Dear Jay,

I've been dating this guy for a while. He's pretty cool. But he told me he cheats on his taxes. I don't know if that sounds silly or if maybe it's not a big deal to others, but, it's honestly freaking me out a bit. I'm having this weird moral dilemma, is this going to translate somewhere else down the line? Like, does he have no integrity? If he's willing to cheat on his taxes what else will he cheat on or lie about? - Rebecca