This week on the show, we're talking about something that pretty much everyone can relate to: wonky interpersonal relationships. Even in the best of times, human relationships can be tricky. Honestly, it's a wonder we create the social bonds we do considering how many things get in the way of a good connection. Tune in to find out how to help nice people get better at helping you, and how to step out of endless arguments that aren’t going anywhere. Don’t miss it! 

In this episode we cover:
why it’s so hard to describe your personal experience so other people get it
how to overcome that “crisis of translation” (including a shout out to one of my all-time favorite movies, Powder - in which I misremember who was actually in that movie)
the one communication tool that helps make interpersonal communication a whole lot easier (it’s a useful trick - promise!)
how to enforce your boundaries without getting into endless arguments with people who just won’t listen 

 

IMPORTANT DISCLAIMER: in the show, I say that Cher starred in the movie, Powder. Cher is not in the 1995 movie, Powder - I had a memory glitch. Still a great movie though. 

 

Questions to Carry with you:
playful, low stakes ways to practice the communication tools we talked about in this week’s show. Give it a go! 

 

Resources:

For ideas on how to help a grieving partner, check out this article in GQ magazine . Lots of stuff in the article applies to the ways you might support anyone you care about (not just a partner) 

 

Thanks for listening to this week’s episode of Here After with Megan Devine. Tune in, subscribe, leave a review, send in your questions, and share the show with everyone you know. Together, we can make things better, even when they can’t be made right. 

To submit your questions by voicemail, call us at (323) 643-3768 or visit megandevine.co

For more information, including clinical training and consulting, visit us at www.Megandevine.co

For grief support & education, follow us at @refugeingrief on IG, FB, & TW

Check out Megan’s best-selling books - It’s Okay That You're Not Okay and How to Carry What Can’t Be Fixed - at refugeingrief.com/book

This week on the show, we're talking about something that pretty much everyone can relate to: wonky interpersonal relationships. Even in the best of times, human relationships can be tricky. Honestly, it's a wonder we create the social bonds we do considering how many things get in the way of a good connection. Tune in to find out how to help nice people get better at helping you, and how to step out of endless arguments that aren&rsquo;t going anywhere. Don&rsquo;t miss it!&nbsp;
In this episode we cover:
<ul>
<li>why it&rsquo;s so hard to describe your personal experience so other people get it</li>
<li>how to overcome that &ldquo;crisis of translation&rdquo; (including a shout out to one of my all-time favorite movies, <a href="https://www.imdb.com/title/tt0114168/">Powder</a> - in which I misremember who was actually in that movie)</li>
<li>the one communication tool that helps make interpersonal communication a whole lot easier&nbsp;(it&rsquo;s a useful trick - promise!)</li>
<li>how to enforce your boundaries without getting into endless arguments with people who just won&rsquo;t listen&nbsp;</li>
</ul>
&nbsp;
IMPORTANT DISCLAIMER: in the show, I say that Cher starred in the movie, Powder. Cher is not in the 1995 movie, Powder - I had a memory glitch. Still a great movie though.&nbsp;
&nbsp;
Questions to Carry with you:
<ul>
<li>playful, low stakes ways to practice the communication tools we talked about in this week&rsquo;s show. Give it a go!&nbsp;</li>
</ul>
&nbsp;
Resources:
For ideas on how to help a grieving partner, check out this <a href="https://www.gq.com/story/how-to-support-your-partner-through-grief">article in GQ magazine </a>. Lots of stuff in the article applies to the ways you might support anyone you care about (not just a partner)&nbsp;
&nbsp;
Thanks for listening to this week&rsquo;s episode of Here After with Megan Devine. Tune in, subscribe, leave a review, send in your questions, and share the show with everyone you know. Together, we can make things better, even when they can&rsquo;t be made right.&nbsp;
To submit your questions by voicemail,&nbsp;call us at (323) 643-3768&nbsp;or visit megandevine.co
For more information, including clinical training and consulting, visit us at <a href="http://www.megandevine.co/">www.Megandevine.co</a>
For grief support &amp; education, follow us at @refugeingrief on <a href="https://www.instagram.com/refugeingrief/">IG</a>, <a href="https://www.facebook.com/refugeingrief">FB</a>, &amp; <a href="https://twitter.com/refugeingrief">TW</a>
Check out Megan&rsquo;s best-selling books - <a href="http://refugeingrief.com/book">It&rsquo;s Okay That You're Not Okay and How to Carry What Can&rsquo;t Be Fixed</a>&nbsp;- at refugeingrief.com/book

Life is full of difficult things, from tiny everyday disappointments to life-altering events. Everyone’s at least a little bit Not OK, something grief expert and psychotherapist Megan Devine knows from the inside out. In wide ranging, insightful, deep conversations, Megan talks with people about their often invisible losses - and what they’ve learned about being seen and supported in difficult times. 

With guests pulled from the front lines of entertainment, medicine, education, and activism, the conversations in It’s OK that You’re Not OK are funny, complex, emotional, and hopeful - maybe not your typical dinner party topics, but none of us are entirely OK, and it’s time we start talking about that.

New episodes each and every Monday, from the author of the best-selling book, It’s OK That You’re Not OK, and iHeartMedia. Find Megan online at @refugeingrief & follow the show @ItsOKPod

Life is full of difficult things, from tiny everyday disappointments to life-altering events. Everyone’s at least a little bit Not OK, something grief expert and psychotherapist Megan Devine knows from the inside out. In wide ranging, insightful, deep conversations, Megan talks with people about their often invisible losses - and what they’ve learned about being seen and supported in difficult times. 
With guests pulled from the front lines of entertainment, medicine, education, and activism, the conversations in It’s OK that You’re Not OK are funny, complex, emotional, and hopeful - maybe not your typical dinner party topics, but none of us are entirely OK, and it’s time we start talking about that.
New episodes each and every Monday, from the author of the best-selling book, It’s OK That You’re Not OK, and iHeartMedia. Find Megan online at @refugeingrief &amp; follow the show @ItsOKPod

It’s OK That You’re Not OK with Megan Devine

Lost In Translation: Relationships Under Stress

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