In this episode of Lead to Grow, Tommy Sim explores one of the most overlooked ideas in leadership development: your floor.

Most leaders focus on their ceiling. How inspiring, strategic, or high-performing they can be on their best days. But what if the real measure of leadership is how you show up on your worst days?

This episode explains why raising your floor, how you behave under pressure, stress, fatigue, or frustration, shapes your team far more than occasional peak moments.

If your team were asked what it’s like to work with you on your best day, the answers might sound great. But what about your worst day?

Tommy explains why leadership is less about brilliance and more about consistency, predictability, and emotional safety. When leaders justify poor behaviour with pressure, seniority, or stress, the impact multiplies across the business.

Using practical frameworks, relatable examples, and real-world leadership psychology, this episode helps leaders identify their “floor behaviours” and provides tools to consciously raise them.

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Tommy Sim: https://www.linkedin.com/in/tommysim/

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Key Concepts Covered

• Ceiling vs Floor Leadership
  Why avoiding destructive behaviours is just as important as building new leadership skills.
  
  
• Why senior leaders get less feedback
  As responsibility increases, accountability often decreases,making self-awareness critical.
  
  
• The ripple effect of leadership behaviour
  How small emotional lapses create anxiety, uncertainty, and disengagement across teams.
  
  
• Predictability over perfection
  Why teams prefer consistency, even over charisma.
  
  

Leadership Frameworks & Models Discussed

• John Maxwell’s Five Levels of Leadership
  Understanding how positional power can damage relationships if not managed consciously.
  
  
• DISC Personality Profiles
  How each leadership style has a unique “floor” under pressure:
• D (Dominant): Drive turns into force and aggression
• I (Influential): Energy turns into chaos and confusion
• S (Steady): Harmony turns into avoidance and silence
• C (Conscientious): Precision turns into withdrawal and paralysis
  
  
• Psychological Safety
  Referencing research by Amy Edmondson, highlighting how fear shuts down learning and performance.
  
  
• Consistency vs Talent
  Illustrated through sport, including LeBron James, whose greatness comes from a high floor, not just high peaks.
  
  
• Deliberate Practice
  Insights from Anders Ericsson on mastery being built through consistency, not flashes of brilliance.
  
  

Practical Tools to Raise Your Floor

• Self-awareness in real time
  Identify your triggers before your reactions take over.
  
  
• Manage energy, not just behaviour
  Why protecting your energy is essential when you’re always “on show”.
  
  
• Open person policy (not open door policy)
  Being accessible with presence, not interruption.
  
  
• Swap behaviours, don’t suppress them
  Replace destructive reactions with intentional alternatives.
  
  
• The 4/10 conversation
  How having small, timely feedback conversations prevents explosive 9/10 confrontations.
  
  
• Values under pressure
  Why leadership credibility is tested when things aren’t going well.
  
  

Listen & Watch

• Watch the full episode on YouTube: Lead to Grow with Inject: https://youtu.be/YOXw7CmQ7y4

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