Kholosa Ngaye

When people hear "church hurt" they often think of the congregants, abazalwana. But Pastors get hurt too, they are also human. Apha sivelela elabo icala, sijonga izinto eithi zibakhubekise endleleni babe besalindwe kukwenza umsebenzi wabo abawuthunyiweyo nguThixo. This conversation is also with Pastor Yolz.

Ilizwi kwiZenzi zabaPostile 2, phantsi kwesihloko ndaba esithi "Isipho soMoya oyingcwele" "Ke kaloku, ekuzalisekeni kwawo umhla wepentekoste, baye bonke bemxhelo mnye ndaweni-nye. Kwaza ngequbuliso kwaphuma ezulwini isandi esinjengesomoya ovuthuza ngamandla, sayizalisa indlu yonke abahleli kuyo. Kwabonakala kubo iilwimi ezabekayo ngathi zezomlilo, lwaolo lwahlala phezu kwabo ngabanye. Bazaliswa bonke nguMoya oyiNgcwele, baqala ukuthetha ngalwimi zimbi, njengoko uMoya wayebanika ukuba bathethe baphimisele. Ke kaloku kwakumi eYerusalem apho amaYuda, amadoda awoyika uThixo, evela kuzo zonke iintlanga eziphantsi kwezulu."

As May is Mental Health Awareness Month, we looked into Church Hurt, with the aim of encouraging ways of coming back to Lord. Abantu balimele ezinkonzweni, to a point where they decide to leave inkonzo umntu akhethe uzihlalela endlini. Lencoko siyohlule kabini, siqale uyivelela kwicala labazalwana sijonga izinto ezibalimazayo endleleni, nentoba kungathini na ukuze babuyele endlwini kaThixo. Sino Pastor Yolanda Bam-Mguye esincokola naye. 

Yakobi Chapter 1 - Kubaleleni ekuthini kuluvuyo olukhulu, bazalwana bam, xa nithe nagaxeleka ezilingweni ngezilingo, nisazi nje ukuba ucikido lokholo lwenu lusebenza umonde. Umode ke mawube nomsebenzi ozalisekileyo, ukuze nibe ngabazalisekileyo, abagqibeleleyo, ningaswelento. 

In today’s busy world, many of us feel stretched thin — juggling responsibilities, chasing deadlines, and yet still feeling like something is missing. We talk about wanting balance, but few of us feel like we’ve found it. What if the secret isn’t about doing more, but about choosing better?Today, we’re exploring the idea that everyday balance starts with smart priorities — and what that really looks like in our daily lives. Joining us on this conversation is Ms Pratiba Daya, the National co-ordinator at the Brahma Kumaris Gauteng.

Ilizwi kwincwadi yokuqala kaSamuel, Chapter 1: 19 - "Bavuka kusasa ngengomso, baqubuda phambi koYehova, babuya, bangena endlwini yabo eRama. UElikana wamazi uHana umkakhe; uYehova wamkhumbula."

"Uwile umthi oMkhulu" - Fare thee well Pastor Maphinda! The nation of God mourns the passing of Pastor Maphinda. uMfundisi served the kingdom of God, indima yakhe uyidlalile wayigqiba. As much as he is absent in the body, but he is present with God. In celebration his existence, we got to hear from abantu abamazi ncakasana, nabayihambe naye lendela; ekuquka kubo uMfundisi uMvila, sis Lali Tokwe, Mfundisi uMdolomba, Apostle Bathandwa "Mam K" Kwatsha, kwakunye no Pastor Babongile Moto. Ngalendlela sithi may the heavens receive Pastor Maphinda with warm hands. NguThixo obenika ikwanguye nothabathileyo. 

There is something called "destiny helper". Mrs Maramnco unpacks it esivezela nentoba siyohlula njani idestiny helper from idestiny killer and user. More than anything, she highlights ukubaluleka kwentoba usoxakwa uvele unike idolo ukutya kwalo and ask for guidance from the Lord.

Intshumayelo noTabita - Ilizwi likwincwadi ka Jeremiah chapter 1, from verse 2. Kodwa apho iintethe zibekwe khona kukwi verse ethi "I knew you before I formed you in your mother's womb." lanto ithi nantoni na eyenzeka ezimpilweni zethu uThixo uyayazi. Wahlala phantsi wayiqala, wayigqiba singekazalwa. 

In conversation with Dipty Naran, the co-ordinator of Brahma Kumaris center in Johannesburg about Freedom as an inside story. The Brahma Kumaris is a global spiritual university with centers in over 110 countries, including 11 in South Africa. Its focus is on reflection, self-transformation, and promoting peace and positive values in society.

Intshumayelo: Ilizwi lifumaneka kwincwadi yeGenesis 32 verse 22, "andizokuyeka ungandisikelelanga".

USongie usibalisela ngenceba kaThixo ebomini bakhe, nangomvuzo wokunyamezela endleleni, uhlale eNkosini. She is sharing this for the purpose of encouraging others and giving glory to God.

Kusemva kovuko lukaYesu, uTabita utyhila ilizwi kwincwadi kaLuka 24 from verse 28 to apho iNkosi ithi masime khona. Kungena umam' uNgesi notat' uMavokwana bengqina ezwini, bebabaza ukubaluleka kokuhlala Kuye. 

Inspired by previous conversations on Kholosa Ngaye, Tabita with Bishop Bongani Skiet unpack peace, forgiveness & boundaries so that we answer the question is cutting people off aligned with Christian values?  

Tabita in conversation with Pastor Zanele Shwane on a common matter of condemnation what it is as per the scripture, what it communicate to a person when it occurs & how to overcome it. 

Every show Tabita starts the show officially with a prayer that sets the tone for the show Kholosa Ngaye.

Tabita is in conversation with Mamisto Maqelena to unpack how marriage works in the context of Christian values. She responds candidly to questions from listeners that capture the reality of the challenges that come with the institute of marriage. 

Tabita in conversation with Pastor Prince Koti to understand the value of learning about death before it occurs in ones life. Pastor Prince Koti, also unpacks the 5 stages of grief & responds to some listener interactions on this topic. 

We often dress-rehearse tragedy when we experience answered prayers & seasons of joy. Tabita is in conversation with Pastor Babongile Moto who teaches and prays about that spirit of anxiety that envelopes believers when they experience God's goodness. 

Tabita in conversation with HIV Ambassador & Activist Mpho Ntoni- Mbeki who captures her own inner thoughts after learning about her HIV status & how God has lead her to become public facing to bring purpose to her previous source of shame & self-judgement.  

This word was delivered in the last hour of Kholosa Ngaye after a soul barring conversation with listeners on whom they need to forgive or whom they to seek forgiveness from. It is a subject matter that needs to be visited often because life is eventful & some events require has to tap into the word, prayer & worship in order to enable a release & letting of things that no longer serve us. 

For Kungenceba Tabita is in conversation with Brian Saul known to many as Oufadafada about his experiences that see him redeemed by the power of God & service to others. He takes us through the journey of how he overcame 2 forms of addiction & what he now does to remain in purpose. 

Tabita Busani sits down with Apostle Fika to discuss the characteristics of leadership in the context of the church. He shares insight & responds to listeners concerning their experiences with leadership in the church. 

Cultivating discernment a conversation by Tabita Busani with Apostle Bathandwa Kwatsha. In the context of faith many are finding themselves being lead by those with questionable spiritual agendas. This conversations attempts to give language & skills for discernment.

A conversation between Tabita Busani & Sisipho Mkutukana on what spiritual maturity is & how we can cultivate it. The conversation also dispels myths that spiritual maturity comes with the number of years one has been a believer for example.

A conversation between Tabita Busani & Nwabisa Msikinya discussing the need to apply spiritual maturity to the media we consume. This conversation makes a connection between being spiritual mature & curating media with that value.