Caitlyn Jenner may be on reality TV and Vanity Fair, Laverne Cox is sensational in 'Orange is the New Black' and Transgender people have never been so prominant But what is life really like to become a woman when you are in your forties. Julia Doulman joins us to reveal the complexities of life and the reality behind the gloss. We also chat about what we opt out of and let the blokes do. Plus what makes us happy and grateful and the ultimate account of a man 'doing it all'.

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