When you marry, your heart overflows with enthusiasm, exhilaration, and optimism. But soon after, differences in temperament, gender, family of origin, and marital expectations collide. Before long, your dialogue degrades with frequent accusations and debates about perspective. Dr. Donald W. Welch will show us the enemy in this fight isn’t your spouse. Unmanaged reactivity, those involuntary and unregulated reactive messages you inadvertently send your spouse when you’re triggered, is the culprit.