Jay,

I could definitely use help. I've unfortunately been having some thoughts about breaking up with my boyfriend. I've been having these thoughts since September. And I procrastinated and procrastinated, but, I'm not in love with him anymore. Nothing really has happened except I just fell out of love and I honestly just want to move on with my life. I finally came up with the courage last week to do it. And then guess what happened.. he got fired from his job!!! And I couldn't muster up the courage to kick him out while he was down. At Thanksgiving, he talked about how he loved sleeping in and was going to take the rest of the year off before he starts to look for a new job. He barely has any money in the bank and that comment from him kinda makes me want to dump him even more but, then I don't want to dump him while he's broke and unemployed and not to mention Christmas is coming up! WHAT DO I DO???? - Kim