Have you ever found yourself in the middle of a conversation with your loved one and suddenly noticed that you weren't listening and that they were asking you a question? We can all get so distracted with all the "to-dos" of the season that we fail to listen closely or at all.  Focus on the Family Counselor Glenn Lutjens will be jumping into this conversation on Thursday to offer tips on becoming a better listener and going beyond just listening to hear what is going on in the heart of those who share.