Summary: 

In this episode, Shaunti and Jeff Feldhahn sit down with author, counselor, and father-daughter relationship expert Michelle Watson Canfield to explore one of the most challenging seasons of parenting: connecting with adolescent daughters. 

Many dads feel uncertain about how to respond when their daughters become more emotional, pull away, or seem resistant to their efforts. Michelle shares a powerful insight she has observed through years of counseling: many men would rather do nothing than risk doing it wrong—but when it comes to fathering daughters, stepping back often creates more distance. 

Together, Shaunti, Jeff, and Michelle unpack why dads often feel sidelined during the teenage years, how mothers can become caught in the middle, and practical ways fathers can stay engaged even when conversations feel awkward or difficult. 

You’ll learn: 
Why many dads instinctively pull back—and why that can be harmful 
How to stay calm and grounded when emotions run high 
Practical ways to pursue your daughter with intention and consistency 
Why your presence matters more than your perfection 
How to build trust and connection during the adolescent years 

If you've ever felt unsure how to connect with your daughter—or worried that you're getting it wrong—this conversation will equip and encourage you to keep showing up. 

Because your daughter doesn't need a perfect dad. She needs an engaged one. 

Links and Resources: 

Website: drmichellewatson.com 

Facebook: www.facebook.com/drmichellewatson 

Instagram: michellejwatson and thedadwhispererpodcast 

Twitter: @mwatsonphd 

LinkedIn: Dr. Michelle Watson Canfield 

The Dad Whisperer Podcast: Apple Podcasts + Spotify 

YouTube: @thedadwhisperer 

Summary:&nbsp;
In this episode, Shaunti and Jeff Feldhahn sit down with author, counselor, and father-daughter relationship expert Michelle Watson Canfield to explore one of the most challenging seasons of parenting: connecting with adolescent daughters.&nbsp;
Many dads feel uncertain about how to respond when their daughters become more emotional, pull away, or seem resistant to their efforts. Michelle shares a powerful insight she has&nbsp;observed&nbsp;through years of counseling: many men would rather do nothing than risk doing it wrong&mdash;but when it comes to fathering daughters, stepping back often creates more distance.&nbsp;
Together, Shaunti, Jeff, and Michelle unpack why dads often feel sidelined during the teenage years, how mothers can become caught in the middle, and practical ways fathers can stay engaged even when conversations feel awkward or difficult.&nbsp;
You&rsquo;ll&nbsp;learn:&nbsp;
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If&nbsp;you've&nbsp;ever felt unsure how to connect with your daughter&mdash;or worried that&nbsp;you're&nbsp;getting it wrong&mdash;this conversation will equip and encourage you to keep showing up.&nbsp;
Because your daughter&nbsp;doesn't&nbsp;need a perfect dad. She needs an engaged one.&nbsp;
Links and Resources:&nbsp;
Website: drmichellewatson.com&nbsp;
Facebook:&nbsp;<a href="https://www.facebook.com/drmichellewatson">www.facebook.com/drmichellewatson</a>&nbsp;
Instagram:&nbsp;michellejwatson&nbsp;and&nbsp;thedadwhispererpodcast&nbsp;
Twitter: @mwatsonphd&nbsp;
LinkedIn: Dr. Michelle Watson Canfield&nbsp;
The Dad Whisperer Podcast: Apple Podcasts + Spotify&nbsp;
YouTube: @thedadwhisperer&nbsp;

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Relationship tripwires. Mental health puzzles. Confusing work dynamics. You&rsquo;re not the only one scratching your head. But now you have a secret decoder ring! Each episode of I Wish You Could Hear This is packed with proven, simple, and surprising secrets that help you thrive in life, faith, and relationships. Researchers Shaunti and Jeff Feldhahn have spent decades interviewing and surveying more than 40,000 people to identify the little things that make a big difference in our lives. They&rsquo;re Harvard-educated, Christian authors and speakers who also happen to be happily married, analytically minded, and a whole lot of fun! Join them and their guests for real stories, real help, and real hope.

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