about my&nbsp;group coaching program&nbsp;<a href="https://juliehyde.com.au/leadher-mastermind" data-href="https://juliehyde.com.au/leadher-mastermind">here</a> Get the&nbsp;Clarity Compass&nbsp;<a href="https://programs.juliehyde.com.au/programs/claritycompass/" data-href="https://programs.juliehyde.com.au/programs/claritycompass/">here</a>
&nbsp;
Connect with Julie: LinkedIn:&nbsp;<a href="https://www.linkedin.com/in/julie-hyde/">https://www.linkedin.com/in/julie-hyde/</a> Instagram:<a href="https://www.instagram.com/juliehydeleads/">&nbsp;@juliehydeleads</a> Website:&nbsp;<a href="https://juliehyde.com.au">https://juliehyde.com.au</a>

Want to know the secret to confident and successful leadership?

Every week, Leading You showcases leadership of all kinds and you get the scoop on how to be an effective, modern leader who makes an impact.

There’s one thing we all have in common. We’re all leaders. First and foremost, you’re a leader of you. You don’t need a title to be a leader. Leadership is a mindset which anyone can adopt to create influence. The more leaders the world has, the better it will be.

I'll let you into something I know to be true - You can’t be a leader of others unless you’re a leader of self first. So if you want to have impact that leads to prosperity and happiness, it all starts with you. With your mindset and personal leadership toolbox, which Leading You will help you build up.

Leading you is hosted by Julie Hyde, an entrepreneur, corporate drop out and passionate leader. Julie knows one thing: you can’t control what happens to you but you can control how you respond. It’s why Leading You is important.

Each week, guests share their secret sauce. They reveal their roadmaps to success. How they’ve stayed anchored to who they are, insights into their courage and resilience and how to be emotionally and behaviourally agile. It’s a conversation, not an interrogation, and you’ll hear the human side of household names.

Want to know the secret to confident and successful leadership?
Every week, Leading You showcases leadership of all kinds and you get the scoop on how to be an effective, modern leader who makes an impact.
There’s one thing we all have in common. We’re all leaders. First and foremost, you’re a leader of you. You don’t need a title to be a leader. Leadership is a mindset which anyone can adopt to create influence. The more leaders the world has, the better it will be.
I'll let you into something I know to be true - You can’t be a leader of others unless you’re a leader of self first. So if you want to have impact that leads to prosperity and happiness, it all starts with you. With your mindset and personal leadership toolbox, which Leading You will help you build up.
Leading you is hosted by Julie Hyde, an entrepreneur, corporate drop out and passionate leader. Julie knows one thing: you can’t control what happens to you but you can control how you respond. It’s why Leading You is important.
Each week, guests share their secret sauce. They reveal their roadmaps to success. How they’ve stayed anchored to who they are, insights into their courage and resilience and how to be emotionally and behaviourally agile. It’s a conversation, not an interrogation, and you’ll hear the human side of household names.

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Leading You

Want to know the secret to confident and successful leadership?
Every week, Leading You showcases leadership of all kinds and you get the scoop on how to be an effective, modern leader who makes an impact.
There’s one thing we all have in common. We’re all leaders. First and foremost, you’re a leader of you. You don’t need a title to be a leader. Leadership is a mindset which anyone can adopt to create influence. The more leaders the world has, the better it will be.
I'll let you into something I know to be true - You can’t be a leader of others unless you’re a leader of self first. So if you want to have impact that leads to prosperity and happiness, it all starts with you. With your mindset and personal leadership toolbox, which Leading You will help you build up.
Leading you is hosted by Julie Hyde, an entrepreneur, corporate drop out and passionate leader. Julie knows one thing: you can’t control what happens to you but you can control how you respond. It’s why Leading You is important.
Each week, guests share their secret sauce. They reveal their roadmaps to success. How they’ve stayed anchored to who they are, insights into their courage and resilience and how to be emotionally and behaviourally agile. It’s a conversation, not an interrogation, and you’ll hear the human side of household names.