In this deeply personal episode ofIf You Knew Better, Amber Grimes reflects on the life lessons hidden within her tattoos, using each piece of ink as a marker of growth, grief, love, and self-discovery. From navigating the weight of loss and the emotions that inspired early tattoo decisions [02:54] to lessons learned from impulsive choices in relationships [05:50], Amber explores how significant moments have shaped her perspective over time. She also discusses the illusion of covering up pain rather than addressing it [09:09], the meaning behind friendship tattoos and evolving relationships [11:58], and the temporary nature of trends and external validation [14:53].

The conversation expands into the role boredom can play in poor decision-making [18:12], the story behind her final tattoo and the wisdom passed down from her parents [21:09], and the importance of embracing mistakes as part of the human experience [24:01]. Through vulnerability, humor, and self-reflection, Amber shares valuable insights on personal growth, self-awareness, and the lessons that come from living, learning, and trusting the journey. This episode serves as a reminder that every scar, story, and mistake can become a meaningful part of who we are.

Follow Amber Grimes on Instagram:

@ambergrimes

Get Amber's Newsletter on Substack

Watch This Episode on Youtube Thursday at 6pm ET 

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Read Amber's Favorite Books

In this deeply personal episode of If You Knew Better, Amber Grimes reflects on the life lessons hidden within her tattoos, using each piece of ink as a marker of growth, grief, love, and self-discovery. From navigating the weight of loss and the emotions that inspired early tattoo decisions [02:54]&nbsp;to lessons learned from impulsive choices in relationships [05:50], Amber explores how significant moments have shaped her perspective over time. She also discusses the illusion of covering up pain rather than addressing it [09:09], the meaning behind friendship tattoos and evolving relationships [11:58], and the temporary nature of trends and external validation [14:53].
The conversation expands into the role boredom can play in poor decision-making [18:12], the story behind her final tattoo and the wisdom passed down from her parents [21:09], and the importance of embracing mistakes as part of the human experience [24:01]. Through vulnerability, humor, and self-reflection, Amber shares valuable insights on personal growth, self-awareness, and the lessons that come from living, learning, and trusting the journey. This episode serves as a reminder that every scar, story, and mistake can become a meaningful part of who we are.
Follow Amber Grimes on Instagram:
<a href="https://www.instagram.com/ambergrimes">@ambergrimes</a>
<a href="https://substack.com/@withambergrimes">Get Amber's Newsletter on Substack</a>
<a href="https://youtube.com/@iykbetter?si=WMEDSWNJOsxlRkD0">Watch This Episode on Youtube Thursday at 6pm ET&nbsp;</a>
<a href="https://www.instagram.com/ambersbookclub/">Follow Amber's Book Club </a>
<a href="https://ambersbookclub.com/collections/hats">Get Amber's Book Club Merch&nbsp;</a>
<a href="https://a.co/d/01GreLFP">Read Amber's Favorite Books</a>

You can’t rewrite the past — but you can learn from it. Amber Grimes did exactly that, going from college dropout to Executive Vice President in the entertainment industry with no map, just mistakes and lessons that turned into power moves.

 

If You Knew Better is where Amber shares that wisdom — alongside artists, creatives, and culture-shifters who open up about the missteps they made, the mindsets that changed everything, and the game they wish they knew sooner.

 

Together, they unpack the highs, the lows, and the pivots in life, career, and relationships — so you either don’t have to go through it, or can move smarter when you do.

 

Every episode delivers real talk, hard-won insight, and practical gems to help you grow into the version of yourself that knows better… and does better.

You can&rsquo;t rewrite the past &mdash; but you can learn from it. Amber Grimes did exactly that, going from college dropout to Executive Vice President in the entertainment industry with no map, just mistakes and lessons that turned into power moves.
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If You Knew Better is where Amber shares that wisdom &mdash; alongside artists, creatives, and culture-shifters who open up about the missteps they made, the mindsets that changed everything, and the game they wish they knew sooner.
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Together, they unpack the highs, the lows, and the pivots in life, career, and relationships &mdash; so you either don&rsquo;t have to go through it, or can move smarter when you do.
&nbsp;
Every episode delivers real talk, hard-won insight, and practical gems to help you grow into the version of yourself that knows better&hellip; and does better.

If You Knew Better with Amber Grimes

Amber Knows Emotions Are Temporary But Decisions Are Permanent

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