In this episode of If You Knew Better, Amber Grimes sits down with Eric Bellinger for a powerful conversation about emotional safety, vulnerability, and the foundations of healthy relationships. Eric reflects on how grief shaped his emotional journey [03:04], the impact of family dynamics on the way he learned to express feelings [05:58], and the importance of setting relationship standards rooted in trust and communication [09:03] [11:54]. The discussion also explores masculinity and emotional openness [15:13], the role of compromise in long-term partnerships [17:59], and how growth and change can strengthen relationships over time [20:54].

The conversation deepens into the transformative power of vulnerability [24:02] [27:58], navigating emotional safety and trust [30:45], and how grief can become a catalyst for personal growth [32:56]. Eric shares how music became an outlet for expressing emotions [35:21], the role therapy played in his self-awareness journey [39:12], and how fatherhood reshaped his understanding of masculinity [41:29]. Through honest reflections on emotional awareness, reciprocity, and supporting loved ones [48:38] [50:05], Eric offers valuable insight into building stronger relationships, embracing vulnerability, and celebrating fatherhood through both life and music [51:28]. 

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In this episode of If You Knew Better, Amber Grimes sits down with&nbsp;Eric Bellinger&nbsp;for a powerful conversation about emotional safety, vulnerability, and the foundations of healthy relationships. Eric reflects on how grief shaped his emotional journey [03:04], the impact of family dynamics on the way he learned to express feelings [05:58], and the importance of setting relationship standards rooted in trust and communication [09:03] [11:54]. The discussion also explores masculinity and emotional openness [15:13], the role of compromise in long-term partnerships [17:59], and how growth and change can strengthen relationships over time [20:54].
The conversation deepens into the transformative power of vulnerability [24:02] [27:58], navigating emotional safety and trust [30:45], and how grief can become a catalyst for personal growth [32:56]. Eric shares how music became an outlet for expressing emotions [35:21], the role therapy played in his self-awareness journey [39:12], and how fatherhood reshaped his understanding of masculinity [41:29]. Through honest reflections on emotional awareness, reciprocity, and supporting loved ones [48:38] [50:05], Eric offers valuable insight into building stronger relationships, embracing vulnerability, and celebrating fatherhood through both life and music [51:28].&nbsp;
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You can’t rewrite the past — but you can learn from it. Amber Grimes did exactly that, going from college dropout to Executive Vice President in the entertainment industry with no map, just mistakes and lessons that turned into power moves.

 

If You Knew Better is where Amber shares that wisdom — alongside artists, creatives, and culture-shifters who open up about the missteps they made, the mindsets that changed everything, and the game they wish they knew sooner.

 

Together, they unpack the highs, the lows, and the pivots in life, career, and relationships — so you either don’t have to go through it, or can move smarter when you do.

 

Every episode delivers real talk, hard-won insight, and practical gems to help you grow into the version of yourself that knows better… and does better.

You can&rsquo;t rewrite the past &mdash; but you can learn from it. Amber Grimes did exactly that, going from college dropout to Executive Vice President in the entertainment industry with no map, just mistakes and lessons that turned into power moves.
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If You Knew Better is where Amber shares that wisdom &mdash; alongside artists, creatives, and culture-shifters who open up about the missteps they made, the mindsets that changed everything, and the game they wish they knew sooner.
&nbsp;
Together, they unpack the highs, the lows, and the pivots in life, career, and relationships &mdash; so you either don&rsquo;t have to go through it, or can move smarter when you do.
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Every episode delivers real talk, hard-won insight, and practical gems to help you grow into the version of yourself that knows better&hellip; and does better.

If You Knew Better with Amber Grimes

Eric Bellinger Knows Men Cry Too 

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